But, of course, life is a twisting journey. An attractive coworker, who had been mildly flirty with me for the last few months, was laid-off and immediately asked me to dinner. I am now quite torn, as my red-pill perceptions are alert and suspicious.

To avoid being rude, I accepted the invite to dinner. She has been very dodgey about when the dinner will occur, but it is currently slated for next week. I admit that since accepting the red pill, I’m pretty indifferent to the situation. However, I can’t help but recognize the irony of the whole thing. This is precisely the kind of event that I was looking for whilst I was blue-pill.

Anyway, I’m not good looking, I make a decent living, and I’m painfully nerdy. All of this makes me wonder what exactly she is hoping to play me for. I don’t think we have much in common and I’m refocusing on going my own way.

Any advice?

I only worry because she was JUST laid off and now conveniently wants to go to dinner?  Who’s paying?  How is it benefiting her (this is what she will be thinking)?  But the better question is, how is it going to benefit YOU?  I think the same way you do when I’m around females, especially lately.  I’m very wary and vigilant of every word and action.  Just be careful, good sir.

She hopes if she can get close to someone that she at least knows a little bit and has seen around her former workplace, then she can get “financial favors” from him in return.

Her life is s~~~ty now that she is out of work and she wants a “prince charming” to rescue her from the mess that she has made with herself. Don’t fall for the trap, brother. Go your own way. Tell her that “something has come up” and that you can’t come.

Because something HAS come up: Your freedom.

The same thing happened to me 4 years ago. Female coworker gets laid off from her job. She had always tried to flirt with me before at work, but I ignored all of it and only spoke to her when my work depended on it. Because I happen to be good with saving money, the first thing she does after getting laid off is contacting me, saying, “I want to keep in touch with you and keep our friendship going.”

“I didn’t know we had a friendship.” I replied.

She giggled and said, “Now is the chance to see how good it would be.” She asked if we could “hang out”. I said I was busy with work these days. She said she would pick me up from my house after work and we could hang out every day if she wanted…and here’s the best part.

“If you could just help me out by paying for my gasoline, that would be nice.”

F~~~ that. Gas may have been $3.25 a gallon at the time, but she lived less than four miles from my place, and the first thing she wants me to do is to finance her trips. I reply, “I don’t know. Do I look like I’m made of money?” But in a joking way, of course.

“Well, you’re better at saving your money then anyone else is.” was her reply.

So because I have more money than most people in my line of work, I’m an instant target. I never contacted her again. Never knew what happened to her, and didn’t give a s~~~. Maybe she latched onto some other guy who makes a lot of money instead of just saving it.

It’s a trap!
She wants you to take care of her until she finds a better sucker… I mean guy. If I were you I would simply refuse. Just go do something else, focus on your career, hobbies or whatever else you enjoy.

Keep in mind that, if the roles were reversed and YOU were the one without a job, she would probably not only refuse your invite for dinner and label you creepy, but have one of her white knight friends to intimidate you if she felt like it.

These are my 2 cents though.

Good luck. 🙂

She’ll NAWALT the hell out of you till she hits her end goal.
Her end goal might be anything from owning you emotionally, free rent, free rent/board, engagement, marriage or childbirth. You won’t know what her end goal is till she snaps out of the NAWALT routine and reverts back to being a normal woman.
In this case she didn’t start till she had money problems, so it’s definitely some type of economic touchdown, not an ego emotional one.
Only the young or mentally or emotionally challenged go for emotional ownership by itself, but most of them insist on it as a prerequisite to their actual goal.

What the hell,,,,as long as you’re red pilled,,,you’re 90% immune already.
Just use protection and get some smashing NAWALT sex,,,NEVER let her move in,,,,,,and always see the NAWALT routine for what it is.

Be prepared to use video in the days leading up to the break up. There’s no shortage of extremely cheap and effective personal surveillance equipment on ebay now.

Come up with a number in your head.  Like 150 dollars total, that means 75 for you and 75 for her on dinners etc, if you spend that much and dont get anything, just roll.

The test will be when you get laid can you cut it off when she starts asking for things, rent, bills etc.

I always told my male friends this when I was in college and I still do till this day. “women have no problem using you, you shouldn’t have a problem using them, every action has an equal an opposite reaction.”

Keep in mind that, if the roles were reversed and YOU were the one without a job, she would probably not only refuse your invite for dinner and label you creepy, but have one of her white knight friends to intimidate you if she felt like it. These are my 2 cents though. Good luck. 🙂

Yeah really, if it was you, a woman would have NOTHING to do with your unemployed ass!

You have no value to them, NONE!

ComingInHot wrote:

I agree with ordinary guy +1. You know what is coming. So if orbiting a black hole just don’t go to deep to hit the event horizon and get sucked in, you know whats coming so you can skirt around and get everything you want without being sucked in and destroyed.

Love the black hole analogy!

Fits so well!