MGTOWWhen Your Mother Discovers You're a MGHOW – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/when-your-mother-discovers-youre-a-mghow/feed/ Tue, 09 Jun 2020 01:01:52 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/when-your-mother-discovers-youre-a-mghow/page/443/#post-21010 <![CDATA[When Your Mother Discovers You're a MGHOW]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/when-your-mother-discovers-youre-a-mghow/page/443/#post-21010 Mon, 09 Feb 2015 15:48:12 +0000 I very well know I’m a grown man and can make my own decisions.

That being said, I’ll admit that it’s a little disappointing that I can’t get my own mother to accept that I’ve decided not to get married.  Of all things, I would have thought she would have respected my decision.  I believe she found out after reading Facebook comments I left on various news pages and other links that showed their obvious gynocentrism.  I normally comment “if this were a man, people would be calling for his head”, or comments of that nature.

She said she felt at fault for me being so “anti-female.”  I essentially told her it’s the gynocentric society that has made me the way I am.  She thinks that her verbal abuse towards me, my parents splitting over her cheating, and the frequent fights they had all related to my current viewpoints.  Surprisingly, she didn’t necessarily lash out and attack me for it, she merely voiced her disappointment in my choice.

Has anyone else had their mother (or even father, for that matter) have them call you “anti-woman” for this decision?  I’m a caring person for my family, but when I feel like I’m being seen as a villain for my choices, I’ll admit it hurts a little.  I’m trying not to let my emotions override my logic, but I suppose my family knows how to hit my “weaker” points.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/when-your-mother-discovers-youre-a-mghow/#post-21033 <![CDATA[Reply To: When Your Mother Discovers You're a MGHOW]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/when-your-mother-discovers-youre-a-mghow/#post-21033 Mon, 09 Feb 2015 17:16:51 +0000 Smitty the Great One Just accept being a villain, it’s quick, simple, and shuts people up. When they say you’re just angry with women, just nod and agree, then go away.

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/when-your-mother-discovers-youre-a-mghow/#post-21040 <![CDATA[Reply To: When Your Mother Discovers You're a MGHOW]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/when-your-mother-discovers-youre-a-mghow/#post-21040 Mon, 09 Feb 2015 17:58:23 +0000 I’ve never had a problem being called a villain before, I suppose it doesn’t hurt me now.

It’s just a shame that a family that normally has the same thought and logic as I do are so unwilling to see the gynocentrism of society today.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/when-your-mother-discovers-youre-a-mghow/#post-21041 <![CDATA[Reply To: When Your Mother Discovers You're a MGHOW]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/when-your-mother-discovers-youre-a-mghow/#post-21041 Mon, 09 Feb 2015 18:06:34 +0000 RoyDal As it happens, villains have their own blog. Here ya go! http://thepropervillains.com/

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/when-your-mother-discovers-youre-a-mghow/#post-21200 <![CDATA[Reply To: When Your Mother Discovers You're a MGHOW]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/when-your-mother-discovers-youre-a-mghow/#post-21200 Tue, 10 Feb 2015 01:26:04 +0000 flamesabers

Has anyone else had their mother (or even father, for that matter) have them call you “anti-woman” for this decision?

No, neither of my parents have ever called me anti-female or whatever.  The only thing my mom has ever expressed disapproval over is my lack of religious faith.  I think part of it is my mom knows I put a lot of thought with making major decisions, thereby I must have good reasons for not getting married or wanting kids.  The other part I think is my older brother is married and has kids, and it’s far from being an idyllic situation for my mom.  Her oldest son (my brother) is no longer the same energetic and friendly guy when he was single.  He’s tired a lot of the time, and he doesn’t talk as much as before during family gatherings. He seems like he almost always has to get permission first from the wife before making decisions.  When I call my mom, it’s usually just to talk or make plans to do something together.  When he calls mom, it’s not uncommon for him to be asking her to do babysitter duty so he and his wife can go out and get a break from the kids. Even though my mom loves her grandchildren, babysitting is frequently an exhausting task for her. I’m sure she appreciates how she can talk to me without distraction from a small child screaming in the background for attention. She’s even told me she hopes he and his wife don’t have anymore kids. It’s probably a relief rather than a disappointment for my mom that I’m not following my brother’s footsteps.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/when-your-mother-discovers-youre-a-mghow/#post-21207 <![CDATA[Reply To: When Your Mother Discovers You're a MGHOW]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/when-your-mother-discovers-youre-a-mghow/#post-21207 Tue, 10 Feb 2015 02:22:15 +0000 Being caste the villain is a function of where you are versus the orthodoxy.  At one point in my life, I thought there was something wrong with me which was why I had not ever found that special woman.  Now, the Internet has brought us all together to realize and reinforce to us that we’re not the problem. They are the problem.
As radical as it sounds, most people either cannot see gynocentrism or even worse applaud it.  This is all due to the controlled media implementing a gynocentric agenda with full spectrum dominance of all allowed thought.  Your mom just cannot understand as she has never been allowed a reference to even understand it so accept it and feel no shame.

