MGTOWOddly, I'm gay and MGTOW. What?! – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/oddly-im-gay-and-mgtow-what/feed/ Mon, 08 Jun 2020 14:38:28 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/oddly-im-gay-and-mgtow-what/page/418/#post-29160 <![CDATA[Oddly, I'm gay and MGTOW. What?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/oddly-im-gay-and-mgtow-what/page/418/#post-29160 Sun, 08 Mar 2015 21:09:19 +0000 My name is Jimmy and I’m gay. I’ve been (gay) married and divorced and haven’t dated a woman since I was 18 (senior year of high school—she ended up being a lesbian). I’ve never even had sex with a woman! I know, I know… How do I know I’m really gay then, right? Ha ha. The point is, I’ve had same sex relationships that were awesome because we were just two dudes who loved each other. That is, there were no arguments about who should do what (car maintenance, dishes, home improvement, housework, laundry, yard work, etc.); we each did whatever needed to be done at any given time. Often, we’d find that the other one had already done something when we went to do it. Perfect! No, I’m not trying to “recruit” you. HA!

For obvious reasons, I’m all for equality. I think that women are just as capable, mentally, as men.  There is very little difference between a female scientific mind and a male scientific mind—either one could discover the cure for cancer! However, equality only goes so far. Men are stronger than women, generally. I’m a skinny dude, admittedly, and a female body builder could snap me in two like a stick. But most women aren’t body builders—they’re standard, small-framed women with little to no constitution and strength. That’s just the way they’re made! So, no, they should not be on the front lines of wars, they should not be working in environments where strength is key (building roads, constructing skyscrapers, tunneling mines). If a woman IS capable of performing, physically, alongside an average man, THEN SHE SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO DO SO! But they are the exception, not the rule. I’ve personally known female construction workers, managers, and veterans who routinely excelled and succeeded among their male peers. Sometimes they even bested them! How or why? Simply, they strived to be the best person (human being) they could, regardless of gender. That is equality!

The modern feminist agenda, though, is not about true equality. I may be a gay man, but I’m still a man. I’m offended by the onslaught of images and portrayals of men as buffoons, the mere butt of women’s jokes. I’m actually less offended by gay jokes (most of them are quite funny, to be honest) than I am by the assault upon masculinity and maleness. I may not be the Alpha Male masculine archetype, but I do legitimately have a penis.

MGTOWers don’t hate women simply because they’re women. We want women to be successful, fully realized human beings who contribute as much to society as men do! Sadly, most women don’t actually want that. What most women want is to have their cake and eat it too. They want “to be taken care of” but also repudiate the very mechanism(s) that allow that to happen. The perceived and/or real misogyny of the past has been replaced by misandry, which we’re not allowed to speak of and cannot ever have validated by the media or power brokers. Light your torches and sharpen your pitchforks, ladies!

In the dark ages (you know, the 1950s), a woman most likely didn’t have a job of her own or financial independence. It made sense that a man, who did have a job, was expected to pay for the dinner and entertainment of a date. Nowadays, though? It’s still expected, and you’re a douche if you don’t, but it’s unnecessary. Women today do have jobs and financial independence. I won’t even start about engagement rings!

Exactly as I refuse to feel personally guilty and liable to any minority for the prejudiced deeds of my forebears, I will not heed the aggrandizement of “patriarchy” and the perpetual victimhood of women as just reparations for an oppressive past I did not facilitate and most modern women did not endure.

Marriage really is just for gay people now. We didn’t destroy the “sanctity” of it, though, women did.

Although I literally have even less use for women than you do, I stand in solidarity with you. As a man, I will fight alongside you. I have recruited for you, opened the eyes and minds of several straight male friends. Gay men are still men and we are your allies. We don’t appreciate being emasculated any more than you do.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/oddly-im-gay-and-mgtow-what/#post-29176 <![CDATA[Reply To: Oddly, I'm gay and MGTOW. What?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/oddly-im-gay-and-mgtow-what/#post-29176 Sun, 08 Mar 2015 22:17:09 +0000 Warratah It has been pointed out before, once the feminists “get their way” with straight men – they’ll be coming after the gay community. At present they are uneasily allied with large segments of the gay community against ‘the patriarchy’ but a woman’s alliance only lasts while its directly serving her purpose. Their ultimate aim is the complete domination of everything with a penis.

...And in our own despair, against our will, Comes wisdom to us by the awful grace of God. - Agamemnon; by Aeschylus

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/oddly-im-gay-and-mgtow-what/#post-29183 <![CDATA[Reply To: Oddly, I'm gay and MGTOW. What?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/oddly-im-gay-and-mgtow-what/#post-29183 Sun, 08 Mar 2015 22:41:20 +0000 Keymaster

“In the dark ages (you know, the 1950s)”…..

That was hilarious.

Women were much happier back in the “dark ages”. They have never been more miserable than they are today.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/oddly-im-gay-and-mgtow-what/#post-29204 <![CDATA[Reply To: Oddly, I'm gay and MGTOW. What?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/oddly-im-gay-and-mgtow-what/#post-29204 Mon, 09 Mar 2015 00:17:57 +0000 harpo-my-"SON" Jimmy being gay and mgtow is not that odd now, mgtowhomo was recently welcomed to the forum and I am sure there are more here I am unaware of. Not to mention those living  mgtow lifestyle but yet to know about the term. So many men come to the site saying they didn’t know there was a name for the way they have been living for years. I was one of those. mgtow from 2006 but only resently aware of this site.

Welcome to mgtow and enjoy the forum.

