MGTOWLooks/Appearance – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/looksappearance/feed/ Tue, 09 Jun 2020 10:04:34 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/looksappearance/page/380/#post-40980 <![CDATA[Looks/Appearance]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/looksappearance/page/380/#post-40980 Fri, 17 Apr 2015 03:22:40 +0000 Jon92 My last reply just brought some emotions up that has bothered me for a long time. I just have to get it off my chest. I grew up in a normal family environment, two married parents and none of the bulls~~~ that a lot of people had to deal with growing up. I was taught to have very high self esteem. That being said, I never thought I was a bad looking or ugly guy. But i have to tell you, I feel like one. This is why…Ive never had very much success with women. I exercise, workout, eat a clean diet. Im not a body builder but Im in good shape. Anyway, 99.99 percent of the time when I would approach a women they act immediately disinterested. Some look at me like its a joke I’m even talking to her. From these experiences Im almost afraid to even talk to women anymore. This goes back to Middle school. I just conclude that Im not an attractive guy. Anyone else on here feel that way? Similar experience?

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/looksappearance/#post-40985 <![CDATA[Reply To: Looks/Appearance]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/looksappearance/#post-40985 Fri, 17 Apr 2015 03:53:06 +0000 Exsliventxs Jon92 you haven’t just straight up asked a woman you knew and told her to give it to you straight with no sugar coating?

You want to shore up areas of your entirety that may need a little man-tenance, then just bug a female friend.

I have lots of those, they’re usually ugly, but the plus side is, they talk like actual human beings and can be REASONED with…

I can’t stay friends with hot women because I eventually f~~~ them or they f~~~ me.

 

1. I know I’m attractive, girls call me cute.

2. I’ve also been told I’m getting a little chubby.

3. I see it for what it is, ordered an exercise machine last week, just got here today. You just have to amplify your strengths, minimize your weaknesses.

4. ACCEPT your weaknesses, then make it your strength.

5. Now you have no weaknesses and are bruising the back of chicks throats. The end.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/looksappearance/#post-40990 <![CDATA[Reply To: Looks/Appearance]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/looksappearance/#post-40990 Fri, 17 Apr 2015 04:15:15 +0000 Jon92 I used to ask girls that question when I was like 16-17 and I didn’t like the answers most of the time. LOL. I haven’t really asked since then. I like the points that you make.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/looksappearance/#post-40995 <![CDATA[Reply To: Looks/Appearance]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/looksappearance/#post-40995 Fri, 17 Apr 2015 04:26:06 +0000 AFT Women don’t care as much about looks than attitude.  Self confidence, a positive mindset and social assertiveness gets you further than looking good.  A good dose of not giving half a f~~~ works wonders.  You gotta be assertive, to the point of pushy and inappropriately c~~~y, in the end I doubt it weighs up as worth it.

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/looksappearance/#post-40996 <![CDATA[Reply To: Looks/Appearance]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/looksappearance/#post-40996 Fri, 17 Apr 2015 04:30:46 +0000 Exsliventxs
AFT wrote:

A good dose of not giving half a f~~~ works wonders.  You gotta be assertive, to the point of pushy and inappropriately c~~~y, in the end I doubt it weighs up as worth it.

This was what I was leading him into, via this..

Exsliventxs wrote:

4. ACCEPT your weaknesses, then make it your strength.

5. Now you have no weaknesses and are bruising the back of chicks throats. The end.

…  I could have just been super blunt like you, that works too… kinda like it my way though….   LOL

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/looksappearance/#post-40998 <![CDATA[Reply To: Looks/Appearance]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/looksappearance/#post-40998 Fri, 17 Apr 2015 04:39:22 +0000 MgtowWave There are videos of something called Dating in the dark where u can’t even see each other till the lights go on and the wait staff wear night vision.Look and see how many women are soo into these guys till the lights go on.I don’t believe it for a minute that women aren’t just as vain about looks as we are.It’s another gynocentric and blue pill lie that says that women aren’t about looks and status.I know when I’m in shape n got a good hair cut n dress nice I get a lot more attention from women right off the street and everywhere .

