MGTOWSchadenfreude – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/schadenfreude/feed/ Tue, 09 Jun 2020 04:22:50 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/schadenfreude/page/334/#post-55414 <![CDATA[Schadenfreude]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/schadenfreude/page/334/#post-55414 Fri, 22 May 2015 06:23:04 +0000 Redwolf I’m not generally someone who experiences this guilty pleasure often in life so I have to admit it came as rather an shock to me when it started happening, but experiencing the beautiful and impotent anger of my ex every time she knows that I have moved on with my life is almost better than sex.

Little background, I finally rediscovered my b~~~~ after looking past at least 3 extra-marital relationships and getting kicked out of my own house for the second time in just over a month last year.  Serious awakening for me.  Random woman at the office that I barely knew, but was friendly with on account of being about the only two smokers in my department, asks me how the home sale was going (yes, it was up for sale before I got booted; I know, it should have been a sign) and I responded rather unexpectedly bluntly that it was a hell of a lot more important now because my wife had just shown me the door and I was getting divorced.  Fast forward a week to sexting and drunk monkey sex and sure enough the ex goes through my phone when I arrive to pick up the kids because I was dumb enough to put it down in her reach while grabbing clothes to take with me.

Naturally, explosion happens.

Ultimately I’m subjected to hearing about how she can’t believe I’m just moving on so quickly after our marriage ended (this coming from the woman who can’t keep her legs shut with other men while out drinking at a bar when I’m home watching the two kids) and how horrible a person I am for doing that.  I couldn’t help laughing at her which of course sent her into another incredible tirade.  The whole time I’m thinking that I should just hang up the phone, stop talking to her or whatever, but the human trainwreck that was happening before my eyes was impossible to miss.  It felt so damn good to see her squirming like that so I let it continue.  I have to say, anytime she wanted to bitch about that for a couple months I went ahead and let her because it was so damn satisfying.

Couple her disbelief that I could jump ship so completely and so swiftly with her rapid acquisition of 30 pounds while I shed 15 and I was in absolute heaven.

Is there anything so sweet as ensuring an  ex knows you don’t ask how high when she demands you to jump?

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/schadenfreude/#post-55446 <![CDATA[Reply To: Schadenfreude]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/schadenfreude/#post-55446 Fri, 22 May 2015 07:40:43 +0000 RoyDal Living well … it’s the best revenge.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/schadenfreude/#post-55702 <![CDATA[Reply To: Schadenfreude]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/schadenfreude/#post-55702 Fri, 22 May 2015 22:57:21 +0000 EnlightenedMGTOW Ah yes. Ze good ol’ schadenboner

Marriage is the disease, divorce is the cure. MGTOW is the vaccine.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/schadenfreude/#post-55729 <![CDATA[Reply To: Schadenfreude]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/schadenfreude/#post-55729 Sat, 23 May 2015 01:07:07 +0000 Robert Hallam I got a great amount of satisfaction and entertainment from your post.  When women (in this case your cheating wife) get crossed, they can not control themselves.  They go absolutely bazerk and some of the stuff that comes out of their moths is totally out of character.   I get great pleasure out of it too.  I don’t know where these women get the idea that they have the right to have an extramarital affair because she feels her needs (whatever they are) are not being met, and believe the man should forgive and forget.  To tell you the truth dude, I can not understand how you could possibly overlook 3 incidences of infidelity.  If  I had been standing anywhere near you I would have slapped you across the side of the head.  Your ex is p~~~ed because you are not forgiving her a fourth time.   So now you should leave hints around that you are thinking about getting engaged – s~~~ like that and then see her go nuts.  What I mean is, she can now see that her meal ticket is moving on (Going His Own Way).  I think the reality has now hit her square in the face.  She’s  probably looking at a miserable future down the road.  How come you got kicked out, and why do you not have a say in the sale of your house?  The answer to these questions would be a help to me.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/schadenfreude/#post-61319 <![CDATA[Reply To: Schadenfreude]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/schadenfreude/#post-61319 Wed, 03 Jun 2015 09:41:09 +0000 Keymaster A yes. The old Schaden-boner. Love it.

Like when girls seek out the guys they friend-zoned later. Or the guy she kept at arms length, and told him “you can take me to dinner… but it’s not a date”….. those girls always come looking again and best thing you can do is enjoying not being there. I would imagine the rage of a cheating ex wife would be the ultimate when you are unaffected. Perfect indifference. Treating your attention and time like women treat sex is spectacular.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/schadenfreude/#post-61354 <![CDATA[Reply To: Schadenfreude]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/schadenfreude/#post-61354 Wed, 03 Jun 2015 11:40:03 +0000 Crazy Canuck This reminds of this woman who worked next door to me.  She worked in a restaurant which his brother in law owned.  She worked as a waitress.  When she got married to her hubby he was the same, he is obese and he continued to be obese, not her hubby also worked at the resturant.  The funny thing is after having the 2nd child she lost weight and she expected her hubby to lose weight.  He naturally refused and she can’t complain considering he was obese when they were dating.  Eventually they ended up separated and she began dating this guy.  The only reason I knew this was she met at my work place.  She dated this guy for a while and I started talking with her hubby.  He told me what was going on minus his wife is dating part.  One time he told me he liked this woman.  So I naturally told his wife that he was interested in this woman.  He didn’t go and talk to her or anything just look at her.    A few days later the police is called and I find out the wife hit in hubby at work.

