Married for 7 years, wife left me with my daughter, now taking 50% of all income for child support. Then got into another relationship, in belief NAWALT, and after the 6 years of asking her to speak to me with a shred of respect, not having any physical relationship at all, I have finally realized, AWALT....takes some men longer than others I guess.
"I have much respect and love for this website. I’ve been lurking and reading the collective wisdom of my brothers for several months.... making daily (sometimes hourly) withdrawls from this “bank” of knowledge that is life-saving. Rarely have I found it necessary to add further. The wise sages that regularly impart wisdom here simply articulate their thoughts in a way that has me nodding my head in agreement without any idea of how to improve upon them."