Perspective from a Redpill and Private Investigator

[Anonymous 1]

So I have a perspective to share as a Redpill man and a private investigator. Please note, in no way am I trying to solicit for business, however will gladly give my pearls of wisdom gratis.

First as a man. I have been keenly aware of the disparity between men and women since I was a boy. I watched women using the coin purse between their legs for decades, but perhaps thought I was immune.

2000 I move to Phoenix and buy a house on a golf course. The community was pretty much adult. I began dating a woman from Thousand Oaks that had moved in with a recently divorced female friend in Phoenix three months previously.
The ex had an 8 year old boy. The boys father is/was a drunk and drug addict living on the dole.

Ex has never had a career unless one considers bartending and having very large cans, a weakness I admit to. She of course is offended they would be objectified, but not opposed to using them to gain entry.

Ex has disagreement with friend and winds up on my doorstep, moving in, boy in tow. My house is two bedroom with a den. She takes over the den so she can create “art”. I am convinced her contribution is to take care of me and the house at a cost of $1,000.00 a month plus all her expenses, phone, insurance etc. Quickly taking care of me did not include on demand sex. Quickly everything done for her was never enough.

Warning signs:

She didn’t/couldn’t get a job and had no career so I had to put her to work for me. Immediately p~~~ed when reminded it was my business and not hers.

She mentions common law marriage a California law not Arizona. She is being groomed by California sister, more on that later.

On my ass to buy a bigger house in a neighborhood close to good schools and affluent friends that are also entitled bitches unhappy about being handcuffed to a wallet.

I buy the bigger house and made the mistake of quit claiming her on the deed. She immediately calls California sister to see if it’s real.

I sell other house and she is p~~~ed that I didn’t give her half the profits. (I bought that house on VA) She didn’t shed blood or money to live in it.

She’s an ugly drunk.

The mother:

Completely helpless. Lives with a man that takes care of all her needs and she is p~~~ed and unhappy. Moms also is drunk. The dynamic between the two is caustic.

The sister:

Married to husband number 2 with 2 kids, she targets her boss, a successful developer ending her marriage and his. Moves into his Thousand Oaks home and while on a visit there we go for a cruise in his sailboat, easily $500,000.00, she is heard lamenting about her name not being on the boat and treats him like s~~~.

She has a son with developer to seal the deal.

Has a Yoga studio in the garage and doesn’t work. The kids are now grown and out of the house. She has her lover living in the house. Developer husband, a really nice guy is a cuckold somewhere else. I hope it’s his new boat with a revolving door.

When I call a halt to this madness I pay for the ex to move, co-sign an apartment and put her through massage therapy school. I pay her $650.00 a month for child support because the boys father doesn’t and the boy and I develop a bond. Only men can teach boys how to be men. I got him every other weekend or when I wanted to. He’s 27 now and I am still his dad.

From the PI perspective:

Both men and women seem to cheat the same amount. Women seem more focussed on the money, it part because unlike the recent Southwest pilot, astronauts, doctors and other successful women, they chose another course. They don’t get for every one that can’t, there are a thousand that can. With women everyone gets a trophy.

Women come to me to find the assets and hidden bank accounts. I don’t think I have an opinion about men hiding a nest egg. As a PI that has been in the financial industry forever, I can find the bank accounts, brokerages, safe deposit boxes etc. I do it for embezzlement cases, I do it for estranged spouses and creditors rights cases.

Men that have been divorced in California come to me because they have to pay alimony forever and it’s crushing their souls. Also they made the mistake of marrying again and new wife isn’t keen to do with less. Men want me to find a way around the alimony.

One case I found a man living in her house, a marriage license and social media with her discussing their mountain cabin.

Another client divorce decree made him pay $4,000.00 for vocational training and $3,000.00 a month. She had to make reasonable efforts for find employment. I pulled 10 years worth of 1099/W2s only to find she hasn’t had a taxable income in 10 years. And why should she? Aside from pride and self determination, she is able to live off his alimony. She didn’t work the 17 years they were married nor the 5 years after the divorce. At 59 she is unemployable now and her coin purse has been closed for business for years.

