MGTOWO my!! what has my cousin got himself into! – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/o-my-what-has-my-cousin-got-himself-into/feed/ Tue, 09 Jun 2020 05:08:43 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/o-my-what-has-my-cousin-got-himself-into/page/255/#post-81056 <![CDATA[O my!! what has my cousin got himself into!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/o-my-what-has-my-cousin-got-himself-into/page/255/#post-81056 Sun, 12 Jul 2015 13:40:44 +0000 singledad984 I’m 29 and been separated from my ex wife for about 2.5 years and legally divorced for about 1.5 years! Got custody of our daughter and everything is great!!! Since my divorce I’ve done alot of dating and really have spent some time observing /studying the opposite sex! And I’ve really learned alot!! But here recently I’ve tried to save a family member of mine from marriage and either I failed him or he just didn’t listen lol! I have a great Job and make north of $100,000 a year! My cousin works with me and is 23 years old! He started dating this girl about a year and a half ago! Great girl very attractive very kind seemed like she would be a great person to spend your life with! They decide to get married and approximately 2 months before the marriage she end up pregnant by my cousin! (That I know of) and soon as that pregnancy test came back positive they decide to go ahead and get married at the justice of the peace! Then instantly she COMPLETELY changed!!! They had a house given to them just 3 houses down from mine! Wasn’t a mansion or anything fancy by any means but most certainly wasn’t a dump either! Great house and oppurtunity for a young couple to start out with! Well she decides immediately among finding out she pregnant that this house (that’s free may I remind u) is not good enough for her and she DEMANDS my cousin move her 10 miles to the town next to us in this big fancy house and if he doesn’t she will move back in with her parents 40 miles away and he will never see his child when it’s born! So my cousin throws all their s~~~ in the u haul and buys her this house! Instantly bills have increased $1000 a month just Bc she has to keep up with the jones…they get all settled and and about 2 weeks ago she has the baby a little girl!! Me and my cousin work shift work together and car pool 30 miles to work!!! He informs me yesterday that he hasn’t been getting any sleep Bc after working a 12 hour shift and getting off at 5:30 am he said he went home and mowed his yard at 7 while it was cool! Said it took 2 hours to mow his yard (it’s massive!) So now it’s 9am and has to be back to work that night so he goes to head to bed and as soon as he gets in bed his new bride tells him to get up and go watch the baby Bc she (his wife) is tired and needs a nap! Then I asked well is she working still? My cousin says no she quit her job being a nurse after getting pregnant!  I said well at least u have somebody to clean and cook for u all day! My cousin says no I do all the cooking and cleaning and even do the laundry! Then goes onto tell me she gets p~~~ed if any of his family stops by! So apparently the girl does nothing all day long!! And he will do ANYTHING to keep her happy!! He was telling me this morning how he is about to go buy her a new car!! And how he wants to go play golf tomorrow but says he will have to ask his wife if it’s ok if he plays!!! So what I’ve learned is that all girls act like the perfect girl till they either get pregnant or married and then they use the child/court system as leverage to get what she wants in the relationship!! Moral of the story is don’t get married and if u do get a prenup!

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/o-my-what-has-my-cousin-got-himself-into/#post-81074 <![CDATA[Reply To: O my!! what has my cousin got himself into!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/o-my-what-has-my-cousin-got-himself-into/#post-81074 Sun, 12 Jul 2015 14:10:40 +0000 Beer Poor guy.  100k+ a year job with a free house at 23…he had it made if he didn’t f~~~ himself over with that girl.  He could have been spending money on toys, hobbies, vacations, and stashing it away for early retirement…instead the longer he spends being the servant of his wife, the more expensive the divorce will be.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/o-my-what-has-my-cousin-got-himself-into/#post-81078 <![CDATA[Reply To: O my!! what has my cousin got himself into!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/o-my-what-has-my-cousin-got-himself-into/#post-81078 Sun, 12 Jul 2015 14:25:01 +0000 Edog
singledad984 wrote:

Moral of the story is don’t get married and if u do get a prenup!

