Just something I’m wondering

Plus there’s all the bluepill bulls~~~ being thrown around 24/7 in our society, never hit a woman, happy wife happy life, blah blah blah.
Also, it seems like most men tend to naturally act bluepill. Gynocentrism may be s~~~ty, but it’s powerful.

Don’t even get me start on the shaming tactics, because apparently, because a single male who doesn’t want children is “selfish”, and we need to “man up” (i.e. conform to what women expect us to be). “Real men do this, real men do that, blah blah blah”.

I think every guy here has had his dose of mindless gynocentric blabber coming from the c~~~mouths, so we opted out of relations~~~s.

but why don’t more men do this?

Many men feel that it is some sort of duty, or they feel they need to “settle” with their partners, even if they are massive burdens.  When I think of “settling” down, I imagine a pebble being dropped into a fish tank and it moves around a little as it sinks, until it just comes to “rest” at a convenient point on the bottom – even if there are massive gaps around it and it could topple over at the slightest change, it will do because its slightly stable.

Most men are pebbles.  I see myself and my fellow MGTOW as massive BOULDERS in a raging river.  Even with all that pressure and swirling elemental force trying its hardest to move the boulder, we remain firmly in place and the water moves AROUND US.  Our sheer weight of character and presence doesn’t just sit ON the river bed – it makes a massive, solid dent with a foundation.

Many men don’t have the confidence to know they CAN do better.  So they remain trapped as they feel its better to have someone than no-one.  Which is a very sad place to be.

To be MGTOW is to deny our reptilian primal urges to take care of females. As children, we are shown stories of knights rescuing princesses, superheroes being motivated by and saving  their girlfriends, and paradises involving women idolizing how masculine we are. Social indoctrination at its finest. Consequently, young males these days believe having a woman will make them happy and bring them joy. Women realize men love being seen as “heroes” and spend their entire lives observing men from a distance, analyzing how stupid we are, while we men look at women from afar, mystified by their presence. Ever wonder why girls at a  young age aren’t into superheroes and movies emphasizing selflessness and courage? Because they understand it’s more important for them to learn how to exploit these practices rather than actually live by them. Hence why they watch movies about “romance” and “drama” because it gives them social scenarios where they can practice in their adolescent minds how to manipulate people’s attitudes and feelings to their advantage, while still feeling like the victim. It’s nature’s most intricate and devastating tool for a woman’s reproductive strategy.

This level of social engineering happens for so long and so frequently that at the age of 20-30, a man simply cannot picture his life without a woman. These males envision themselves as those childhood “heroes” once they have a woman. This is especially true about men who date and/or marry  emotional train-wrecks, foolishly believing they can “save” a woman from her troubles. I could go on, but its less about gynocentricism and more about social manipulation to encourage the human species to breed. My friend is a prime example of such manipulation. Don’t let it be you.

You’d think that after so many years of suffering in a sexless/loveless marriage, men would leave….so why are they still in them?

The reason that I stayed in my marriage so long was because

1.  I have a responsibility to my sons.  I felt that staying in the relationship was to the benefit of my kids.  I know better now.

2.  The Carrot and The Stick.  My ex wife kept promising me that thing would get better after this or when that occurs.  I kept buying in to this.

3.  False hope.  Hope can be fostered by promises.  Promises that are made and are not kept, are in actuality lies.  She kept asking me what I wanted.  I kept telling her what I wanted.  I didn’t get what I wanted.  Blow my top.  She asked me what I wanted.  And the cycle kept going on and on until I called her on her lies.

Men stay in their sad relationships out a sense of responsibility or because of promises made and the false hope that they bring.

By the time a man wakes up to this, he is neck deep in a toxic relationship and is not just sleeping, but living in the spare bedroom.

By the way.  All of the above is part and parcel of why I am MGTOW.  I wiser man that I said that honor (integrity) is the purview of men.  This is more true today than ever before.

You’d think that after so many years of suffering in a sexless/loveless marriage, men would leave….so why are they still in them?

The ironic part is that it is harder to stay in that type of relations~~~.

The answer is simple. As men, we are expected to man up. Push through to persevere, for the sake of the woman or family unit.

Once more men start realizing its a rigged game, and why women are pushing them into the direction of marriage (solely for the womans gain)…well, I see a very desperate post modern female.

So for men, the number 1onereason most men get married is to fit in to what society would consider a ” normal ” person. But the term ” normal ” really means robot, someone who can’t think for themselves and is desperate for societal approval. A very feminine trait and most men are feminised without even realising. The guy with the tattoo’s and big muscles who does it all to show off to women is being as feminine as f~~~. A man don’t need to do any of that s~~~.

To be MGTOW is to deny our reptilian primal urges to take care of females.

Good turn of phrase, and totally right.

Edit: I also meant to say all the other previous posts are right on. This is a thread of uncanny insight.