I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/oddly-im-gay-and-mgtow-what/#post-29205 <![CDATA[Reply To: Oddly, I'm gay and MGTOW. What?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/oddly-im-gay-and-mgtow-what/#post-29205 Mon, 09 Mar 2015 00:19:10 +0000 Keymaster Sorry, I was called away earlier and couldn’t finish….
First , welcome.

’ve never even had sex with a woman! I know, I know… How do I know I’m really gay then, right? Ha ha.

No. We wouldn’t ask you that question. You don’t need to personally murder someone to know that it’s wrong. Right? So you don’t have to sleep with a woman to know that you’re gay, either.

No, I’m not trying to “recruit” you. HA!

We know that. Even if you were, it would fail. You can’t “convince” someone to want to have sex with a man just a woman can’t be talked into truly wanting to have sex with a man either. Attraction is not a choice.

I’m all for equality. I think that women are just as capable, mentally, as men.

Well unfortunately your opinion has little to do with it.

So what, she’s “capable”. Being “capable” is not the same as DOING IT.
A woman is “capable” of reaching for the check when the waiter drops it too… but she doesn’t actually DO it.
Nor does she WANT to do it or think it’s her place to do it. She just says “WOMEN CAN DO ANYTHING MEN CAN DO!!”

Yeah. But they DON’T. So who cares if she CAN?

These are some of the things MGTOW have already carefully thought out long before arriving here.

If a woman IS capable of performing, physically, alongside an average man, THEN SHE SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO DO SO

Being “capable” is not enough. She has to be willing to DO it. So why do they pretend they’re not “allowed” and they are “oppressed”?? There are no line ups of women waiting to dig ditches and lay railway tie. This whole “women are not allowed” and “woman are oppressed” bulls~~~ FAILS the moment you walk through this MGTOW doorway.

In all other ways, thank you for making an introduction!

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/oddly-im-gay-and-mgtow-what/#post-29212 <![CDATA[Reply To: Oddly, I'm gay and MGTOW. What?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/oddly-im-gay-and-mgtow-what/#post-29212 Mon, 09 Mar 2015 00:52:43 +0000 Rennie Just because you can use something for something other than it’s intended purpose doesn’t mean you should. In this case women, yeah sure they can do alot of the same stuff as men, but they’re not designed for it and there is often a physical price to be paid by trying to assume the role of a man.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/oddly-im-gay-and-mgtow-what/#post-29217 <![CDATA[Reply To: Oddly, I'm gay and MGTOW. What?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/oddly-im-gay-and-mgtow-what/#post-29217 Mon, 09 Mar 2015 01:21:52 +0000 Vector Viking Wow, *gay* married and divorced even before it’s legalized in all 50 states?

I tip my hat to you, sir. You are a man ahead of your time.

 

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/oddly-im-gay-and-mgtow-what/#post-29234 <![CDATA[Reply To: Oddly, I'm gay and MGTOW. What?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/oddly-im-gay-and-mgtow-what/#post-29234 Mon, 09 Mar 2015 02:13:13 +0000 MGTOWhomo Hey jamibu… welcome to MGTOW. And you’re right. Women destroyed the sanctity of marriage, just as they are “effeminatizing” and destroying the masculine homosexual community as well and turning it into another (obnoxious, in-your-face, and totally repellant) expression of the left-wind radicalized hive. (Sorry, I had to vent a bit).

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/oddly-im-gay-and-mgtow-what/#post-29238 <![CDATA[Reply To: Oddly, I'm gay and MGTOW. What?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/oddly-im-gay-and-mgtow-what/#post-29238 Mon, 09 Mar 2015 02:25:59 +0000 MGTOWhomo

It has been pointed out before, once the feminists “get their way” with straight men – they’ll be coming after the gay community. At present they are uneasily allied with large segments of the gay community against ‘the patriarchy’ but a woman’s alliance only lasts while its directly serving her purpose. Their ultimate aim is the complete domination of everything with a penis.

I have to agree warhar: it’s open warfare on men, hetero or homo. You’ll notice I don’t call myself “gay” because that whole “community” has been coopted into lumping homosexual men in with lesbians, drag queens, etc etc. What I call the “effeminatization” of that “community” has been relentless, and the political watchdogs are on the prowl constantly for the slightest deviation from “gay orthodoxy.” What? how can you be a homosexual and opposed to “gay marriage” or “women’s rights” and all that. Without trying to seem arrogant or anything, the feminazis are even more afraid of real homosexual masculinity than they are of heterosexual masculinity, for we see them for what they are without having to learn through bitter sexperience. So they’ve turned the “gay community” into this loud, obnoxious, phylogenetically-impaired cultural swamp that tramps about half-naked (or worse) on “pride day” and shoves obnoxious “Gay” behavior into the faces of parents, children, without any courtesy or sensitivity to straight people whatsoever, demanding “equal rights” and shouting down anyone who disagrees with their feminized vagenda. I for one, am ashamed of it, want no part of it, and want a real homosexual community again where men can be men and go to a bar and not have to deal with one feminized twink, one drag queen, one lesbian, or anything else feminine. I’m sick to death of it. I know homosexual men that boycott “pride” day because they’re ashamed of it. We pay our taxes, think the sexualization of young children is repellent and abhorrent, think feminism is a cancer on western civilization, and support you.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/oddly-im-gay-and-mgtow-what/#post-29243 <![CDATA[Reply To: Oddly, I'm gay and MGTOW. What?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/oddly-im-gay-and-mgtow-what/#post-29243 Mon, 09 Mar 2015 02:35:40 +0000 Rennie #dumbc~~~

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