MGTOWMy intro and my story – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/my-intro-and-my-story/feed/ Tue, 09 Jun 2020 03:11:15 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/my-intro-and-my-story/page/273/#post-74339 <![CDATA[My intro and my story]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/my-intro-and-my-story/page/273/#post-74339 Sat, 27 Jun 2015 00:05:34 +0000 CloakandDagger My journey to MGTOW started in 2013. My then girlfriend(who I planned to marry in a year) and I had moved into our first apartment together two weeks prior at the age of 23 and her being 21. Due to the stress of moving out, working a new job, going to school, and taking care of her needs to furnish the apartment I apparently wasn’t paying her enough attention. She wanted me to move out two weeks after having moved in. I did and we didn’t talk for two weeks after that until I messaged her where she invited me back over. I went over to the apartment and everything seemed to be fine. I was sitting on the bed when she told me that during those two weeks she had went a bar and slept with another guy. I was stunned, hurt, dazed and confused. We had been each others first for everything and things were apparently set so that I felt like she was a different kind of girl. In a daze I tried to leave, but she wouldn’t let me and we got into a fight over it. I stumbled out of the apartment back to my parents home where I was staying and tried to sleep it off. An hour later there was footsteps on the steps and my parents answered the door; it was the police. I was charged with assault. Apparently her cousin had called it in and upon talking to me(never talk to the police) I had given them enough reason to charge me. Upon being processed and out on bail I tried to go back home to sleep. It was like a nightmare when I woke up. I couldn’t believe this had happened.

I hired a lawyer and set to the work of clearing my name. Because it was a domestic violence incident there was a no contact order so that I couldn’t talk to her. I tried to make the best of my situation. Up until that time I would only spend time with her and had few guy friends. All of my friends were hers and we spent a lot of time with her family. Of course after this incident no one would talk to me and I was alone. I tried to make friends and found some people to hang out with. I was out with the people that I had met through work at a bar and saw her there. She called me that night and we talked about what happened.

From then on I was able to manipulate her until she came over to my side and cooperated with my lawyer and the charges were dropped to a disorderly conduct misdemeanor. It was the lowest moment of my life to have gone through that, everything I had, being reduced to nothing, and having a permanent scar for the rest of my life to haunt me. The six months that the case took changed me as a person and showed to what depth I was willing to go to save myself. I tried hanging out with people that I had known before, girls, blue pill guys. None of them cared, none of them knew what it was like to go through something like that. I met a guy through work and he through a sort of brotherly bond showed me what it was to be a semi-red pill man. I learned from him but quickly separated from him because he was an alcoholic and kept getting in trouble. I learned what it was to game girls and tried to learn from pickup artists on youtube(a joke in my opinion) and it worked. I was able to get low class girls and started off there.

Eventually I knew that I was destined for something better. I wanted to learn what it was to be a man. I started off by watching male figures in movies(Sean Connery’s James Bond), and started researching role models. I jumped head first into finishing my degree and because of my experience I know what it is to succeed. Recently, I have gotten scholarships, great grades, and have been able to take on large course loads. I have met mentors and they have helped me get in touch with some successful business people in my community. I’m set to start some internships soon and I’m hoping to crack $100,000 in 2 years at the age of 27. Its a tough goal, but ever since then I decided to get my life together and become a success for myself. I feel in a way that I’m being pulled towards this goal of success and that there is something that changed inside of me because of my experiences. Never once during the whole process did I feel like hurting myself. I felt a drive to survive, and a will to show everyone what I was capable of that they never saw in me. In the near future, I’m looking to grow investments and become independently wealthy.

I’m not sure if I harbor any anger for what happened to me anymore, I still feel the rage deep down, but I know that if I stick to the plan that I can take care of myself and be content with what I have achieved. I honestly feel like I have in ways been given a gift and that I am just making up for the lost time I spent on a bad relationship.

I have learned not to trust women, the government, doctors, or basically anyone. I carefully select who I allow into my life. A blue pill man “friend” can be just as deadly as a woman. I wouldn’t say that MGTOW saved my life, but rather that it started it. Its almost as if I’ve woken up for the first time and I can see whats really going on in the world.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/my-intro-and-my-story/#post-74347 <![CDATA[Reply To: My intro and my story]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/my-intro-and-my-story/#post-74347 Sat, 27 Jun 2015 00:21:19 +0000 RoyDal
CloakandDagger wrote:

I was stunned, hurt, dazed and confused.

Been there, my friend.
The rest of the imbroglio with The Man, I have never been through (praise the Lord!), and I can only imagine. It is plain the system is rigged against us these days. I hope the pendulum will swing back the other way, I really do.

CloakandDagger wrote:

I have learned not to trust women, the government, doctors, or basically anyone. I carefully select who I allow into my life. A blue pill man “friend” can be just as deadly as a woman. I wouldn’t say that MGTOW saved my life, but rather that it started it. Its almost as if I’ve woken up for the first time and I can see whats really going on in the world.

Yep, you got that right!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/my-intro-and-my-story/#post-74353 <![CDATA[Reply To: My intro and my story]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/my-intro-and-my-story/#post-74353 Sat, 27 Jun 2015 00:30:19 +0000 @C&D, nice intro, come on in and escape the flames that have burned multi-millions of men. We’re all refugees from the misery and destruction bestowed upon us by feminism, your story is all to common, It’s nice to see another man is off the market, increasing our over all value, and setting the manipulated value of a woman where it should be reset to; ZERO…

What am I saying? Their actual value when purchased through marriage becomes a deficit of unimaginable proportions. To a MGHOW it’s only ZERO… And that’s only if he avoids them at all cost!

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/my-intro-and-my-story/#post-74439 <![CDATA[Reply To: My intro and my story]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/my-intro-and-my-story/#post-74439 Sat, 27 Jun 2015 03:08:01 +0000 experienced Writing it down here, as you have, helps immeasurably. Once it’s written, you know it’s there so there’s no need to go over it.

One other way you may write it down is from the, “why you would dump her:”

Her total Selfishness, her lack of any empathy, her f~~~ing someone else within 2 weeks, her physically stopping you from leaving, her allowing her cousin to call in assualt bs…

Fantastic recovery by the way.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/my-intro-and-my-story/#post-74445 <![CDATA[Reply To: My intro and my story]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/my-intro-and-my-story/#post-74445 Sat, 27 Jun 2015 03:13:41 +0000 Crazy Canuck A blue pill man can be worse than a woman because he will practically do anything for a woman. Welcome to the forums. The number of times I had to deal with blue pill men especially online is crazy.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/my-intro-and-my-story/#post-74457 <![CDATA[Reply To: My intro and my story]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/my-intro-and-my-story/#post-74457 Sat, 27 Jun 2015 03:38:03 +0000 Qcummer that’s the wonderful superf~~~ of not only a woman calling the cops, but someone ELSE can call and get you in trouble. It happened to a friend, and I thought it was unbelievable. The bitch constantly sent text messages of people who she was f~~~ing and talking s~~~ while the case was on going…no repercussions for her. Don’t nobody give a f~~~. The state is against you…and that’s what I call an Oppressive Regime. Welcome 🙂

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/my-intro-and-my-story/#post-75103 <![CDATA[Reply To: My intro and my story]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/my-intro-and-my-story/#post-75103 Sun, 28 Jun 2015 14:39:57 +0000 FullMetalExo As I say in such a case, you got out lightly and lucky. Thank you for joining in and sharing with us.

Enjoy your life and what you earned and will earn, be careful !

Enjoy your stay !

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