http://www.mgtow.com/video/women-over-the-hill/

Everybody is born a virgin, Matt. There is no shame in it. There is also no bonus in NOT being one. There is also no bonus or special recognition for women who ARE. The only thing a woman has to do to remain a virgin is NOT have sex. You don’t celebrate someone for NOT doing something, just like you don’t get extra points for NOT breaking the law or going to prison.

I may want to lose it but I feel like I may not be good enough to society’s standards and want no strings attached.

There is a critical thinking flaw in that sentence…. do you know what it is?
Read it again and see if you can pick it out.

“I feel like I may not be good enough “

Would it surprise you to know that you have been CONDITIONED to think like that? That you’re “not good enough”. You already mentioned your feminist school teachers, and if there is one thing female teachers do BEST, it’s trying to bring *the best* out of you by telling you that you’re “not good enough”. If you hear it often enough, you will believe it. So learn to spot it, and recognize it for what it is. THEY THRIVE of cultivating this insecurity in you. They WANT you to feel inadequate. The system THRIVES off it. They want you to be afraid. Afraid of being alone. Afraid of being a virgin. Afraid of not continuing to have sex after you’re no longer a virgin. Afraid of not being handsome or rich enough. Afraid of not going bald. Of not being muscular. You know what I’m talking about.

“I feel like I may not be good enough “

Doesn’t matter. Until a girl is good enough for YOU, that s~~~ doesn’t matter. The only thing you need to concern yourself with… is she “good enough” for ME. And then you will being setting your own standards. Instead of allowing others to set them for you. “Is she good enough for ME?” is all that matters. Until she makes an effort to mean something to you, her approval means nothing to you.

…. and that’s how you make sure their DIS-approval means nothing to you too.

Nobody else gets to decide if you’re a “man”. It’s not an opinion. How awesome is that.

IMO first sexual partners create so much turmoil in your psyche that not falling in love should be your main priority. You need to loose virginity. Why? Because you want to achieve no emotional attachment to any future bitch. Your first sexual conquests are just like a first time trying some drug – YOU GETS F~~~ED UP and forget all MGTOW “nonsense” (like I did).
Therefore – use only professionals as your first sexual conquests. This way you won’t be phased and do anything stupid. Learn to see women as bitches.

Thanks guys, I just don’t really understand those social cues on why it’s a big part. My teachers make me question myself everyday, but realizing that they blame me for holding them back in their endeavors makes me kinda smile cause it supposedly seems i’m doing a great job. I look to society to atleast try to fit in since i Feel like i have no friend but, this forums so far makes me feel i’m wanted and i’m not the only one who shares this opinion on life, etc.

If you want to fit into society, you’re going to have to conform to it. That’s why we all went our own way. We all saw that it wasn’t us, but society that is screwed up. A few red pills a day will keep the delusions away. Eat enough of them, and you’ll be putting your teachers in the corner by showing them what is real as opposed to what is taught.

Should you lose your virginity? It really depends, if it is bothering you and taking up a lot of mind space then I would say yes go ahead but do it wisely pay if it’s legal where you are, you will get a controlled environment if nothing else and if you tell the prostitute that it is your first time she might be understanding, I sort of vaguely tried to tell mine it was my first time but she didn’t believe me/misunderstood.

Will you feel more like a man once losing it? No but you will see sex for the huge non event it is and that can be really cathartic as you will no longer worry about it as much. The day after I lost mine I was out and about and kept thinking everyone was looking me as if I was different, I wasn’t any different and no one notices because there is nothing to notice.

I hope that helps, just make up your own mind and do what is right for you. But do it wisely if you do decide to go down the paying for it route than go to a brothel or hire an escort. Don’t do the street walker thing.

I asked if it makes me less of a man due to films like the 40 year old virgin but his life seemed kickass before he got laid/married

It’s a MOVIE! It’s a part of the programming! They ended the movie. They didn’t show you the part where he opens the stereo store, works his ass off for the next decade providing for her and the two girls and saving as much money as he could along the way, and then she divorces him and takes half his s~~~.