 

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/schadenfreude/#post-61514 <![CDATA[Reply To: Schadenfreude]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/schadenfreude/#post-61514 Wed, 03 Jun 2015 17:55:37 +0000 sidecar I don’t think this is schadenfreude. That’s taking pleasure from the misfortune of others, but I don’t see where fortune has any part of this. She’s not miserable because she was unlucky. She brought all this down upon herself.

This is that feeling of satisfaction you get when witnessing justice. I don’t know if the Germans have a word for that.

Redwolf wrote:

Fast forward a week to sexting and drunk monkey sex and sure enough the ex goes through my phone when I arrive to pick up the kids because I was dumb enough to put it down in her reach while grabbing clothes to take with me.

Naturally, explosion happens.

Ultimately I’m subjected to hearing about how she can’t believe I’m just moving on so quickly after our marriage ended (this coming from the woman who can’t keep her legs shut with other men while out drinking at a bar when I’m home watching the two kids) and how horrible a person I am for doing that.

Of course she did. Understand that this explosion is not about you at all though, but about her nature and that of all other women.

Women want what other women have. It’s a way for them to judge the reproductive value of a man without putting any effort into it, and it’s built into the very center of their brains. When you found another sexual partner so quickly after your separation from her it told her you have qualities that other women want, and so therefore she should want them too. In other words it massively raised your reproductive value in her eyes. But she can’t have you any more. She’s recognizing the value of what she had but threw away, and that’s what’s making her upset. However like all women she is incapable of accepting responsibility for anything, so her tirade is just her way of trying to blame you for what she now knows was a huge mistake.

So if you really want to devastate her the next time she goes off on this tirade, cut through all her blaming and shaming and tell her: “Hey. You had me all to yoursefl for years and year. You had your chance, your one chance, and you threw me away. Now I’m free to do what I want for a change, and you will NEVER get me back.” This will make her rage even more at you while you’re there, but make no mistake, once you’ve left and she’s alone she will WEEP.

And, as always, the best revenge is to live well.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/schadenfreude/#post-61804 <![CDATA[Reply To: Schadenfreude]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/schadenfreude/#post-61804 Thu, 04 Jun 2015 04:09:38 +0000 BD
sidecar wrote:

and you will NEVER get me back.” This will make her rage even more at you while you’re there, but make no mistake, once you’ve left and she’s alone she will WEEP.

Brother, I wouldn’t play any games or tell  her anything except that is is over, and only say this once.

Don’t give her any pleasure in arguing with you over it.

Ignore and delete/block her in every way possible, ignoring a woman is her krytonite (sorry to insult Superman with this comparison), ignoring her will drive her crazy and show that you really have better things to do, hence the MGTOW.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/schadenfreude/#post-61888 <![CDATA[Reply To: Schadenfreude]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/schadenfreude/#post-61888 Thu, 04 Jun 2015 07:40:43 +0000 sidecar
BD wrote:

Brother, I wouldn’t play any games or tell her anything except that is is over, and only say this once.

This isn’t arguing with her. This is straight up telling her.

And if she wants to continue the only further response to give her is: “You’re divorcing me. I don’t have to listen to a goddamn thing you have to say ever again. Goodbye.”

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/schadenfreude/#post-62316 <![CDATA[Reply To: Schadenfreude]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/schadenfreude/#post-62316 Fri, 05 Jun 2015 04:36:50 +0000 BD
Redwolf wrote:

Ultimately I’m subjected to hearing about how she can’t believe I’m just moving on so quickly after our marriage ended (this coming from the woman who can’t keep her legs shut with other men while out drinking at a bar when I’m home watching the two kids) and how horrible a person I am for doing that.  I couldn’t help laughing at her which of course sent her into another incredible tirade.  The whole time I’m thinking that I should just hang up the phone, stop talking to her or whatever, but the human trainwreck that was happening before my eyes was impossible to miss.  It felt so damn good to see her squirming like that so I let it continue.  I have to say, anytime she wanted to bitch about that for a couple months I went ahead and let her because it was so damn satisfying.

My apologies Sidecar, I improperly quoted you and it did not support my point at all, my bad, sorry.

Maybe this quote better supports what I was trying to communicate.

No entertainment, just ignore. People who disrespect you like this do not deserve any of your time.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

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