https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4AHH0bdNKyM - Tupac about the difference between cool women and bitches. ( mostly)
The same ideas have come up to me as a result of my life and relationship experience.
Red Pill moment - breaking up with an ex and realizing I've been too nice to her, then seeing this video a few months afterwards just clicked with me. That was it. After that, finding MGTOW was easy.