I’ve done this both as a man and as a PI enough to attest my brothers, that even in the best of circumstances, women are actively contemplating how to get your money from you. They are looking for a golden parachute after they are fired as a wife/girlfriend or walk off the job because it requires effort.

Today:

My son is a B male. He wears his hair in a bun and works a nowhere job. His girlfriend makes more than him, is an A female and he lives in her house paying her rent. She calls the shots and really that’s a good thing because as a bluepill with questionable genetic code, he will be better off following rather than leading.

I live in Mexico by the beach with little to no stress. I have some women that I am great friends with, but the lines are clear, there will never be romance. I leave that for my big breasted Honduran whore that loves me unconditionally so long as I pay. I pay her a little extra to compliment me, tell me what a wonderful man I am. I agree with her.

Don’t beat up on me too much for being a Redpill too late. Again I am not soliciting for business. Some of you will have questions about financial issues I expect and I will answer them as best I can.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22515]

No one will beat you up, plenty here have equal or worse stories. Just glad you made it here in one piece.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Hey Ya Crazy old Gringo

It’s Customary to Post an Introduction Post PRIOR to Posting in any of the other Forums.

It’s kind of a way for YOU to tell us about yourself, and what brought you here as well as an opportunity for the members to WELCOME YOU.

Why don’t ya try that out ?

Thanks, and Welcome !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 12]

Never too late to wake up – though in older years it is hard as f~~~.

[bladeParticipant]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

No one will beat you up

They might , we don’t know .

Anonymous wrote:

Don’t beat up on me too much for being a Redpill too late.

Why were you so late . Thats f~~~ed . Are ya a johnny come lately or some s~~~ .

Just f~~~in around with ya . Welcome to the brotherhood.

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[BigDParticipant 3024]

You sound like Fred on Everything. Is that your Mr. Reed?

Welcome to the club house by the way.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[xanthineParticipant 4903]

Man this has got to be one of the best intro’s I’ve ever read. Welcome to the site Brother. Hope to read more from you.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

Hello, C.O.Gringo .. fascinating info. thnx.

[TheSpiceParticipant 2644]

Awakened wrote:

Hey Ya Crazy old Gringo

It’s Customary to Post an Introduction Post PRIOR to Posting in any of the other Forums.

It’s kind of a way for YOU to tell us about yourself, and what brought you here as well as an opportunity for the members to WELCOME YOU.

Why don’t ya try that out ?

Thanks, and Welcome !!

xanthine wrote:

Man this has got to be one of the best intro’s I’ve ever read. Welcome to the site Brother. Hope to read more from you.

I gotta agree with Xanthine. This is a great intro. Maybe we could move this thread to Introductions?

Edit: Welcome, CrazyOldGringo!

"I've been thinking about what it would be like if we got back together."
"You know it's too late for that."

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Great intro, CrazyOldGringo!

And welcome to the forums!

I am very much looking forward to your PI truth bombs about what women think, do, plan, plot and say.

We need this type of info here. Right from the source.

Saving men from the claws of c~~~s is our primary mission. And your knowledge will add even more neutrality and credibility than we already have.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[Knarley BobParticipant 2219]

Hello sir,
Welcome………..

OATHKEEPERS, not on our watch. MOLON LABE

[Anonymous 1]

Here is a PI truth bomb for you. We all have a currency that we use in our lives. For men it’s money, for women its sex. Men dangle money as bait to catch the sex fish. Women will gobble up the bait until a better meal comes by. Eventually men will become disenfranchised at being reduced to just money, women will become disenfranchised at being a sex object.

When this happens there becomes a economic imbalance in the system. The same amount of currency no longer has the same buying power. It’s emotional inflation. You will have to pay more for the same product until the price again goes up.

Many people save money as a hedge against inflation or unemployment. Women are always prepared to be fired because they don’t really like their jobs any more. They will then look for golden parachute I discussed previously which can mean another man that dangles bait in the pool. Always resentful at the golden handcuffs they never really learn to go a different path. Men too.

