Finally seen the light (long story)

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

Hi guys, I’ve been lurking here for a while. I’ve seen vids on YouTube by Sandman and various others. I really feel like I belong here. I’m 38, from northern UK and luckily I’ve avoided marriage (been engaged twice and chickened out of the deal). I work a skilled job in manufacturing. Unluckily I ended up having 6 kids with the baby mother from hell.

It all started back at school. I fell for my friends sister, and over several years attempted to woo her and date her, all to no avail. I’m not a bad looking guy (so I’ve been told), and I had no shortage of c~~~s trying to date me. I even walked to her house through the snow (-5 degrees outside), to take her out only to get the cold shoulder. But when it comes to pussy, sometimes you never learn. I was in my early twenties, and desperate to get her. Eventually in 2001, my persistence (read stupidity) paid off. Started courting, and then moved her into my rented flat. I had a really good job at the time and was planning to buy my first home. I had a mortgage offer from the bank that would have bought me a really nice pad in a gorgeous village. However over the course of just four months, this viper killed all this. I lost my well paid job, and ended up getting a lousy minimum wage job in a laundry. I was in arrears with my landlord. She’d pressured me to sell my turbo injected Ford beast and buy something “family friendly”. Then she revealed the happy news to me in 2002: ” I’m pregnant”. Great! Things started going downhill from there, but I kept on doing what I could to make vipers life more comfortable. I should have seen the writing on the wall.
Came back from work, to find the flat cleared out and a note telling me that “I’ve gone home to think about things”. She had taken everything! I didn’t see her for THREE f~~~ing years. I found out secondhand information about my daughter from acquaintances, although I never found out where she lived. I spent three years distraught, moving from using bitches and at one point even ending up in prison. I thought I couldn’t sink any lower. In 2004, I finally started to sort things out. Funny how things go right in your life when there’s no woman to f~~~ it up. I stopped the heavy drinking, found a decent job, started investing in building companies and things were looking bright. I faced the prospect of never seeing my daughter. I’d already found out through looking at birth records that she’d put another man’s name on the birth certificate. Talk about kicking you while you’re down. As you can guess, the glory days didn’t last. Whilst I was out and about in another town, viper saw me driving my sleek Japanese sports car. Within a week, she was round at my mothers house with daughter in tow begging me to see them. Like a sucker I did. It wasn’t long before I was screwing her again, and eventually she got pregnant. Flash japanese car gets sold.
She decided she wanted to move away, and ended up moving to a crap council estate 70 miles away from me. I joined her but realised quite quickly that although I loved the sex, I didn’t love life with her. She even locked me in the house and took the key so I didn’t escape! Crazy when you look back! But I put up with her s~~~. I stayed in most nights. I put up with her giving my mountain bike away (all done when I’d gone out) and restricting any freedom I had.
Up to 2015 we had a sexual relationship, with me living there a few days a week, then returning back home. Every penny I made went to her. We ended up having 6 kids. Brains were obviously in the wrong place.I kept telling her that I wouldn’t move in, but would buy them a home near where I lived and would move in and support them, but she wasn’t having that!
Anyway 2015. She tells me she’s fallen in love with a neighbour (by text no less). I also find out from soxial media that her friends have been encouraging her to meet other men, and she’s been screwing around. I was distraught, angry, emotional. She was hitting the wall, and her weight had ballooned. I still cared for her, but I started to realise it wasn’t me that she wanted all along. She just wanted kids and a wallet. She was basically a prostitute. The relationship with the neighbour fizzled out, and she started to woo me again with promises that “things will be different” and sending me nude pics of herself. And guess what? I thought I could make things right. Well once a whore, always a whore. I’ve seen the light last year. As time has gone on, and as I’ve wanted less to do with her sexually, she’s been taking more and more of my parental freedoms away. She’s never wanted me to have a lot to do with the kids. Any clothes I’ve bought them disappear. Parent evening invitations have been rescinded. Now she’s stopped contacting me, and is blanking me when I try to contact her regarding kids. And my daughter, now 14, is a carbon copy of her mum. Entitled,ultra narcissistic and like a viper. But just like gambling or alcohol addiction, I’m done with my ex now. I’m breaking the chain. But I wish I’d done this years ago. I wish I’d found this community years ago.
But I’m in a good place now. I have a good job in manufacturing (I’ve been promoted twice so far), and I’m going down this Mgtow road. I’m a man trying to find peace and believe me without a woman taking every penny and nagging me, I’m finding peace. I drive the car I want to drive. I spend my time doing hobbies that I like. I can see friends now that I never had time for. Im looking and feeling better than evwr. I’m walking down the tunnel and finding light. I just hope I don’t lose access to my kids, but I’m prepared for that. It hurts but I am. I know looking at her Facebook that she’s out on the c~~~ carousel. I hope I can help prevent people making the same stupid mistakes that I made.
Sorry for the long post.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Did you ever DNA test any of the kids to make sure they aren’t some chad’s?

