1 in 3 Japanese women want to be housewives: poll

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Only 33%?

You are so right bro! the rest 67% lied! I am f~~~ing tired of these meaningless surveys as if they help prove anything…

I would bet that this parallels the US if it was an anonymous online survey. Even at college age do you really think that all but the most resolute DIY feminist females or lesbians who know that a man won’t be supporting them really want to slog for forty years on a work treadmill?

In the 70s and 80s a large number of women actually referred to their college years as husband shopping.

The problem with American women is that they want all of the trappings of housewife, but they soon forget that the commitment side is to be the wife that she advertised.

Sandwich, blowjob, silence- and they can still f~~~ that up. You go gurl, and don’t let the door hit you on the way out.

Anonymous wrote:

I don’t care how many circles they make, they can bore a hole to China, I’m on a straight line that doesn’t turn or go back! I chose the MGTOW rocket sled!

Brother i don’t know where you come up with this s~~~, hilarious!

All i know is, that whenever i’m about to read one of your posts i need a new diaper, because i’m going to p~~~ myself laughing!

That third in the poll “want” to be housewives because it’s something they don’t have and thus covet. If you waved a magic wand and instantly made them housewives, those same respondents would quickly begin coveting something else.

This is nothing more than the all-too-human perception that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence.

They’re women. They’re coddled from the cradle until they hit the Wall. Thanks to that coddling, they can’t even contemplate being satisfied and, because they can be never satisfied, they will never know what they want.

Everything is all we’ve got wrote:

I plan to work in Japan but certainly don’t intend to let any women sponge off me while I’m there.

Things aren’t looking too rosy over there

I would strongly advise against that. Japan is pretty much the US 10-15 years in the future. You think feminism is bad in the West, if you think the inflation and printing are bad, if you think the censorship and SJWs are bad….then Japan will absolutely destroy you.

Japan is set on destroying itself. Keep an eye on it just to see what lengths they will go to when they truly panic. So far it’s put even more women in higher level positions and s~~~ over men even more. I think the Japanese samurai spirit has been completely crushed, hence I think feminism can destroy masculinity completely anywhere and so don’t think the US will last either. The Japanese were the most hyper masculine culture I’d ever heard of, full of honor suicide and kamikaze and all sorts of insane things.

Two atom bombs could not crush the Japanese man’s spirit. But feminism in under 30 years has done it.

FunInTheSun wrote:

I think they should build factories in Mexico so Donald Trump won’t have to build a wall.

I think we should open our borders and let all the gang bangers, drug dealers, and the poor come and turn this country into a third world s~~~ hole. That way when I retire early I can move to South America and won’t have to worry about gang bangers, drug dealers, and poor ruining my retirement since they’d all be up here.

Done some teaching in a small town in Japan a few years ago. Haven’t had the opportunity to go back there for work again, but would love to. One thing I almost instantly noticed, is what a male world the school was. All teachers were male, I’ve seen 1 room with women in it, which was the HR department.

The male teachers fairly early explained that the reason there were no women around the school, is due to women mostly getting married and staying at home to look after the children.

Recently came back from a holiday in Tokyo, which gave me a opportunity to observe Japan more.

As much as I’d like, I can’t really get to the bottom what the problem is in Japan. But I can sense something is wrong when I am there. Yes, I’ve read about Japan, the herbivore males, but those are all from Western sources. Never spoke a Japanese man about it. Would be hard to do, you won’t walk up to a Japanese guy you barely know and start asking questions.

Many males I worked with were single or unmarried, one young guy of my own age told me when I met him last year that he found a girlfriend, and had to go through a lot of effort to do so.

But coming back to “what is Japan’s problem”, I don’t know.

Noticed when I am there, that very little male-female communication took place. Japanese women had a preference to speak to my girlfriend. Japanese men preferred to speak with me. A waitress in the restaurant of the hotel would speak English to my girlfriend after I left. 3 very sweet high school girls who gave me and my girlfriend a free tour, would ask her questions about me and giggle with her when I was away for a minute, but instantly turn shy and silent the moment I got back.

Could be that they felt uncomfortable speaking English to a Westerner (shy because of their weaker English), but I would more suspect that Male and Females just don’t communicate much.

So given that males and females may not enjoy communicating, I can imagine that becoming an issue when it comes to finding partners.

As for the married couples. Do women stay at home because they found their meal ticket. Or is there also pressure from the guy involved because he doesn’t want to be shamed by society by “not being to provide for his wife”.

As for the money mentioned in the article, did a quick conversation of 300.000 Yen to the currency in the Asian country I live in. Basically that salary would be slightly below what I am earning. Which in the country I live in, given the high cost of living, is indeed “mediocre” / “above average”. Having noticed the very high cost of living in Japan (looking at how much money I spent being there), I can safely say that the salary mentioned is really “mediocre” at best, certainly nothing fancy. Japanese couple having to live of that, can probably get by, but not afford much luxury.

On a side note: Took me a while to realise it, because it’s not always obvious, but the way prostitution is done in Japan, is really horrible in my opinion.

sidecar wrote:

AgitoM wrote:

AgitoM wrote:

Or is there also pressure from the guy involved because he doesn’t want to be shamed by society by “not being to provide for his wife”.

Nope. Another survey found that barely 20% of single Japanese men want a stay at home wife. They want a wife who will get out and work and contribute to the household finances and won’t become a liability and dependent in a divorce. They’re not stupid.

Valid points in the first 2 statements. Not too sure about the third one concerning the survey. Lived in Asia, I have often noticed that what the “majority of individuals” feel, and what the “society as a whole” feels, is not always the same. It is quite possible that most Japanese men would prefer a working woman, but that society as a whole shames men who do not provide for their housewife. I am quite sure the survey you mentioned is correct, but what individuals say anonymously and what society says may not be the same.

In the Asian country I live is, nudity and sex are not really allowed on TV or in movies, society makes a strong statement about that every time the discussion comes up. (It will break down the moral fabric of society, it goes against their values, it demeaning for women, guys may cheat more, and what about the children who may see a pair of boobs by accident!) Funny enough, I don’t know a single person who would have difficulty with seeing nudity on TV. It’s not socially acceptable to say you are OK with it though.

Even more extreme, I’ve often participated in trainings in which participants literally had to choose a side on social issues. Without fail the majority of the people would take the side that they expected the group would find more desirable to take, regardless on whether or not it was their personal opinion.