Welp…..It’s been awhile and I’ve got a lot of s~~~ on my mind!. And two cents to drop.
First off, I’m speaking to new MGTOW members or members who have had thoughts of being in a relations~~~ or considering going into marriage (don’t.f~~~ing.do it).
I see Men out there who think, not feel, but THINK they need Female validation in their life because someway – somehow it will give their life “meaning”, “hope”, and the “promise of a better tomorrow”.
…..It f~~~ing won’t and here’s why.
In my life i have seen Men join the Gym(not for their own health reasons) but because their Girlfriend/wife/side bitch told them to look like that guy in the movies or on Instagram. Or Men who complete a task like a marathon, going to the Olympics, big or small accomplishments Men have done over the few years, all for them to say “A great man starts with a great woman by his side”….BULL F~~~ING S~~~!. You did that all on your own!, the talents that are within you were not because of some Female “giving you the confidence” you needed.
I’ve had friends get married, have a s~~~ ton of kids, work two jobs, be in abusive relationships all to have their lazy ass girlfriend/wife sit on her fatass and have nothing better to say or do but to nag, or gripe about every little f~~~ing thing he says and does, all to have the husband somehow justify the abuse by:
“I don’t want to be alone” or “she needs me”.
It’s that type of false validation Men are lied to day by day through idiotic commercials like Debeers, Jared Jewelry, and other types of Misandric commercials TV spews out making men seem weak, worthless, and dumb.
Whatever you set your mind to do, DO IT, you don’t need some c~~~ in the background cheering you one while she’s f~~~ing another dude.
You don’t need to justify getting married because you “Feel lonely”
You certainly don’t need any type of reason to “Get Gains” to impress any Female, but for health reasons and looking good for yourself!.
That’s my two cents, you don’t need Female Validation.
I apologize for an extremely long hiatus, 2016 I’d have to say was my year, it was awesome, I got to ride my Motorcycle with some buddies of mine from Utah all the way to Florida and had a blast, saw some amazing sights, encountered a few unnerving situations in sketchy parts of the USA, and met some great people along the way. I pretty much packed up all my s~~~, left all forms of social media behind and went on a journey.
Back in August of last year a few buddies of mine and I rode to Tennessee and I absolutely fell in love with the place, those smokey mountains are nothing short of breathtaking. I especially loved gatlinburg, friendly people, a few good bars – lot’s of space to ride, tons of places to see.
I ended up staying there for a good two weeks and just took in the sights and enjoyed it. I eventually went back home and ended my motorcycle tour with My buddies then heard about the Fire and decided to go back to Gaitlenburg and help out as best as i could with the rebuilding. I’ve been a licensed Carpenter for a few years now and was able to link up with a few other carpenters, so far it’s going good, a few big companies are providing wood, and few necessities. It’s slow going, but the work is for a good cause and I don’t mind it at all.
I guess what brought on this rant had to do with a recent suicide of My Former Boss, Here was a Guy who according to everyone “had it all” great job, 4 beautiful children, really nice log cabin house over looking a bluff, and a beautiful wife. Well what i found out was that after 26 years of marriage, His wife decided to find another Man who was an old fling (Via Facebook) she did the deed with her lover, and decided to leave her Husband of 26 years get a divorce, grabbed the children, get the child support and alimony. After a few months of not seeing His kids, My former boss sold all of his personal items, set the money aside for all his children, and hung himself inside of his garage….
When I heard the news, I couldn’t f~~~ing believe it. It made me realize that no matter what, the Female will never be happy, and no matter what you do, will never be good enough. It made me look within and think about past bulls~~~ relationships i had been in and how i tried to somehow validate the abuse, both mentally and physically, how I use to feel I was never good enough, or that i would somehow justify being in a relationship because “everyone else seemed happy”.
I later found out, happiness comes from within, and you create your own happiness and you create your own heaven or hell.
I hope all is well with my Fellow Comrades here at MGTOW.com. The site looks amazing, and can’t wait to stop by every once in awhile and have a chat. Hope everyone has a kick ass 2017.
Cheers Gents
-Deus Ex Machina
"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb
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