Hi, so I’ve been a member of this community for a few months now, agreeing in many thing with the ideology but I was still dating women, it wasn’t until I broke up with my last girlfriend (whom had officially become my girlfriend for 2 days after dating for almost a month) that I have finally become women-free and finally enjoying it.
So a little background on this:
– I’ve always had a difficult time trying to get women’s attention or dating them even though I’m a good looking guy with a lot going on, dating became a hassle most of my life.
– I had 3 officially crazy girlfriends, and by crazy I mean Borderline Personality Disorder, we were together for max 3 months each, to one of them I lent 00 to help her pay her studies and she took 3 years to pay back only after constant pressure from me.
– Had only 1 good girlfriend who was my first one when I was 19.
-The non-crazy girlfriends that I had still showed me that women are naturally selfish.
– The last one I had who became official after 1 month of dating only to break up 2 days later because not only she is a 25 year old virgin due to “trust issues” towards men but one day I invited her to my place and when I came out of the shower she was gone leaving my flat’s door wide open because she got into my facebook and saw innocent conversations with a girl-friend in which I was talking about her though not in a bad way but that was enough for her to cause a huge drama where I worried so much since she didnt answer the phone that I thought she had been kidnapped and because of this stress I got sick and then had to break up with her as I wasn’t going to tolerate more craziness.
– But the cherry of the cake so to say was when I found out what women really want, nobody knows what women want, we shouldn’t care, however I found out about something they really want:
ATTENTION AND VALIDATION
We all know this, however, we don’t know how deep the rabbit hole goes: I found out that attention and validation is so important to them to the point where many times that’s absolutely ALL THEY WANT which is incredibly immature and stupid. As a man, we’re told we only want sex, even if this were true, sex is maybe the most pleasurable feeling on earth, so it makes sense. But to hold attention and validation as the most important thing in the world even more so than sex or anything else and completely ignoring sex and everything else is just so incredibly stupid that I lost all respect for them.
I found out this when one f~~~ buddy begged me, convinced me, to go visit her in her country Bulgaria (me living in Czech Republic) just to ignore me and go somewhere to get her nails done. This was difficult for me to understand, it never made sense, when we had met before we were having sex 3 times a day for the 4 days we were together and now simply ignore me to get your nails done?
I found out the reason: She NEEDED ATTENTION AND VALIDATION, they can’t even control it, it’s automatic, and didn’t even care about sex, so the moment she saw me arriving at the door then her needs were finally met: She got ATTENTION. At that moment she didn’t need anything else so she just ignored me. (Not only selfish, but they can’t even comprehend this, they are like animals)
Then I keep having women contacting me through facebook because they saw my profile in a conversation exchange site and asking me to go out with them for a coffee or beer and the moment I say yes, do you know what they answer? …”Oh I’m busy, I can’t, blah, blah, blah” So why contact me and ask me to go out in the first place? BECAUSE ATTENTION AND VALIDATION, and the moment I said yes, they got what they wanted, no need for meeting, no need for sex, nothing. I can’t respect a living creature that thinks this way. Now, I can’t see them as nothing more than sex objects, boring and annoying.
Most importantly, I must confess women don’t care about sex, you know why? Because if they wanted they can get it anytime, so it loses importance.
When you can get ice cream anywhere it just stops being important.
So, at the beginning I was still puzzled about my future, about perhaps trying to find a girlfriend again, a bit depressed, and not knowing how to handle my sex needs, until now:
After ignoring women for a month, I finally lost interest on them, on top of that I began to smoke good quality marijuana which has really helped to completely defeat depression, I swear I’m not depressed anymore and I’m also having fun just being by myself going to parks or at my place smoking weed just twice a week.
Also, before, I used to masturbate at night watching porn and couldn’t stop, I was doing it maybe 3 hours non-stop or more, feeling like an addict and thinking perhaps a real sex partner would be the solution to make me stop (though we all know it doesn’t work because the bitches don’t care about sex). but in order to fix that problem I bought one of those flesh-lights which totally feel like a vagina and I masturbate with it watching porn under the effects of weed which make it more intimate and realistic and I get off after 30 minutes completely satisfied and not thinking about porn or anything.
So now I feel so good everyday, no more depression, no more women, no more efforts trying to get one, it’s all good now. All of my needs are satisfied, if I need love from somebody that would be me and my family, I love my family and they give me real love, and for the sex needs now I have my flesh light and weed. For companionship women are actually boring and annoying, I have friends, and I’m also considering buying a dog which is ALWAYS a good company.
Voidraithe 4 years, 8 months ago.
