My wife (ex-wife) decided to secretly have a weight loss surgery costing about £3000, even though I didn't think she had anything physical to worry about. They inserted a balloon into her stomach so she would eat less. That was when I thought that her world view is becoming alien to me. Then she had a allergic reaction to the surgery and I had to drive her 300 miles to the private hospital and back to have that balloon removed. A couple of days later she starts nagging me about removing a cardboard box with my stuff that's in "her way". I ignored her and kept watching a video on my iPad. She then grabbed my iPad and smashed it into a wall. £400 damage. That was when I felt the Red pill working.