I’ll say that the guy has make some big mistakes in his life, but to blame himself for his wife cheating on him for 10 years is really just awful. Ideally, a life partner should be making you a stronger person, not sucking you dry and keeping a secret as big as that for 10 years. You have to be dead inside to keep a charade like that going for that long. Look into the eyes of your husband every day and pretend you love them for 10 years. What kind of sick, demented person can do that?

What kind of sick, demented person can do that?

I’ll tell ya. Ratted a bitch like that out to her husband. He was a good guy. We worked together. And he was BUFF. The dude was WORKED OUT. Not even the bulky muscle stereotype. Just in PERFECT shape… and really just…. well, a “nice guy”. NO WAY would she meet a guy in better shape for a fling. She didn’t screw around because the other guy was “hotter”…. or richer… or more of a jerk. In fact, it was rumored the guy she was shagging was hung like a gerbil too. She screwed around for years – right under his nose – because she could. They even knew each other.

It was as if the ONLY thing that got her off was the fact that it was “secret sex on the side”.

So one day I was working with the “nice guy” and I couldn’t see it anymore. I think what prompted it was something like Valentine’s Day was coming up and he was planning something special for her. So I told him. Of course, I was now “the great big f~~~ing asshole” that came between them. They were married more than 10 years. Two kids. F~~~in’ shame.

He just didn’t deserve it, you know. Not on ANY level.
I didn’t do a goddam thing wrong. Not sorry.

I hate reading these stories about the monumental levels of BS women pull, but I’m afraid if I don’t I might someday underestimate one by mistake.

That facebook post, reads like an ad for MGTOW

Damn right. We’ve added it here. http://www.mgtow.com/poster/lou/

The sentence that struck hard was “she says it’s because I changed”.
Well, that’s what she wanted him to do. Every man knows that:

• “I hate that old T-shirt you wear from college”….
• “No you can’t bring your favorite chair into our new house”….
• “Will you stop playing those video games, it’s so immature”….
• “Stop doing what you like. I’m bored.“….

Changing him is exactly what girlfriends and wives set out to do.
And then they BLAME you for it when you do.

WEDDING = AILSE + ALTAR + HYMN.

….AILSE……ALTAR…… HYMN…..

“I’ll alter him”.

And everyone laughs because they think it’s “cute”.
This video should be dedicated to HIM:

Women are dream killers is NO exaggeration.
And what do you end up with? A good for nothing cow that won’t even f~~~ you, who you now have to PAY to f~~~ off.

Just one small problem. You’re sixty f~~~ing five before you start doing what you really want to do! If you’re lucky you won’t be plagued with s~~~ty diseases, you have low energy, your body can’t do the things it used to. Chances are likely that you’re divorced giving half your money away. You could die any day if you haven’t taken good care of yourself. It’s A SHAM, and nearly everyone takes the bait.

This guy should be lucky to realize it at 46, let alone at all. Most people die full of regret. All the system has to do is teach it to you at a young age, then these people keep the limitations going themselves after that. Nobody is mastering any real skills anymore and doing cool s~~~.

It’s like that experiment where the dog or the monkey or whatever is in a cage and they just shock it constantly. Then they open the gate and it doesn’t even try to leave anymore. Well… they are shocking the s~~~ out of us in our youth, then we just stop trying after that. The real travesty is millions of men are living and dying thinking the most important thing they are going to do is inseminate a woman and let their kids grow up to hate their lives worse than they did.

F~~~ it, guys. If you aren’t doing what you enjoy today, you’re f~~~ing up. I’m not saying just get f~~~ed up every day because YOLO, but find something that looks interesting and master it for the hell of it. Do things that give you awesome experiences, don’t rot away until you’re asking yourself what happened to you like this poor guy. I know a lot of you have realized this already, which is why you’re here, but for those of you that haven’t… WAKE UP!

Changing him is exactly what girlfriends and wives set out to do. And then they BLAME you for it when you do.

And this guy probably had no idea it was even happening.

You have to be dead inside to keep a charade like that going for that long.

I’ve seen some hardcore s~~~ firsthand. One of my oldest buddies was married for ten years, during which they had three kids. During the last two years, she openly cheated on him. Now, he wasn’t down with it and they separated as soon as she made it known. But still, she cheated on him the entire time from then up to the divorce, and pulled some crazy vindictive s~~~ along the way, such as keeping the kids on Fathers Day when he was scheduled to have them, and sending him a picture of her and the girls with the other guy in it saying “Happy Fathers Day…F~~~ YOU!!!”. That’s just f~~~ed up.

Most of them do have the appearance of being dead inside. Empty husks filled with nothing but materialistic obsession and emotional manipulation…oh, and shoes.

It’s like that experiment where the dog or the monkey or whatever is in a cage and they just shock it constantly. Then they open the gate and it doesn’t even try to leave anymore.

Wow… it’s exactly like that. There may not even be a better way of describing it.

Edog wrote:

such as keeping the kids on Fathers Day when he was scheduled to have them, and sending him a picture of her and the girls with the other guy in it saying “Happy Fathers Day…F~~~ YOU!!!”

Not a single f~~~ing animal would do this type of s~~~.

Keymaster wrote:

Of course, I was now “the great big f~~~ing asshole” that came between them.

I’m not SAYING you’re batman… I’m just saying you’re the hero Gotham deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So they’ll hunt you. Because you can take it. Because you’re not their hero. You’re a silent guardian. A watchful protector. A Dark Knight.

It’s like that experiment where the dog or the monkey or whatever is in a cage and they just shock it constantly. Then they open the gate and it doesn’t even try to leave anymore.

“Frog Soup“.

Married men are like Beaten Dogs. It’s like The Frog Soup Analogy.
– by Tom Leykis.

Eerie. If these ideas had no merit, then men wouldn’t constantly be reaching the same conclusion independently. We don’t need a group like feminists to tell us what to think. We all stumble upon these ideas on our own, usually from past experiences.