10-15% of children in Britain are not the children of the presumed father. And you know your ex screwed around.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Anonymous 3]

Great intro & WOW!! you really took a beating.
There is light, life & peace with the MGTOW lifestyle.
Stick with the winners. Stick with MGTOW

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

I read the whole thing, honesty! Man that is one of the craziest stories I have heard on this site, perhaps THE craziest. Its like you were thrown into the middle of a WWF Royal Rumble ring, getting tomb stoned by the Undertaker, figure 8-ed by Kane and Clothes Lined by the great Kali.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

Yep. I managed to do DNA tests behind her back, just to make sure. I didn’t do the official child support ones in case she ever went down the road of trying to stiff me for money in the future (which is what I think she’s working on). She’s been happy getting over £550 a week benefits (I think that’s close to $690) and taking money off me every month. She started screwing around at the back end of 2014 and through 2015.

[Anonymous 3]

And Welcome

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Princekie wrote:

Yep. I managed to do DNA tests behind her back, just to make sure. I didn’t do the official child support ones in case she ever went down the road of trying to stiff me for money in the future (which is what I think she’s working on). She’s been happy getting over £550 a week benefits (I think that’s close to $690) and taking money off me every month. She started screwing around at the back end of 2014 and through 2015.

I wonder which is worse for men, the Anglo countries (US, UK, Canada, Australia, NZ) or the Scand countries (Sweden, Denmark, Norway…)?

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Welcome
You should be in the express vasectomy line.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

Thank you for the warm welcome. I’ve managed to cover most of my bases. She could potentially get screwed over for claiming thousands of pounds of benefits (she didn’t name me as the dad to the child support people). However she is just as greedy to attempt to claim money and screw me over. Whilst this has been going on, I’ve managed to make up a backup plan should she set the authorities on me.

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

And yes, I have been a complete mug. Totally. All I’ve been doing is thinking with my dick.
Badddd move.

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

I wonder which is worse for men, the Anglo countries (US, UK, Canada, Australia, NZ) or the Scand countries (Sweden, Denmark, Norway…)?

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Probably scand countries. Over here the Child Support people can take money at source….without your consent.

[Mr.BlueParticipant 614]

Amazing Story. I can definitely relate as I took my ex back once, after she monkey-branched back to me but when she said she “needed space” again, I let her have all the space she could ever ask for the rest of her life. Now she tries communicating with me but I block every new number or form of communication. Luckily, I didn’t have children with her and I have overcome the emotional pain and at the same time building my body and finances. Some of my friends still have her on social media and tell me how she is seen with different guys from time to time but I highly doubt she will find a decent relationship. She was just lucky that I put up with her and tried helping her improve her life. Anyway… I am now free and life is good!

I know it will be tough for you, especially because of your children but you must remain firm and progress with your life. 38 is young and you still have a long time to build your future. Best of wishes brother!

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

Thank you for all the positive comments. I’m on my way to change my sim card. I think it’s time for a new phone number…

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

Just for my American friends… She receives at current exchange rates $723 per week. Plus a free four bedroom house.
She claims for all sorts!

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

Mr.Blue wrote:

Amazing Story. I can definitely relate as I took my ex back once, after she monkey-branched back to me but when she said she “needed space” again, I let her have all the space she could ever ask for the rest of her life. Now she tries communicating with me but I block every new number or form of communication. Luckily, I didn’t have children with her and I have overcome the emotional pain and at the same time building my body and finances. Some of my friends still have her on social media and tell me how she is seen with different guys from time to time but I highly doubt she will find a decent relationship. She was just lucky that I put up with her and tried helping her improve her life. Anyway… I am now free and life is good!

