By marrying up the food chain you can theoretically avoid a lot of usual relationship pains like supporting a spendthrift bitch, fear of her taking your s~~~ in a divorce, alimony, huge child support payments and etc. While dating – she’d be less likely to expect you to pay for everything or use you to get dinners and gifts and s~~~. She won’t see you as a walking wallet or an ATM.
Could this possibly work?

I know that women aren’t very attracted to men standing below them on a social ladder, but maybe bitches who were born into money don’t over-obsess about material things like other bitches do, and more likely to be looking for a good character and not a meal ticket, knowamasayn?

I overheard some people at my church joking about some lucky bastards that married up – so I am not making this up. That’s why I’m curious what do you guys think?

Or… her hiring a hit man worth thousands of dollars to make you disappear instead of dealing with you taking 50% of her s~~~…. .. . .

Better to live on less and retain your masculinity and freedom. A woman will always resent a man that does not support her. I make enough to be comfortable, so why be desperate for money?

I’m not sure it’s really that simple, although there are a lot of rich women that don’t need a man to support them (and is often actually the opposite), but I’m sure there are other s~~~s you’ll come across with such a woman.

By marrying up the food chain you can theoretically avoid a lot of usual relationship pains like supporting a spendthrift bitch, fear of her taking your s~~~ in a divorce, alimony, huge child support payments and etc. While dating – she’d be less likely to expect you to pay for everything or use you to get dinners and gifts and s~~~. She won’t see you as a walking wallet or an ATM. Could this possibly work?

You can avoid alimony, but not child support. In Canada, child support is based on your ability to pay – not need. Regardless of what she makes, you will pay child support based on your income. I would assume the same holds true for other western world countries.

In regard to taking half your s~~~ and alimony, be careful. I have seen women who have great careers and make good money, but that dwindles once she has her claws in a guy who makes good money. It’s a gradual thing, so you don’t really notice it until it’s too late.

And yes, like Wolf said, the only other guy I know who married up a little bit, ended up with the wife completely backsliding into working only 2 days a week after having two kids.  Then he had to work himself to death to pay for that lifestyle, and his reward was her cheating on him.

I have never heard of any woman willing to roll back their lifestyle.  Not worth rolling the dice on that one.

And yes, like Wolf said, the only other guy I know who married up a little bit, ended up with the wife completely backsliding into working only 2 days a week after having two kids.  Then he had to work himself to death to pay for that lifestyle, and his reward was her cheating on him.

Having kids is the kicker. She will take maternity leave when the kid(s) is born. Then, you’ll decide “together” that child care is too expensive, so she’ll stay home until the kid(s) are in school. But then there will be some other excuse for her to not work full time. And, of course, this is a “family decision” that you both made. The fact that you wanted her to work but couldn’t force her (save clubbing her on the head and dragging her to a workplace) will not be the story in divorce court. She sacrificed for the family and you pay.

I’ve seen it happen a dozen times, if not 100 times.