One thing that stands out though, and this is where the regret comes in, is that we both were such pussies. In his case, he had a girlfriend and even though he had MANY opportunities for way hotter girls that wanted to do him, he always shyed away from it. He says to me now that he clearly wanted to do these women really badly. But he didn’t go for it out of fear that it would ruin his relationship with his girlfriend.

As for me. I wasted too much time on this one girl too. I should have been going for way hotter girls than this one.

And in the end these girls left us anyways. So it was all for naught.

Hindsight is a bitch isn’t it?

Half of those c~~~s probably had STD’s which you didn’t have to suffer through. 🙂

So for what it’s worth, I might have to take this as the best current position, that I’m currently in, although I’m quite certain had I made some different turns, I would have been able to pay off some soul sucking harpy and live through that mistake too, that will be seen in 10 years from now though.

Sometimes you work better with a handicap, that makes you push you even further, than you ever thought yourself being able to.

MGHOW 4 LIFE!

@op: When I was in college 30 years ago you could f~~~ ’em and dump ’em with no fear of fake rape claims. Hell, they were total sluts and loved every minute of it. I remember banging one particular red head, and right in the middle of it she gasped “What about my boyfriend?”. It didn’t stop me from hitting it a dozen more times though. Poor boyfriend, she was a total cheating slut.

I’m sure sex is great, and this was just a sour experience, but holy s~~~ I’m livid at myself for believing at one point that a girl would actually solve my f~~~ing “emotional problems” all those years ago.

Not knowing about Mgtow sooner in life………

Same here! I wasted a lot of time, money, and emotional energy chasing women. I don’t really regret it, because I learned lessons from it. I would have learned a lot faster if I had seen that video below in my early teens. But there are no take backs in real life. Forward we must go.

http://www.mgtow.com/video/mgtow-advice-for-the-younger/

Edit: The “marriage equals prison” lesson, and the “marriage might land you in a real prison, the kind with bars and felons for roommates” lesson are exceptions: Those I figured out before entering my teens. This saved me from a lot of grief.

I was talking with my buddy about “the old days”. When we were in college and in a fraternity and were party animals. Pussy galore was always available (not that we always got it). But we sure did have some fun times back then.

One thing that stands out though, and this is where the regret comes in, is that we both were such pussies. In his case, he had a girlfriend and even though he had MANY opportunities for way hotter girls that wanted to do him, he always shyed away from it. He says to me now that he clearly wanted to do these women really badly. But he didn’t go for it out of fear that it would ruin his relationship with his girlfriend.

As for me. I wasted too much time on this one girl too. I should have been going for way hotter girls than this one.

And in the end these girls left us anyways. So it was all for naught.

Hindsight is a bitch isn’t it?

Think about it this way:

You made an investment. You spent twenty years doing something you learned didn’t work. Now you have thirty years to try a new approach. Imagine what it will be like at 70 to look back over the thirty years you have between now and then and everything you will accomplish.

Your story isn’t over yet.

I get this way when I write my first drafts. I get 60-70% through and I think, f~~~ this looks awful there’s just no point to finishing it.

But I push through, and it’s always better than I thought it was while I was writing.