MGTOWMGTOW and respect for everyone… including women. – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-respect-for-everyone-including-women/feed/ Tue, 09 Jun 2020 02:37:37 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-respect-for-everyone-including-women/page/329/#post-57026 <![CDATA[MGTOW and respect for everyone… including women.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-respect-for-everyone-including-women/page/329/#post-57026 Mon, 25 May 2015 20:35:57 +0000 IGMOW (I Go My Own Way) As I am seeing it, the only way I can really show anyone respect, and that goes for women, and anyone, is if the terms by which I relate to the person are terms I can agree with.  If I am manipulated, forced to bargain, feel I need to pay for things, be vulnerable, and am coerced into doing things, I lack respect for myself, and others.  I can agree to terms and make commitments, but if you try to do it through bullying, weaseling, or seduction, then how do I have respect for anyone, and that includes women?

Framed in the right context, I see MGTOW is the only way a man could have a respectful relationship with a woman, and get them respect they seek.  And from this, and this respect, I can also commit to things.

Please feel free to comment and tweak on this.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-respect-for-everyone-including-women/#post-57028 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW and respect for everyone… including women.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-respect-for-everyone-including-women/#post-57028 Mon, 25 May 2015 20:40:22 +0000 Crazy Canuck I don’t respect women by default. Respect is earned which women don’t realize.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-respect-for-everyone-including-women/#post-57029 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW and respect for everyone… including women.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-respect-for-everyone-including-women/#post-57029 Mon, 25 May 2015 20:41:19 +0000 kizell A very insightful post.  It does seem that romantic relationships can promote bitterness.

I agree that I have respected women a little more when I was single.  But most importantly,  I respected myself a lot more.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-respect-for-everyone-including-women/#post-57033 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW and respect for everyone… including women.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-respect-for-everyone-including-women/#post-57033 Mon, 25 May 2015 20:52:07 +0000 Qcummer MGTOW is not definable..not an absolute. It’s different for every man. You can choose to respect or not. I personally have a hard time respecting even myself..I’m human..fallible..what’s to respect about that? I respect ideals and things that are more than just me as a stupid human, but I am a verb, so I am constantly changing. 😉

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-respect-for-everyone-including-women/#post-57034 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW and respect for everyone… including women.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-respect-for-everyone-including-women/#post-57034 Mon, 25 May 2015 20:52:09 +0000 I agree with CrazyCanuck and intended to post the same even before reading his post.

Respect is earned. It is not as of right as women seem to think it is. If a woman does not respect men (not just me), then she does not deserve my attention and she wont get it.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-respect-for-everyone-including-women/#post-57035 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW and respect for everyone… including women.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-respect-for-everyone-including-women/#post-57035 Mon, 25 May 2015 20:53:12 +0000 ILiveAgain I’ve reached the stage where respect must be earned no matter who it is in front of me.

Friendship also along those lines.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-respect-for-everyone-including-women/#post-57037 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW and respect for everyone… including women.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-respect-for-everyone-including-women/#post-57037 Mon, 25 May 2015 20:54:56 +0000 IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)
Crazy Canuck wrote:

I don’t respect women by default. Respect is earned which women don’t realize.

Well, I see anyone as a person, and see what terms I can exist with them.  I don’t care what their gender is in regards to it.  For myself, I can give what said “sane” Women Rights folk say they want for women, even if they have other agenda.  It is equality in treatment that should be the point.  It is NOT showing favoritism to anyone just because they demand it, expect it and whine about it.  It is saying no to everyone also, unless it makes sense, and I don’t care what your status, standing, gender or wealth is.  It is my job to have good terms with how I deal with everyone, and that is with women also.  I don’t care if you play, “But not all women are like that” or whatever, I don’t care.  I can also be aware of weaknesses you state you have, and understand that, but no way am I got to get guilt for stuff I had nothing to do with, and I make sure your victim card is denied with me.  I will do this with everyone.  People who are not givers, or at least seek to do fair exchanges are takers, and such individuals don’t deserve my time.  They can go starve themselves off, and learn they need to bring something.  I do them a favor by this, so they learn.  On that, if I fall for them, it is my fault, not their fault for allowing it.

 

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-respect-for-everyone-including-women/#post-57041 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW and respect for everyone… including women.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-respect-for-everyone-including-women/#post-57041 Mon, 25 May 2015 21:02:44 +0000 BritGHOW Personally I run on the system that everyone gets a basic level of respect, namely and limited to the common decency afforded to any human being unless and until they prove themselves either unworthy of even that limited respect or worthy of something more substantial.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-respect-for-everyone-including-women/#post-57057 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW and respect for everyone… including women.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-respect-for-everyone-including-women/#post-57057 Mon, 25 May 2015 21:35:00 +0000 Russky I think it is smart and classy being polite and gentlemanly with everyone – even people who disrespect you. But politeness does not mean respect or trust or anything else.
“Speak to her like she’s a lady, treat her like a whore” – or something like that

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-respect-for-everyone-including-women/#post-57060 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW and respect for everyone… including women.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-and-respect-for-everyone-including-women/#post-57060 Mon, 25 May 2015 21:42:14 +0000 Zuberi Tau Respect is earned, not given.

This thread smell too much like concern trolling.

 

 

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