Why should I give myself to any woman for free? I am still a sexy guy, in the best shape of my entire life. I might as well capitalize on my looks while I still can. In 10 years, I won’t be able to anymore.

No more free rides, ladies. Literally.

I’m the guy she meets at the bar for a few drinks and who f~~~s her brains out at the end of the night after the ol’ simp has taken her out to a nice fancy dinner.

Always try to go back to her place so you can make a quick escape and two, make sure to never give her any information that will allow her to find you.

All in all,  a hot woman’s pussy is worth $20+ a maximum of 4 hours of my time.

I’m sure other men will have vastly different opinions.

I have recently made a decision. I will NOT give any woman the pleasure of experiencing me…….unless there is something tangible in it for me. Whether it’s a free dinner or a gift of some sort (Bass Pro Shops would be nice). Why should I give myself to any woman for free? I am still a sexy guy, in the best shape of my entire life. I might as well capitalize on my looks while I still can. In 10 years, I won’t be able to anymore. No more free rides, ladies. Literally.

Is there anyone you attempt to have relationship experiences with, unless there is something in it for you?  I just ask that, because if the answer is no, then it is funny you would of gone with separate rules for women, but that is life.  My take is any man worth his salt needs to evaluate how he spends his time, and not waste on things not worth their time.

Is there anyone you attempt to have relationship experiences with, unless there is something in it for you?

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

No, I actually do not, and have never made a habit out of seeking relationships that would only result in me getting something out of it.

It’s not a financial or material gain, however, analyzing the relationships I have, there is  implicitly a “benefit”, a camaraderie that develops us,  I wouldn’t continue a one way friendship with a leech that just sucked the life out of me offering no reciprocal benefit.  Even if the benefit was seeing a guy develop and helping him understand to ultimately bond into a mutual respect where we help each other see things in a different light.  Much like these forums, I am amazed at how much understanding and knowledge I learn communicating here.

Unfortunately, there is little to learn from women, and much of that knowledge revolves around the depths of their narcissism.  I don’t need to pay for dinners and drinks, and spend hours to work out they are selfish, empty, void of value, apart from that desire to fulfill the physical intimacy my biological imperative dictates.

It’s far better to spend those resources improving myself, for my benefit, any female intimacy that is generated as an indirect consequence is merely a side benefit to the bigger picture, never the central theme.

I have recently made a decision. I will NOT give any woman the pleasure of experiencing me…….unless there is something tangible in it for me. Whether it’s a free dinner or a gift of some sort (Bass Pro Shops would be nice). Why should I give myself to any woman for free? I am still a sexy guy, in the best shape of my entire life. I might as well capitalize on my looks while I still can. In 10 years, I won’t be able to anymore. No more free rides, ladies. Literally.

When I read your posts, the words have Jeff Bridges’ voice.

If I’m out and about I may see the odd opportunity …. but lately … if I’m out and about …. it’s because I’m doing something or going somewhere …. so I pass.

It’s sort of like driving a train. I look out see something interesting near the track …. but is it worth stopping this important load for? ….. rarely.

However …. I’m also holding out for a unicorn 😆

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

I have recently made a decision. I will NOT give any woman the pleasure of experiencing me…….unless there is something tangible in it for me. Whether it’s a free dinner or a gift of some sort (Bass Pro Shops would be nice). Why should I give myself to any woman for free? I am still a sexy guy, in the best shape of my entire life. I might as well capitalize on my looks while I still can. In 10 years, I won’t be able to anymore. No more free rides, ladies. Literally.

When I read your posts, the words have Jeff Bridges’ voice.

hhahaaha i do that to but i have The Big Lebowski as a narrator

OP i had a general rule for women before my last relations~~~  No more then 10 bucks. and i got laid with 10 bucks.

I have an idea to start demanding a bitch to cook me a dinner.

I will still “date” – but it’s a maybe. “Dating” is a casual drink thing at the most. There will be no implied interest in “pursuing a relationship” or any of that romance / seduction horse s~~~. If it escalates to sex (and it’s free) I would partake, but I can take it or leave it. Vagina is no longer a prize for me, but I have turned the tables and dick is her reward. Just that little flip of the script makes a world of difference.

It’s not “what do I have to do for vagina?”….. it has become: “does she deserve any dick?”.
Women are so lazy, most of the time I find myself answering “no”.

You know the “go make me a sammich” thing? I used to think it was a sexist joke, but I now see it as a TRUE unit of measure. For example, if you take a girl out for a drink or three, you’re dropping +$50. F~~~ the $150 dinner. Those days are over. But even still, $50 means you need to work and earn 10X that to be able to throw away $50 on c~~~tails – after taxes and life expenses.

You have to earn over $500 to be able to afford to throw away $50 on drinks.
That $50 is 10% of your income you could bank instead. Women don’t understand that.

Women think “how long to I have to work to earn $50?”.
MEN think “how long to I have to work to SAVE $50“.
Big f~~~ing difference.

So…. if I take a chick out for drinks or sushi, I expect – at the very least – a goddam sammich on demand. A sandwich is asking her for f~~~ing NOTHING. It’s $5 in ingredients and 5 minutes of her time. If she doesn’t JUMP and happily make a sammich with a smile, she’s f~~~ing history now – and I will explain this to her face. The way women expect to be taken out, wined and dined – but are totally unwilling to throw a bunch of dried noodles in a pot of boiling water for you – is a f~~~ing abomination and they should be ashamed of themselves.