Reply To: Are we powerless in the dating world?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Women have the power, but I doubt that they use this power wisely. I think many of them fail to recognize and appreciate the inward value of a man. If they would so, it would be much easier for them to find the ‘right one’ and be happy.

This is an absolute certainty, and don’t kid yourself gentlemen… a “no” from a woman is NOT a “failure”. We must all stop calling it that. What is she “rejecting”? Your attention? Your TIME? A free drink? Your generosity? An evening out on your dime? A eventual marriage proposal where you ask for permission to love her until death?

“Rejection” from women is BULLS~~~.
Its not a failure or a rejection.
She is saving him the trouble.

When you realize that getting rid of a woman is alot more costly than getting one to move in with you, only in a woman’s f~~~ed up mind does she think “no” is some kind of a “rejection”. You want to know how much power you REALLY have and how much she doesn’t have? Here it is. When you approach a woman for any interaction…

You don’t know her yet.
Therefore, she doesn’t MEAN anything to you.
And since she doesn’t MEAN anything to you yet…
Her “rejection” can’t possibly mean anything to you either.

Congratulations. You’re cured of all rejection.

As soon as you are aware of this, it’s not a “failure” anymore. Every man who thinks a “rejection” is some kind of failure, has just freely given his power away and handed it over to her. Women are so f~~~ing clueless about how to find a good / suitable man… but they are great at sucking criminal/ abusive/thug dick though. So what idiot would ever be the guy who tries to show that he’s the good guy? She wouldn’t know the difference or be able to identify a “good man” if he wore wings, a diaper, and shot heart-shaped arrows at her ass.

Ask yourself, what is the reward for female acceptance?
A simple sex act and a possibly pregnancy.

I don’t call that “success”.
Therefore the her “rejection” is no “failure”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.