As most of you know, I have a female roommate who’s been VERY graciously housed by me in my one bedroom apartment.  I expected her to get a full-time job once she moved in with me.  She has a 2nd grade education (difficulty from being home schooled, though her brother motivated himself and graduated), and has no car or even a license to drive.  I did nothing to help her get back on her feet after losing her dad several months ago.  I exposed her to the real world.  She was expected to pay for her rent (I was nice enough to start it at $250 a month on my $785 a month rent, but upped it to $350…wow, she was angry about that!), pay for her own food, and take care of her much-worshiped cat.

I’ve noticed a pattern of how annoyed/angry she gets when I: 1) Misplace my keys or other important items (I’m the most forgetful person on the planet it seems, this is common), 2) play my music, movies, TV, YouTube videos too loud at night, 3) tell her I can’t take her somewhere that she “needs to go to”, 4) tell her that she owes me money.

Besides her, there is one other female me and my roommate speak to on occasion.  Though she’s likely not a NAWALT, she’s the closest thing to it that I know.  She has noticed the unfairness going on in the apartment and tells me the “girly secrets” they share when I’m away.  The latest thing she said made it take a LOT in me not to throw her stuff to the curb.  Apparently she thinks of myself and this other woman as “just acquaintances” and said that she’s moving to Florida because “no one wants to help her here and everyone just wants to take advantage of her.”  The only thing holding me back from tossing her garbage to the curb is I’m gonna get an extra bit of money from this AND a computer desk that I need.  She’ll be moving on July 9th.  Good riddance, really.  I sacrificed more than I should have while attempting to maintain my sanity and while making her take care of herself.  I wasn’t going to white knight by paying for her stuff, I was only giving her a place to sleep at night.

She’s lucky I discovered MGTOW after she moved in.

Just got one treat for you guys. The thing is, my roommate is male (at least biologically) but he actually tried to use the pussy pass from his girlfriend. It didn’t work. Neither with me or with my landlord (she is a woman as well, and since his girlfriend don’t pay rent, she couldn’t care less for her). I might tell more later, don’t want to comment on it while s~~~ is still going down.

My advice would be this: get as much evidence as you can from the things she does, and from the things you have. That saved MY ass, it is better to be safe then sorrow.

It is a good thing she is moving out. Good luck to you. 🙂

My advice would be this: get as much evidence as you can from the things she does, and from the things you have. That saved MY ass, it is better to be safe then sorrow. It is a good thing she is moving out. Good luck to you.

Oh, evidence is definitely being gathered.  I also find it funny how she’s consuming my food and drinks and thinks I won’t notice.  I bought a 32 pack of water, drank maybe 5 over last week, and it was already halfway empty!  She bought a Brita filter almost 2 months ago and it had been empty the past 2 weeks!  I found a water bottle embedded in my couch that I knew wasn’t mine.  I pulled it out as the roommate and that other woman was in the living room (where I currently sleep), and said “who does this belong to…?”, and the roommate replied with “oh, that’s mine.  Sorry about that!”

You know what?  I can forgive that.  Why?  Because as soon as I found out she was drinking down my waters and using other kitchen resources of mine, I decided to secretly help myself to the spices she has hidden in “her” room by refilling my own with her’s.  I mean, hey, it’s only a fair exchange…she thinks she can be sneaky on me, but I’ve got the upper hand here.  I think half of her garlic powder is worth a bottle of water. 😉

July 9 can’t come too soon, and another state sounds like a good place for her to be.

Sad to say (Ha Ha) I have no recent stories of stumbling over female nonsense, not that the world’s finished with female nonsense, they’re not, I AM! It’s way easier to cohabit with a man than it is with a nuisance (woman). You’re still too nice to these stray women, next time drop them off at the pound, and RUN!  

Here, a little trick I learned from H.R. Puff, something to sooth the pain!

She’s lucky I discovered MGTOW after she moved in.

I was thinking along those lines while reading your story. Knowing what I know nowadays, there’s no way I would let a woman rent a room in my home.

A friend of mine was in a similar situation about 10 years ago. He had a female roommate that turned into a girlfriend and eventual wife. He is now going through a nasty divorce and is not allowed in his own house.