MGTOWShould I leave of should I stay? Some please give me words of courage! – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-i-leave-of-should-i-stay-some-please-give-me-words-of-courage/feed/ Mon, 08 Jun 2020 18:48:09 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-i-leave-of-should-i-stay-some-please-give-me-words-of-courage/page/321/#post-59645 <![CDATA[Should I leave of should I stay? Some please give me words of courage!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-i-leave-of-should-i-stay-some-please-give-me-words-of-courage/page/321/#post-59645 Sat, 30 May 2015 17:44:34 +0000 LatinMgtow1981 I’m from Texas …I had recently post a topic about my situation with my crazy abusive ex wife and my son who has autism. I haven’t slept full nights just thinking about what I’m going through and if I should just leave far away. I came to the conclusion and reassurance that I was only used as a seed and of monetary means at the time. I never wanted her around before she got pregnant but she fought with tooth and nail to get me to approve of her. I really thought maybe she loved me and I should give that girl a chance. Only to come home from work and find her cheating while my son was only a few weeks old. Now that my son is 8 she shows her ultimate true colors, she hits my son’s arms and legs if he tries to tell me about his abusive step father. He barely talks due to his autism issue and they both abuse my poor son now his little brother calls he “sonso” in spanish witch means stupid. She gets her yearly income tax and my son’s government checks only to get boob jobs and ass jobs. She can’y really even pronounce words properly or read and write at an illiterate stage but she works with an attorney. I guess the married attorney is smashing that on the side and she is again cheating like the only thing she knows. She is so disgusting looking and has this weird odor to her  and every chance she gets she’s offensive and extremely rude to me specially and to my mother at times, I try not to make contact with her. Every time she would bring my son I would send my mom to get him. By the way the only reason she always brought him on the weekend was because she wanted to be free to do her things by herself and that fat guy she’s with. I’m so sick, I want to be here for my son and protect him but I feel I have my hands tied up to protect him fully. I feel like I’m endangering my freedom by staying here because she makes every excuse to call the cops and falsely accuses me of things which cops can tell she’s making up but I fear one day a cop will believe her and I will end up in prison or jail. After everything that I’ve mentioned, Should I stay in this town and keep suffering this torment or should I pack my stuff and leave to another city or even maybe state? Please also take in consideration that I have no brothers or sisters or relatives who I can talk to. The only two people in my life are my mother and son. Please help me make and understand my final choice…

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-i-leave-of-should-i-stay-some-please-give-me-words-of-courage/#post-59646 <![CDATA[Reply To: Should I leave of should I stay? Some please give me words of courage!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-i-leave-of-should-i-stay-some-please-give-me-words-of-courage/#post-59646 Sat, 30 May 2015 17:50:24 +0000 BigD Walk away.  Just walk away.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-i-leave-of-should-i-stay-some-please-give-me-words-of-courage/#post-59647 <![CDATA[Reply To: Should I leave of should I stay? Some please give me words of courage!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-i-leave-of-should-i-stay-some-please-give-me-words-of-courage/#post-59647 Sat, 30 May 2015 17:52:18 +0000 LatinMgtow1981 Walk away as in move away far to another state please elaborate. Thankyou…

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-i-leave-of-should-i-stay-some-please-give-me-words-of-courage/#post-59652 <![CDATA[Reply To: Should I leave of should I stay? Some please give me words of courage!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-i-leave-of-should-i-stay-some-please-give-me-words-of-courage/#post-59652 Sat, 30 May 2015 17:59:43 +0000 RedHeadedStranger 2 paths here, as I see it:

1) do everything in your power to get your son out of her house because he is being abused.  call protective services on her, take pictures of his injuries, harass the s~~~ out of the social workers.  get johnny law up HER ass until he is in a hospital.  then you can fight to get custody from the state.  it doesn’t sound like you can afford the legal battle, but if the state takes him away from her, you can more easily get custody of him.

and/or

2) move to mexico. now.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-i-leave-of-should-i-stay-some-please-give-me-words-of-courage/#post-59656 <![CDATA[Reply To: Should I leave of should I stay? Some please give me words of courage!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-i-leave-of-should-i-stay-some-please-give-me-words-of-courage/#post-59656 Sat, 30 May 2015 18:21:06 +0000 ILiveAgain 1. Fight for your son. It will be very difficult but you’re the only person he has to fight for him.

