We  are all our aware of three basic principles in our current society:

1. Women dress like whores.

2. Women sleep around and are ENCOURAGED to do so.

3. It is MUCH, MUCH easier for women to have sex than men. Men are VISUALLY stimulated, women are not so much. As such THEY have more control over their libido.

My point is this: given the conditions of todays society,

I dont trust women,

They have been given carte blanche every opportunity to sleep around, cheat, move up in the dating scheme all because it is now acceptable to dress and act like a whore.

Here is the kicker:

If a man acts and responds LOGICALLY to this, you are considered JEALOUS and PSYCHO. Which makes a man feel “insecure”. Which by societies standards is the LOWEST place a man can feel.

I know Im preaching to the choir here, but DAMN it is so true. Its SUCH BS when you recognize it for what it is. Why would I want to invest in ANY girl who dresses like a whore (todays standard of “cute”) all the while knowing shes flaunting her sexuality, getting prompted by multiple men daily. If I have a concern about it Im “jealous” or “insecure” and not WORTHY of a relarionship with her.

I DONT WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH A GIRL THAT DRESSES LIKE A WHORE…

QUESTION: doesnt that bother you guys? Why is it ok for her to dress like a whore, commanding every mans sexual appetite, if she is in a relationship with me? And if I notice, than Im some jealous prick. As though they dont know what their doing.

This is the s~~~ that makes me not even want to deal with relationships

They all had loads of male “friends” that they hung out with and chatted with. Attention whores the bunch of them. As a man im not ok with them hanging out with a bunch of dudes. I was of course right, the worst whore i dated double teamed two of her male friends after a party.

F~~~ that s~~~.

It’s a rigged game that I refuse to play. We all should know that by now.

Entirely agree. Im a couple glasses deep in red vino now, so Im waxing philosophical and passionate.

Notwithstanding, if I had to pin point ONE culprit as to why I dont want a relationship with a girl today, THAT IS IT, namely:

act upon the one aspect you know a man is the most helpless (visual stimulation via dressing 90% naked) THEN act as though your some innocent school girl, and the guy who cares about you is some psycho, insecure, jealous freak.

There have been many threads on this site regarding why men turned agaisnt traditional views.

THIS. IS. MINE.

This is one of my biggest reasons. You cant dress like a whore, play the choir girl, then call me a jealous freak.

Footnote: Im not CURRENTLY going through this. Just expressing one of my most significant concerns.

OF COURSE I DONT TRUST YOU. YOURE DRESSED HALF NAKED. MEN ARE VISUALLY STIMULATED. DONT TELL ME IM JEALOUS AND INSECURE.

YOU LIKE ME?

Then.

Dont.

Dress.

Like.

A

Slut.

Why is it ok for her to dress like a whore, commanding every mans sexual appetite, if she is in a relationship with me?

We know what it means. She’s either trolling for our replacement or attention whoring either of which is disrespectful. I would never treat someone I supposedly care about in such a manner.

As for myself, I am not the jealous type. I figure if they are going to f~~~ another dude they will. Nothing I say or do will stop it. I’m gone with the wind if she does as I’m no cuckold. I’ve also gotten in trouble when they try to make me act jealous to prove my devotion. WTF hamster crap???

I’m very secure in myself. I own my house free and clear. I have a few assets here and there. I irregularly make decent amounts of money which I manage until the next financial monsoon. I’m even in great physical shape for a 48 year old man. In fact, I have a younger wild and crazy bar acquaintance who just turned 21 two days after I flipped over to 48 ask me my age last night. She always thought I was in my mid-thirties.

I will never feel secure in any relationship with a woman. All it takes is:

1) The old flame Ex- Check
2) Trade up to rich guy – Check
3) Move on to a violent abuser – Check
4) Felon – Has not happened to me yet
5) Go carpet muncher – Has not happened to me yet
6) Bat s~~~ crazy – Check

A rational man cannot ever feel secure with any modern woman.

We know what it means. She’s either trolling for our replacement or attention whoring either of which is disrespectful.

Thanks for the reply CP, I read the entire post, but with respect to the above:

Thats precisely my point:

ALL girls/women dress like complete whores now days. So a simple trip to the grocery store, becomes a c~~~ fest convention because the way girls dress SCREAMS sex today.

Im not sure if my point is falling upon deaf ears here, or if Im not doing a good job of articulating the concept.

The concept is:

Girls dress like complete sluts.

Dude in a relationship gets rightly concerned.

Girl accuses him of being jealous or insecure.

IM NOT COOL WITH THAT.

I cant waste my emotional investment in a girl who is going to play THAT type of game, namely:

“Oh, my t~~~ and ass are hanging out….YOU LOVE ME, AND YOUR CONCERNED?

Whats the problem?”

CP, I know you get this. Its not directed towards you. Just curious if others have thought this.

This is definitely what has p~~~ed me off with girls.

My point is:

Girls today dressing like complete whores, cannot REASONABLY expect the men who care about them to respect and trust them.

Women cant have it BOTH ways:

“Men are visual pigs, and are horny”

AND

“Im half naked, even though I have a bf, because this outfit is CUTE”.

No.

Whats worse is them telling their boyfriends they are JEALOUS or INSECURE.

Women cant have it both ways.

-Eeee this creep looked at me at the gym!      Suprise bitch! If you dress like a f~~~ing whore at the gym dudes will look at you.

That one I went out with this past weekend does not dress like that in fact quite the opposite. Would I ever feel secure in a relationship with someone like her? No, witness points 1 through 6 plus whatever/whoever else I don’t know about.

I don’t f~~~ing trust women, because the vast majority are the way you described including my little 21 year old bar buddy. I felt sorry for her boyfriend last night. I don’t know if he knows that she swings both ways, yet. Plus, she was full body hugging and flirting with every guy in there. He was very jealous too as he was giving me the stink eye.

I tried to snap a picture of a scantily clad nasty land whale I saw waddling into my neighborhood as I was leaving, but I couldn’t due to the traffic signal changing. She was dressed like a total street hooker too. I wanted to post it here.