I guarantee Malania stopped blowing The Donald a long time ago. His money can only catch other fish and those fish will sell their sisters out for a nickel.

My ex tried to say her cleaning the house, doing laundry etc was a currency. I disagreed. I had a maid that came in and did what I asked, though I wasn’t all that particular. If I didn’t like what she did I could fire her. The maid I have now brings her daughter along. How much more difficult do you think it would be for me to fire a single mother with a kid that I know. The kids are the barb in the hook. Either the ones they bring along or the watermellon seed they spit out while with you.

If my ex didn’t bring her son along for the ride, I would have gotten out long before I did. In truth I am richer for having him in my life, my reasoning was simply I didn’t want to teach him that people were disposable and that men teach boys to be men by shouldering the yoke.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Well here is a business tip. Start advertising you are better money spent then a liars we pay to represent us in court. And you get more work done with often superior results.

I just need to see if I can find a service where you can do this anonymously. To much risk from a double cross.

Love to hear your ideas on this. Many of us could use P.I.s in the future.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[Anonymous 1]

I just need to see if I can find a service where you can do this anonymously. To much risk from a double cross.

Love to hear your ideas on this. Many of us could use P.I.s in the future.

In terms of advertising the forum forbid posting personal information that would allow professional services. That said I am on the front page of all search engines for my keywords etc and the reviews are all five star.
I have plenty of business which is a sad statement because I don’t deliver the American Families Sweepstakes Check. Additionally I personally would find it in bad taste to come into a forum and look for business. As I suggested though I will give pearls that might help.

Having worked directly for law firms in the past and in the courts now as a witness etc, I have some insight as to how the systems works or does not work. My experience is no one is really happy with the result, men or women.

When I am called by someone that is contemplating divorce, particularly from infidelity, I advise them they need an attorney because people have an unrealistic expectation as to what the courts will do for them. While I do this for a living, I don’t won’t people throwing money at me if I can’t deliver a work product that will be helpful. If their attorney advises them that what I can provide will be helpful then lets go. Arizona is a different animal as a no fault divorce state. The courts don’t give a damn what you do as a married couple. There is a formula for financial and child division they will stick to unless, one parent has shown to be a danger to the child.

I try pretty hard to keep people from hiring me because it won’t do that much to change the outcome, except in states that are not no fault. Still people want photos and videos of infidelity or they want to know if they are being cheated out of their “fair” share. Again I prefer an attorney to decide what could be helpful.

Just like lawyers, private investigators can tend to specialize in areas. Mine could be looked at like financial because that’s the field I was in for so long. Hiding money, fraud, embezzlement etc. The majority of states have a licensing law that requires us to get fingerprinted, background checks, a bond, and establish experience in some form. The Department of Public Safety licenses us.

My clients say in reviews I am pretty good at what I do, but I would never suggest I am a substitute for a lawyer.

So far as anonymous goes, we are not clergy or lawyers. If served with subpoena I am required to participate in the legal process. There is no privilege. That said, knowing the system I know how to do my job without exposing me of my clients.

What can a PI do? Some of the things listed may be illegal are are just examples of what can be done. A good PI will look out for his clients interest so far as violation of laws.

A PI can ping your cell phone and see exactly where you are.
A PI can pull cell phone records.
A PI can access credit bureaus without leaving an inquiry.
A PI can get hold of credit card billing statements.
A PI can pull 10 years worth of 1099/W2 tax statements.
A PI can in many cases can obtain ownership of a phone.
A PI can GPS cars and track them 24/7, in some states it’s illegal.

There is a long list that is in the black bag of PIs and not available to the public. No doubt privileged clients might have access to the black bag.

I am asked if cell phone activity such as text messages, emails, url visits etc can be tracked. The answer is yes, but I won’t do it. I tell people when the situation gets to a point where you think about doing things that can land you in federal prison, you need to step away for a different perspective.

Ok so I feel like I have been too verbose and have taken up everyones time with my narcissistic ramblings. Apologies.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

NO sir. You just proved that you are a man. Not copy and paste TUNA.

Thank you brother. And WELCOME to our family. And stop Apologising. 🙂

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

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