 

 

Screw the prenup. Just don’t get married at all, then, even this is not an issue.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/o-my-what-has-my-cousin-got-himself-into/#post-81083 <![CDATA[Reply To: O my!! what has my cousin got himself into!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/o-my-what-has-my-cousin-got-himself-into/#post-81083 Sun, 12 Jul 2015 14:46:24 +0000 ILiveAgain Ahhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/o-my-what-has-my-cousin-got-himself-into/#post-81086 <![CDATA[Reply To: O my!! what has my cousin got himself into!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/o-my-what-has-my-cousin-got-himself-into/#post-81086 Sun, 12 Jul 2015 14:56:09 +0000 Will any woman be able to prevent this young man from turning bitter and hopeless 5 years from now? No. They wouldn’t even try. Why? Because it’s one of their own that is gaining from his plight. For them he is the real man.

I don’t feel sorry for him. Some of us are born just too nice and too romantic to believe the reality of just being a utility to women. Sometimes it takes hard knocks and mental anguish to wake up. The key is to stay awake.

 

 

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/o-my-what-has-my-cousin-got-himself-into/#post-81104 <![CDATA[Reply To: O my!! what has my cousin got himself into!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/o-my-what-has-my-cousin-got-himself-into/#post-81104 Sun, 12 Jul 2015 17:05:27 +0000 ArchGHOW Careful with the ideas of a pre-nup. Even that might not save you from the tyranny of women. There have been more and more cases of pre-nups being voided because the women claim they were forced into it – they were intimidated or put under duress to sign it, were on drugs/alcohol at the time, or that they were somehow tricked into it. What you would need at the minimum is a few witnesses, a few lawyers, a notary  to confirm it’s authenticity and specific rules and regulations on it to outline any and every single situation you could possibly think of – and still, that might not be enough because she will pull the victim card or claim you were abusing her somehow which could null the pre-nup.

All this just to get married to a woman who loves what you can do and provide for her but who will never actually love YOU.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/o-my-what-has-my-cousin-got-himself-into/#post-81114 <![CDATA[Reply To: O my!! what has my cousin got himself into!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/o-my-what-has-my-cousin-got-himself-into/#post-81114 Sun, 12 Jul 2015 17:25:42 +0000 RoyDal Marriage is Hell

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/o-my-what-has-my-cousin-got-himself-into/#post-81122 <![CDATA[Reply To: O my!! what has my cousin got himself into!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/o-my-what-has-my-cousin-got-himself-into/#post-81122 Sun, 12 Jul 2015 17:36:31 +0000 Fermat A tragedy indeed.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/o-my-what-has-my-cousin-got-himself-into/#post-81123 <![CDATA[Reply To: O my!! what has my cousin got himself into!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/o-my-what-has-my-cousin-got-himself-into/#post-81123 Sun, 12 Jul 2015 17:36:59 +0000 I would not trust any pre-nups against the alligator tears of a wounded hamster before a possible White Knight judge.  Any pre-nup can be rendered null and void with her attorney using the right exploits and her acting prowess.

Sadly, your cousin is going to learn a very expensive lesson. She is the fool who calls all the shots over there and not a good partner for him to boot. The all about me princess show repeated yet again.

 

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/o-my-what-has-my-cousin-got-himself-into/#post-81183 <![CDATA[Reply To: O my!! what has my cousin got himself into!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/o-my-what-has-my-cousin-got-himself-into/#post-81183 Sun, 12 Jul 2015 19:03:50 +0000 Binary Logic I’d give him 3… no 5 years max. If it last that long… then we will welcome him to the ranks. A tragedy indeed.  I’ve long learned that a Baptism by fire doesn’t have to be hellfire and brimstone, sometimes it’s just tribulation endured in your very own home.

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