I’m 40, and father (proud, loving father) to two boys from a previous relationship.

Now the LAST relationship I was in with (stupid me) with a tall, slim hottie 10 years younger than me.  But boy her beauty was only on the outside.  I met her 7 years ago at work.  The first three months were great, but then the madness loomed.  She’d check my phone.  She’d sift through my personal belongings if I even popped to the f~~~ing bathroom.  She’d hit herself if she so much as THOUGHT i was talking to another woman.  She’d hit me.  She once held a knife to her stomach and told me to tell her about every single woman I’d ever slept with and how I rated them.  It was awful, but when she was nice guys…she was real nice….we all think they can change right?

So anyway, to cut a long story short, we are on and off for a few years until the beginning of this year (2015).  Her phone goes off whilst we are in the car, and she asks me to tell her who it is as she’s driving.  F~~~ing ‘E-Harmony’.  I flipped.  She’d been messaging some rich guy for weeks.  I went ballistic.  I told her that all along, for years, she had been doing THE EXACT THINGS THAT SHE HAD ACCUSED ME OF DOING.  Needless to say, I haven’t spoken to her since, and luckily my boys didn’t see her much as they live with their mum.  Anyway, I went into a deep depression because, after 22 years since I first had sex, I’ve realised I can’t get it right.  Then I realised (my red pill moment) that I don’t have to get it right.  F~~~ ’em.  I’m going my own way now and I am lucky that I have my sons and my mates.  I will never, ever trust a woman again, and I’m actually happy about that.

If I can get a ride now and again that’s cool.  But I ain’t working for it.

Anyway, she’s gone, you’re free …… job done ….. use tail if needs be.

 after 22 years since I first had sex, I’ve realised I can’t get it right.  Then I realised (my red pill moment) that I don’t have to get it right.  F~~~ ’em.  I’m going my own way now and I am lucky that I have my sons and my mates.  I will never, ever trust a woman again, and I’m actually happy about that.

Funny as well that she would trust you to check her phone to tell her who is messaging her. I would think someone with the disrespect to go through another’s phone would at least have the sense to guard their own phone from others (again, going with the seeing in others what you see in yourself theme that girls love to use). That’s her problem now.

“you only see in others what you see in yourself”

Oh I LOVE hearing that one.

So if you’re hip to her manipulations… it means YOU are a manipulator too?

Not only is it bulls~~~, but that’s how she deflects every criticism back to YOU.

I can’t believe you mentioned this. Do ALL women speak from exactly the same script? How is it possible that YOU and I can be separated by years, geography, and very different lives…. but the women we date all say exactly the same s~~~. They all practice their lines from the universal female manipulation playbook. And that’s all it is.

“You only see in others what you see in yourself”

The human female – even though equipped with the ability to reason – is the most un-self-aware creature on the face of the Earth. They don’t even understand their own attraction mechanisms. When you notice that women respond better to being treated like crap…it doesn’t mean YOU love to be treated like crap. Men know and observe this in women, but not even 0.001% of that s~~~ applies to him.

MGTOW read through those bulls~~~ lines like a hot knife through butter.

I find it fascinatingly ironic how many women will use the “you only see in others what you see in yourself” argument

Duro hit the nail on the head.

Another is how many women will act like whores and when called on it say, “don’t judge lest ye be judged” which one is supposed to apply to oneself, not as an open license to do whatever they want.   When they do that it reminds me of the sad fact that the devil’s most likely got the Bible memorized for just this reason, to misuse it.