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Married Men Coping with Alcohol

BD — Sat, 06 Jun 2015 05:13:27 +0000

Hello Gents,

For some reason, I just keep witnessing and hearing stories about married men who must drink everyday after work just so that they can cope with being near their wives.

Surely a study would present a link of sorts.

Does anyone have anything to add to this?

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

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Ancientwisdom — Sat, 06 Jun 2015 05:25:44 +0000

S~~~: Im single and do this. I thought it was man dealing with the (f~~~ed up) world handed to him. Correct me if Im wrong (other) single dudes?

Myself? Been dealt some good hands and massively poor ones in life. The latter trumped the former, and YES alcohol has been an easing mechanism. It is what it is. But I differ from women for recognizing cause and effect.

Id be shocked if MOST men on here dont use the drink. Im honest with myself, and anyone who cares to ask. Glad you did.

Resident cynic.

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MAXIMUS — Sat, 06 Jun 2015 05:27:14 +0000

BD wrote:

Hello Gents, For some reason, I just keep witnessing and hearing stories about married men who must drink everyday after work just so that they can cope with being near their wives. Surely a study would present a link of sorts. Does anyone have anything to add to this?

Yeah more alcohol!

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ILiveAgain — Sat, 06 Jun 2015 06:09:57 +0000

Mmmm Wild Turkey

Alcohol and I get on just fine …. but it draws the line at my involvement with women.

It gets very jealous ☺

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Ancientwisdom — Sat, 06 Jun 2015 06:34:53 +0000

S~~~, since you started this thread (and hats off to you for it) I wonder how many guys DONT drink (?).

Serious question.

I know were all different, but F~~~ me: NO booze? Life is a BITCH, and booze helps lol.

Oh, how I wish it werent true.

Resident cynic.

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jack reacher — Sat, 06 Jun 2015 06:44:50 +0000

I have been down that road self medicating. It is not the most productive method for self actualization and improvement, to put it mildly. There is great potential for MGTOW to build self awareness, self identity, independence, and a number of other positive attributes. Very difficult to achieve them with booze.

It is understandable, that when you start transitioning through the pill phases, that depression, anger, and frustration build. And an occasional checking out with some booze or whatever is probably not that bad. But regular consumption to the point where you are reliant on it, well that means the bitches and the gynocracy have you under their control.

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foolsgold — Sat, 06 Jun 2015 07:51:13 +0000

I believe I have taken more out of alcohol than it will ever take out of me. I stole that line somewhere. But it holds true very much in my case. I hardly drank when I was married. Many friends and family members have told me that I would still be married if I was drinking a lot during the marriage. One of the main reasons I figured out marriage was a s~~~ty deal was because I was sober. Once she filed for divorce and threw me out of MY house, I made no attempt to stop her. I started drinking a lot during the divorce to drown out the beatings I took in family court. The booze helped me not give a f~~~ about anything during and after the divorce proceedings. It helped me become MGTOW. Her side of the family is bothered by the fact that I don’t care. Makes me smile.

Right now I just drink on weekends. Never on work days. I see my kids quite often so I NEVER drink in front of them. I was one of the lucky one’s. Alcohol was something that helped me. It never controlled me. Unlike the ex wife. Most of the time it’s going to hurt you by drinking. It only caused me to fall down a time or two. I believe Ben Franklin once said that beer was proof that God wanted us to be happy. Again, the main cause of my divorce was because I was sober. I’ll end the post with a sober acronym.

Son

Of a

Bitch

Everything is

Real

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RoyDal — Sat, 06 Jun 2015 08:15:42 +0000

I drink red wine … for the health benefits. Health benefits, yeah, that’s the ticket.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

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Sat, 06 Jun 2015 10:23:27 +0000

I hardly drink, normally.

I think married men are stressed by the wenches and alcohol dulls the pain for them. I had an awful roommate that I had to evict 6 weeks ago. The room still smells like a barn animal was stored in it. Anyway, I was so stressed during his stay I’d drink every single day. I was in my final relations~~~ and drank like a fish too. Toxic people make it very easy to drink.

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Sat, 06 Jun 2015 13:08:31 +0000

@Ancientwisdom

i have never drunk alcohol, and likely never will, not something im interested in doing

as for using it to deal with problems, i havent had any serious problems where i needed external factors to deal with them, having said that even if i did i dont think i would drink tbh..just me

Peace