2. Walk away and never look back.

These are very extreme choices and only you can make them.

We can tell you our thoughts and feelings …. but …. you’re the poor bastard that is going to live this.

Take as much time as you need to decide. This is life changing and possibly forever.

We’re here bro …. keep asking questions. Nobody gets hurt from that.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-i-leave-of-should-i-stay-some-please-give-me-words-of-courage/#post-59666 <![CDATA[Reply To: Should I leave of should I stay? Some please give me words of courage!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-i-leave-of-should-i-stay-some-please-give-me-words-of-courage/#post-59666 Sat, 30 May 2015 19:26:18 +0000 Crazy Canuck Keep a diary of everything that happens. If cops come write their names or badge numbers. Write down time, why, when, who etc.
Take pictures of your son if he has been abused and call child services. Eventually cops will probably assume she’s lying if she lied in the past. They probably all know her name by now. If I was you I would stay with until he’s old enough that you can take him away from her.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-i-leave-of-should-i-stay-some-please-give-me-words-of-courage/#post-59744 <![CDATA[Reply To: Should I leave of should I stay? Some please give me words of courage!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-i-leave-of-should-i-stay-some-please-give-me-words-of-courage/#post-59744 Sat, 30 May 2015 22:56:48 +0000 Smarchitect If I consider retreat as an option, retreat is the option.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-i-leave-of-should-i-stay-some-please-give-me-words-of-courage/#post-59808 <![CDATA[Reply To: Should I leave of should I stay? Some please give me words of courage!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-i-leave-of-should-i-stay-some-please-give-me-words-of-courage/#post-59808 Sun, 31 May 2015 03:22:53 +0000 LatinMgtow1981 retreat in what sense?

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-i-leave-of-should-i-stay-some-please-give-me-words-of-courage/#post-59888 <![CDATA[Reply To: Should I leave of should I stay? Some please give me words of courage!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-i-leave-of-should-i-stay-some-please-give-me-words-of-courage/#post-59888 Sun, 31 May 2015 06:30:15 +0000 RoyDal
RedHeadedStranger wrote:

1) do everything in your power to get your son out of her house because he is being abused.  call protective services on her, take pictures of his injuries, harass the s~~~ out of the social workers.  get johnny law up HER ass until he is in a hospital.  then you can fight to get custody from the state.  it doesn’t sound like you can afford the legal battle, but if the state takes him away from her, you can more easily get custody of him.

Crazy Canuck wrote:

Keep a diary of everything that happens. If cops come write their names or badge numbers. Write down time, why, when, who etc.
Take pictures of your son if he has been abused and call child services. Eventually cops will probably assume she’s lying if she lied in the past. They probably all know her name by now. If I was you I would stay with until he’s old enough that you can take him away from her.

I agree with choice number one and the follow up advice, above. That said, I have a character trait that causes me to fight uphill battles against overwhelming odds. For all I know, it’s some kind of self-destructive psychological urge — but I’m not sorry I stuck up for the little guys a time or two. Siding against the bully is always the unpopular choice with the mob. It can be done, but it is not easy.

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]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-i-leave-of-should-i-stay-some-please-give-me-words-of-courage/#post-59925 <![CDATA[Reply To: Should I leave of should I stay? Some please give me words of courage!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-i-leave-of-should-i-stay-some-please-give-me-words-of-courage/#post-59925 Sun, 31 May 2015 07:51:45 +0000 LatinMgtow1981 The battle in court is not my worst battle yet.. My real battle is dealing with that monster. She’s vindictive, calculative, verbally abusive, pathological liar, false accusatory and a true socio path narcissist. The battle is facing future false accusations from a terrible person like her. It’s scary and I feel it jeopardizes my mental well being and freedom due to the way she handles things. There is no winning with a woman like her.

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