My point to all this bulls~~~ is this: if this girl had not made me begin realizing I don’t want a girlfriend for the reasons I thought; I wanted a girl for similar reasons to which girls want a boyfriend or husband. I wanted to impress my friends and make others jealous that an attractive girl is with me so I can flaunt at how amazing I must be because I have this person next to me. I wanted someone who will entertain me when I’m bored and maybe a little down and I wanted someone for sexual pleasure. These are standard wants but all of these are for personal gain and though that’s how it always starts, it goes against everything I’ve ever believed in. I used to want the hot girlfriend, then learned to not cater to a piece of ass. I used to want someone fun that will take care of me when I’m sick or whatever, then I remembered I’m a young adult who can handle himself. I also thought maybe I’ll just want sexual fun and explore my weird sexual mind some more with things that I thought I’ve always wanted; you guessed it, I don’t give a s~~~ about that either. No matter what she did right or wrong I didn’t care because it didn’t interest me.

All this is kind of like when I think I need to sell my truck to get a nice car. It all sounds great and wonderful at first but then I remember that truck is what everyone in my small town knows I drive. It starts up every day I need it to and I’ve literally driven it across the country and back numerous times and will again soon. It’s not cheap to drive and it’s not the most powerful but it does the job and I’m happy to be with that truck just as I am myself. I don’t need some whore to make me happy, I need myself, my dog, and my hobbies.

This may be boring to read for the few that will read it but I’m so ecstatic with a few of the many realizations I’ve had lately I had to share my jumbled mess of thoughts.

Sebastian

One reason why birds and horses are not unhappy is because they are not trying to impress other birds and horses.
–Dale Carnegie

if this girl had not made me begin realizing I don’t want a girlfriend for the reasons I thought; I wanted a girl for similar reasons to which girls want a boyfriend or husband. I wanted to impress my friends and make others jealous that an attractive girl is with me so I can flaunt at how amazing I must be because I have this person next to me.

Yep you have done well to be so self aware so young. The most important part is that relying on someone else to make you better is always going to end in tears. Also no one cares anyway if you have a hot chick on your arm, most people don’t notice, some just notice her and not you and then some usually MGTOW’s wonder how much crap that guy must be putting up with to keep her around.

You are mgtow at age of 20? That is what I call being ahead of the game. I wish I had only learned to be selfish at that age. Man you are going to have a blast. It’s your world bro. Do what makes got happy Sebastian

My thoughts exactly.

Im MGTOW at 31 without ever being married and I thought I was a clever champ.

You lucky bastard! 😀

Sessna12 wrote:

You are mgtow at age of 20? That is what I call being ahead of the game. I wish I had only learned to be selfish at that age. Man you are going to have a blast. It’s your world bro. Do what makes got happy Sebastian

My thoughts exactly. Im MGTOW at 31 without ever being married and I thought I was a clever champ. You lucky bastard! ?

I’m 22 and mgtow.  I thank God everyday I woke up so early. Went through one 2 year relationship saw all the red flags ignored the shaming of my peers and family have been better ever since. I’m not dumb enough to place hope on NAWALTS. I’ve learned from my own experience and others.

You are mgtow at age of 20? That is what I call being ahead of the game. I wish I had only learned to be selfish at that age. Man you are going to have a blast. It’s your world bro. Do what makes got happy Sebastian

I was MGTOW at age 20. Not too many of us at that age because at age 20, most people are just in a big search for pussy and don’t give a damn if it’s marriage material or not. Or they think getting married means unlimited access to a vagina. Few know, or even care about the long-term consequences that may result from this at that age, and most guys on here already wish they were aware of MGTOW at that age.