I know it will be tough for you, especially because of your children but you must remain firm and progress with your life. 38 is young and you still have a long time to build your future. Best of wishes brother!

Thanks bro. Its taken me a long time but I can see the light. I always thought I was pure alpha male, but when I look back at things I’ve really been taken for a massive ride.

[Anonymous 18]

Princekie wrote:

I’d already found out through looking at birth records that she’d put another man’s name on the birth certificate

At the very least she was a reservoir for another man’s cum at that point.

But you weren’t the smartest cookie around.

Pussy is hella drug.

Stay clean. Go monk.

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

Anonymous wrote:

Princekie wrote:

I’d already found out through looking at birth records that she’d put another man’s name on the birth certificate

At the very least she was a reservoir for another man’s cum at that point.

But you weren’t the smartest cookie around.

Pussy is hella drug.

Stay clean. Go monk.

Weren’t the smartest is an understatement. I’m now on damage limitation control.
I’ll be totally honest when I say I’m addicted to pussy, and was like a dog on heat for much of my twenties and thirties. For much of our so called relationship, I was dabbling with other women. I wasn’t completely faithful. With hindsight I realise I was just trying to walk away, and have a reserve in place. Dumb but true.
Now I’m not going to do that. I really have come to the end of the road with women. Completely and utterly. C~~~s the lot of them.

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

Looking back at all this, it makes me realise how much more successful I would have been in life if I hadn’t even entertained her. I’ve passed up so many opportunities its unreal. If I wrote them all down I’d be here all night.
I’ve wasted nearly 20 years of my life chasing an unappreciative bitch. Who has turned into an unappreciative land whale.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Princekie wrote:

Numerator wrote:

Princekie wrote:

I’d already found out through looking at birth records that she’d put another man’s name on the birth certificate

At the very least she was a reservoir for another man’s cum at that point.

But you weren’t the smartest cookie around.

Pussy is hella drug.

Stay clean. Go monk.

Weren’t the smartest is an understatement. I’m now on damage limitation control.
I’ll be totally honest when I say I’m addicted to pussy, and was like a dog on heat for much of my twenties and thirties. For much of our so called relationship, I was dabbling with other women. I wasn’t completely faithful. With hindsight I realise I was just trying to walk away, and have a reserve in place. Dumb but true.
Now I’m not going to do that. I really have come to the end of the road with women. Completely and utterly. C~~~s the lot of them.

One sure way (unless one has a cuck-fetish, in that case, abandon ye all hope) to stop pedestaling pussy is to imagine that golden vagina noisily queefing up the inevitable man-chowder from another guy, or imagine her head bobbing up and down on Chad’s c~~~ as she makes deep throating gurgling/gobble-gobble noises.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

Ranger One wrote:

Princekie wrote:

Numerator wrote:

Princekie wrote:

I’d already found out through looking at birth records that she’d put another man’s name on the birth certificate

At the very least she was a reservoir for another man’s cum at that point.

But you weren’t the smartest cookie around.

Pussy is hella drug.

Stay clean. Go monk.

Weren’t the smartest is an understatement. I’m now on damage limitation control.
I’ll be totally honest when I say I’m addicted to pussy, and was like a dog on heat for much of my twenties and thirties. For much of our so called relationship, I was dabbling with other women. I wasn’t completely faithful. With hindsight I realise I was just trying to walk away, and have a reserve in place. Dumb but true.
Now I’m not going to do that. I really have come to the end of the road with women. Completely and utterly. C~~~s the lot of them.

One sure way (unless one has a cuck-fetish, in that case, abandon ye all hope) to stop pedestaling pussy is to imagine that golden vagina noisily queefing up the inevitable man-chowder from another guy, or imagine her head bobbing up and down on Chad’s c~~~ as she makes deep throating gurgling/gobble-gobble noises.

Thanks for the advice. Funny thing was that when she hooked up with the neighbour I imagined that scenario. I should realise that every time I go near the ex (or any other woman for that matter), my life worsens. My freedom disappears.
I’m not going anywhere near c~~~ again. Got my new phone SIM, let family and friends know my new number.
I really thought over the years that it was me playing her. In reality I’ve been played by the master controller. Time to live for myself.

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