My mom came from an older generation where most women had true femininity and honor.  The sluts were shamed and not celebrated as they are today.  If she were alive today, she’d understand us and agree with nearly everything we say here at MGTOW except for our colorful language.  She accepted my choice to remain single as she had born full witness to the meat grinder my relations~~~s with various women had been over the years.  Of course, the events that turned me fully MGHOW happened after her death, but I know she’d fully understand.

Walk your own path.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/when-your-mother-discovers-youre-a-mghow/#post-21213 <![CDATA[Reply To: When Your Mother Discovers You're a MGHOW]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/when-your-mother-discovers-youre-a-mghow/#post-21213 Tue, 10 Feb 2015 03:03:47 +0000 casquetero My parents are still digesting the idea that their oldest son has NO PLANS on marrying or having kids. But they are having some progress.

For many years, they believed I was gay because I had never brought a girlfriend to meet them. Even when I was in college (living away from them), they would show up earlier than expected to visit me in the apartment I was sharing with other guys and would check for signs of female presence (they almost got a glimpse of a former GF once). My mother still makes comments about not wanting to die without seeing me married – to which I answer than then she will live more than  a thousand years because it’s not happening soon (btw, she’s just 66). Ironically, it has being more difficult for my father to accept the reality, since he feels our “family name” deserves to continue – they have two granddaughters – even when our last name is a common Latin American one.

The harassment happened for years, but they stopped about five years ago. They had seen what I always answered them – the current generation of women is fatally flawed and they are not marriage material. They see it in my brothers’ relationships with their wives.  My youngest brother’s wife cannot keep a damned job for more than 2 months because she is always whining and complaining about the jobs and the hours. What did she expect with a high school diploma in times when people with Ph.D.’s have to flip burgers? In 8 years with my brother, she had worked maybe 10 months total… She just got fired – again – about a month ago.

My middle brother got the jackpot – his THIRD wife left him last week. HIS THIRD IN 15 years! The first one cheated on him with his boss and let him know by a couple of photos sent by email. That after a year of relationship. Three years later he found the second wife in bed with a drug dealer at his home – having anal sex on a bed he had bought days earlier. Now, the third one left him after 9 years. I haven’t talked to him on the phone, so I don’t know what happened… but I won’t be surprised if she cheated on him.

I think that my parents are finally understanding why I went my way years ago…

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/when-your-mother-discovers-youre-a-mghow/#post-21225 <![CDATA[Reply To: When Your Mother Discovers You're a MGHOW]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/when-your-mother-discovers-youre-a-mghow/#post-21225 Tue, 10 Feb 2015 04:10:31 +0000

“My mom came from an older generation where most women had true femininity and honor. The sluts were shamed and not celebrated as they are today”

Hey Pig, we lived in heaven compared to today, imagine having life the way it was before all this filth and disease became accepted as “normal”. Hell has a “normal”, and hell’s normal has become the nemesis of MGTOW, therefore we form a new “normal” a normal that your mother would more than understand. After all, destroying yourself with a woman is not “normal”.

@el Amigo, you said: “the current generation of women is fatally flawed and they are not marriage material”

@Amigo, fatal yes; the carnage in unfathomable, the human toll in suffering is tantamount to a living hell on earth; Our entire civilization is being destroyed by all these infractions over the spirit of man, and destroying the family along with individuality. The feminists will proudly wave their flag while the flames of their corruption consume them.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/when-your-mother-discovers-youre-a-mghow/#post-21229 <![CDATA[Reply To: When Your Mother Discovers You're a MGHOW]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/when-your-mother-discovers-youre-a-mghow/#post-21229 Tue, 10 Feb 2015 04:15:49 +0000 ... AGENT CATCRUNCH TROLL ALERT Sector 8 new member “MrsSubmission.”

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/when-your-mother-discovers-youre-a-mghow/#post-21237 <![CDATA[Reply To: When Your Mother Discovers You're a MGHOW]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/when-your-mother-discovers-youre-a-mghow/#post-21237 Tue, 10 Feb 2015 04:30:15 +0000 harpo-my-"SON" My mother has dementia. She understands my viewpoints about matters such as this when I explain, but won’t remember long anyways. She cheated in her marriage to my dad. Something my father experienced in a second marriage.He figured them out albeit a bit late.The major female influence in my early life was my paternal grandma. She watched my dad go through this. Often she would tell me “leave them split-tails alone they are nothing but trouble.” My Mamaw as I called her was the first nawalt I ever new of. She stayed loyal to family over her gender. She would be disgusted at the way women act today. So the woman who raised me (Mamaw) would wholeheartedly approve of me being mgtow, as she advised me to do so many years ago. Mamaw would hand me a two gallon bucket and say to me, “If you fill this with blackberries I will make some preserves.”  To which my reply was always “I don’t like preserves Mamaw make me some Jelly.” She always gave in and went to the extra trouble of straining it through a cheese-cloth removing the pulp and seeds. I still miss her and her blackberry jelly.

I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

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