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/looksappearance/#post-41000 <![CDATA[Reply To: Looks/Appearance]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/looksappearance/#post-41000 Fri, 17 Apr 2015 04:42:59 +0000 DoinMyOwnThing40 I feel exactly the same way as you do. I always thrived on having a very good appearance. I always stayed fit. I am only happy and confident about myself when I am very fit. Not unbelievably fit like a ripped up bodybuilder, but fit enough. When my physique gets out of shape I am depressed and lack any confidence. Some people don’t mind being a little bit overweight. I can’t handle it, it makes me very depressed. So I make sure to stay fit. It ain’t easy but I do it because if I didn’t do it I would feel awful about myself. Even if I gain just 5 pounds I get very upset about it.

It’s too bad though. I wish I could be happy as a fat guy. For real, what’s the point in looking good if it ain’t gonna get ya laid by hot chicks on a regular basis.

I know that I am attractive, but  it does me little to no good. Except that it makes me feel good about myself. It doesn’t get me laid though. I obviously don’t have game or whatever.

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/looksappearance/#post-41006 <![CDATA[Reply To: Looks/Appearance]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/looksappearance/#post-41006 Fri, 17 Apr 2015 05:01:14 +0000 MgtowWave Women love muscles and a good face and well kept hair .And status.Once you have their attention they like if you flirt back with them in a confident manner.But to think or say anything ugly dude with lots of c charm is going to pull chicks left and right is a lie.PUA Neil Strauss got plastic surgery. Why???? If game is sooo powerful did he have to do that,???

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/looksappearance/#post-41012 <![CDATA[Reply To: Looks/Appearance]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/looksappearance/#post-41012 Fri, 17 Apr 2015 05:20:24 +0000 AFT
Exsliventxs wrote:

… I could have just been super blunt like you, that works too… kinda like it my way though…. LOL

I know I’m too straight forward most of the time, but I really didn’t get the same message from your post, regardless of how I tried to interpret it, that’s ok though, the message probably got through one way or the other.

MgtowWave wrote:

I don’t believe it for a minute that women aren’t just as vain about looks as we are.It’s another gynocentric and blue pill lie that says that women aren’t about looks and status.

I really believe women look for different things, like status, power, confidence, wisdom and experience.  But I’ll reassess and keep my eyes open, perhaps you do have a valid point, I may need to incorporate a broader view.

MgtowWave wrote:

I know when I’m in shape n got a good hair cut n dress nice I get a lot more attention from women right off the street and everywhere .

Could also be a result of feeling better, and greater confidence at those times, besides I’m not saying a more attractive, appealing man isn’t going to get more attention initially, but a man isn’t going to close pussy with good looks alone.  It’s his confidence and attitude.

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

I know that I am attractive, but it does me little to no good. Except that it makes me feel good about myself. It doesn’t get me laid though. I obviously don’t have game or whatever.

Yep that’s the confidence and attitude = GAME.  But if you have to put in a special effort to manufacture it, you have to ask, is it worth it?

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/looksappearance/#post-41059 <![CDATA[Reply To: Looks/Appearance]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/looksappearance/#post-41059 Fri, 17 Apr 2015 09:35:23 +0000 @aft i think you’re approaching it wrong man, as much as i hate PUA’s they got it right

Alpha f~~~s, Beta bucks

looks and size(muscles) matter if u want to f~~~ her fast(STR)- basically in such a situation she is assessing your genetics to see if you are fit for mating(sub-concious i believe)

with the money status power stuff, thats for after when she wants to settle

bottom line is yes they care about looks if its their c~~~ carousel period, ofcourse charisma and confidence are also very important- basically you have to act alpha, idk bout you but it seems like alot of work to me but hey, your life bro, good luck

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