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I am far from celebrating because they’ve broke up and got back together a few f~~~ing times and they always act like it’s final (you know how that goes).  Right now he is in his head about it and is depressed but trying not to show it.  I’ve talked to him about red pill stuff while he was in his relationship (not forcibly) but he obviously wasn’t open to it.  Now he seems a lot more receptive to some of the things i say (how conveinent, but i also know how that goes as well.  Take away the heroin (pussy) from the addict (boyfriend) and he has to go let the fog clear to see the light.

How would you guys suggest me to handle this?  This happened before and he just ended up getting back with her making all of my attempts to help him think straight futile and drained me of my energy.  I want to be supportive but not too indulgent.  As of now, I’ll throw out one-liners or something to think about, but i’m not talking to him about it extensively.  For example, he mentioned how she keeps texting him when he won’t answer, and I said, “funny how the power is in your hands when you don’t care, but it’s in hers when you do”…..or since she is a single mother, I casually told him, “hmm….it seems like she is benefiting from this relationship a lot more than you”.

When he comes back, he’ll move on automatically.

He will only drink once he is ready or his survival depends on it. I have cut ties with guys like this. Dead weight

Sebastian

Take him on a vacation overseas where there is no cell phone or internet access. Just two bros bonding. Show him a good time with the local girls there. When he comes back, he’ll move on automatically.

Bro, I’m definitely not ballin like that

Sessna12 wrote:

Really nothing you can do besides lead the horse to water. He will only drink once he is ready or his survival depends on it. I have cut ties with guys like this. Dead weight Sebastian

I didn’t think so….

Also if he’s in a bunch of photos with a time line social media or something take a look at them,… there is a decent chance you could bring them up and point out how he seems so miserable in the photos when he’s in the relationship lack of smile, dead eyes and such.

In the end it is a “leading an ass to water” scenario you can give him the tools but he’s gonna have to pull himself out.

However, I would not turn up my nose at a chance to spend a month in the low dives of Bangkok if my best friend offered to take me along with him.

After my first LTR ended my roommate took me to Reno for a weekend and we had a great time. Had a ONS there with a postal worker out of sheer luck and forgot all about the bitch!

Easiest way to get over an old flame is to get under a new one. Or just bro it out and have fun regardless..

just be a buddy. take him out for a beer, ball game, strip club to cheer him up. whatever you guys do for fun. just be a friend and have fun together. [b]i bet he misses that and doesn’t even know it. [/b]

what a coincidence, because I missed it too when he got this hell sent of a girlfriend and stopped chillin with me.  But let me stop being bitter.

now she is sending him honey the pooh memes and he is talking about going to the bathroom to cry.  I legit want to smack the s~~~ out of him man.

Agreed with the brocation. Clears your mind. After my first LTR ended my roommate took me to Reno for a weekend and we had a great time. Had a ONS there with a postal worker out of sheer luck and forgot all about the bitch![b] Easiest way to get over an old flame is to get under a new one. [/b]Or just bro it out and have fun regardless..

and this is what I fear.  He will find a replacement and have the same blue pill tendencies regardless.  The problem is within him, not the chick.  I hope he doesn’t just latch onto someone else.