So i have to walk out of my Sociology class tonight. That s~~~ was getting so f~~~ing man bashing, ball stomping, soul crushingly hard for me to take that I just snapped.

Let me back up a bit I had asked for some MGTOW advice here.

http://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/i-need-some-mgtow-advice/

And you guys responded with the wisdom and articulation I have come to love from you guys. Seriously thank you for the advice.

But tonight instead of a lecture we get to watch this f~~~ing piece of s~~~ video.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=80lzJwRGUw4&list=UULhfndhW38B4IEMUJcXMTXg

Watch it if you like I made it till about the 53 minute mark, where the guy said “even if your wife hates you keep on pouring your love and affection into her even if you does not return it, because that is how woman grow and love.” Up until that moment it is nothing but telling men how to act and says nothing to the woman.

I proclaimed loudly WHAT?!

Got up from my seat, gathered my possessions, all the while says no this is nonsense this makes no sense. I start walking to the stairs turn to the class and say this video is crap and any man who believes what this guy is selling ( the video not my professor) do not buy into it because it is 100% man hating garbage. Not sure what my fate in the class will be but I do not care at this point.

LOL I tell the younger MGTOW to contain their anger and to not let it control you, and I just failed at that. I just could not handle the hate in that class though. It was to much for me to bear I am sorry to say.

I think what got to me the most that I would of at one time agreed with everything in this video and thought” WOW, now I can be a better husband!” God what and idiot I was.

the 53 minute mark, where the guy said : even if your wife hates you keep on pouring your love and affection into her even if she does not return it, because that is how woman grow and love.

What do you mean the 53 minute mark?

Anyone who expects a film called “Men are From Mars” to be taken seriously in a lecture…. needs to be lectured themselves – for at least 53 minutes.

Men are from EARTH. And there is plenty of proof of that. There is no life on Mars.
I would prefer a science class where people are AT LEAST forced to be intellectually honest.

Let’s not confuse LOL with frustration and anger. This is not the time to LOL. This is the time to be p~~~ed because the s~~~stain who expects you to take that quote to heart and act accordingly have several screws loose. When your wife hates you, she needs to be DUMPED as quickly as possible. Get her out, or get yourself out. She didn’t even deserve the time of day from you. Let alone a goddam WEDDING, your devotion, vows and certainly not your “love” or attention.

That kind of “advice” is for “husbands” who don’t even hold themselves in medium esteem.
She can get a puppy for that.

Men are from earth. That “advice” is from Mars.

I could Sympathize with each guy on a certain level, but the one guy who said: “sometimes All I ever feel, is that I don’t do enough“.  That guy I could totally understand. My ex wife was the type of woman, you seriously needed to read her f~~~ing mind. It got to a point where I gave her a paper and pencil and told her to write stuff down that p~~~ed her off and turned her on. Not only that but after awhile, I started to get criticized for everything i either said or did.

I did have a girlfriend who I lived with once that was an absolute control freak, every damn thing, whether it was cleaning, cooking, washing dishes I was 99.9% WRONG!. She’d re-wash the dishes, sometimes re-clean s~~~ I already did, and after awhile it p~~~ed me off beyond belief. So,  i stopped doing it, she would throw these temper tantrums and completely lose it. Talk about a confusing situation, I honestly cannot take that sort of mind f~~~ anymore. Damn if you do, and damn if you don’t. What the hell is so hard with just accepting the the way that person washes the dishes, as long as all the food is off it, you’re good to go!.

Another thing I want to point out is that, if you look at these men carefully, They almost look lifeless, like a zombie or something. As if the life force of their very being was sucked out of them. They don’t look happy, they look tired, worn out. Why?, because they WORK, they’re the bread winners and all these guys ask for in return is a little appreciation, they don’t get that. They come home to a bitching wife who complains about “these kids are driving me nuts” or “how come you don’t ask about my day?“.

Well, let’s see honey, i have a boss that absolutely f~~~ing hates my guts, the new hires want my position, and I’ve got assholes to deal with each day. What was your day like?, change a few diapers? pop in a kids DVD and make the kids lunch or breakfast?, wowwwww that sounds sooooo f~~~ing difficult.

What I also didn’t like about this atrocious look into Married couples lives, is how one-sided it was. I swear, 95% of it talked about the Women, and want they want and how they feel. I was happy to see a goddamn Man Cave these dudes had!!, s~~~ nowadays most Men don’t even have that because their wives would complain about “are you watching porn?”, “you play too many online games” bla bla bla.

If anything this piece of crap put together by Barbra Walters should be a cautionary tale for every young person NOT to get Married. Why?, you’ll end up looking like these guys, unhappy, stressed out and at your wits end.

Sometimes when a man is faced with so much bulls~~~ and hatred all he can do is laugh. Laugh at the world, laugh at himself, laugh at the hypocrisy of it all. Sometimes you get shocked so much you break for a moment and laughter is all that is left inside you. I broke last night.

@fitzbones

A great saying but trying to get woman to adopt it is hopeless.

@o2tosin

That is something you are only supposed to read in 1984, not present day America. You have to have an insane level of disconnect to not see the hypocrisy in what the feminists are doing. Good to see that some men want to retort though, that counts for something.

@Deus Ex Machina

I can not believe you were able to stomach sitting through that whole thing. You deserve all the beer ever for it though.

It seems like no matter what these guys did it was never enough in the eyes of their “perfect” wives. Why would you keep on jumping through so many hoops for, this is something I will never understand. I mean is sex really that important that you will run yourself ragged for the slim chance of getting it a few time a month? Is it that you really wanted a child and putting up with this woman is the only way you could get one? Are you so afraid of being alone or being called gay that you do not care who you are with as long as it has a vagina? Please someone explain it to me because I just do not understand the logic.

I wish guys would see this and run for the hills but seeing the guys in my lecture made me sad. I just saw them agreeing and nodding their heads in approval of everything. Call me an optimist but I hope some of them were doing it so they do not seem like a misogynist, but secretly found it as disgusting as I did. Who knows though.