I got a visit for the ex-wife who  came over tonight and lectures me on how I behind on child support. I tell her she will have to wait. I should be up to date with all my payments by the end of summer. I think she is stressing out about money ( or the lack of it). I love how in one breath she is crying how she has absolutely no money for the kids school supplies but in the next breath is bragging about how she is taking the kids to this water park and that amusement park with the season pass she bought around this past Christmas. Even with the pass, its still at least a $100 to $150 for the day with the gas, tolls and food.

This was followed by how wonder her life is since she moved out a few weeks ago. She is a great role model for mother of the year (has the boyfriend who she has been seeing since last years staying over 4 nights a week). It was the typical conversation ( your a deadbeat, loser, asshole,..etc.. etc). The best part of it was how she had me on speaker talking to me like this with the new boyfriend listen in. I said “oh great, that fantastic!! I wonder how long before he realizes this will be his future!!! The look on her face was priceless!!

I have come to a conclusion that people who have to bolster themselves up on the internet and brag on how great their life is cry for help on how pathetic their lives really are. I wonder how long before her white knight in shining armor realizes the life he has created  for himself is a p~~~ poor choice?  But hey what do I give a s~~~, he got me my freedom.

Will her white knight  try and save her?.. s~~~ yeah!!!.   He will only learn after he has realized she has drained all of his resources (time and money) on a family that was not his!! I loved the tonight’s speech of ” I would have stayed married to you if you were making money and able to support your family”. It only goes to show how she saw me  just  as a ATM machine!! I said this was the best thing that has happened to me in a long time. No more sleeping on a couch for 8 freaken years without sex. Gone are tha daily ” you suck speeches!!  I welcome freedom with open arms.

You  know who is to blame for that?   F~~~N me!!! I let it happened because of societies standard of you  stay in a bad sexless, loveless marriage because that what has been drilled into your head. P~~~ poor blue pill thinking!! Swallowing the red pill is a very difficult thing to do, but at least you get to see the world for what it truly is!!

1. He is a blue pill mangina and she is golddigging him. When he runs out of money, she leaves him for the next guy.

2. He is a just using her for sex and once she starts trying to golddig him, he bolts.

Either way, you win in the end because she will always be unhappy no matter what she does. Then as she gets older, she won’t even be able to find a guy to use her for sex haha.

I can’t wait to hear how this story ends later. There is two options: 1. He is a blue pill mangina and she is golddigging him. When he runs out of money, she leaves him for the next guy. 2. He is a just using her for sex and once she starts trying to golddig him, he bolts. Either way, you win in the end because she will always be unhappy no matter what she does. Then as she gets older, she won’t even be able to find a guy to use her for sex haha.

I would go for option #2. I think he will dump her after he gets fed up with all of her and the kids  crap. She is already telling the kids– don’t give him a hard time, you know how hard it will be for a mom with multiple kids to find a guy to stick around? ( yes they are all mine)

Yes she will be unhappy no matter what she does. I see it already. She got a house her parents bought her ( sorry loaned her the money for–aka they hold the mortgage), the kids ( who are starting to drive her crazy) and the boyfriend ( for how long no one know).

I just need to stay focused on the future and no be sucked into my past!!

It only goes to show how she saw me  just  as a ATM machine!! I

That is all we are, wallets,

Women are money addicts and they need their fix, they spend and spend it, and then, over time, they need even more because the old amount doesn’t satisfy them, they look for more and more money while riding the carousel,

and then they hit the wall,  and they can no longer support this money addiction, this is their “moment of clarity”

This is when you hear “Where have all the good men gone?”

This is when, we as men, laugh.

Bright guy wrote:

It only goes to show how she saw me just as a ATM machine!! I

That is all we are, wallets, Women are money addicts and they need their fix, they spend and spend it, and then, over time, they need even more because the old amount doesn’t satisfy them, they look for more and more money while riding the carousel, and then they hit the wall, and they can no longer support this money addiction, this is their “moment of clarity” This is when you hear “Where have all the good men gone?” This is when, we as men, laugh.

Hey BulletDodger,

you forgot one thing answer– Daddy I need more money!!!  ..lol ..Their moment of clarity comes when they hit the wall and Daddy is either no longer willing or is no longer around  to fed their money addiction.

You’re much better off without her, Ignore her as much as possible,

I can’t even count how many times I’d have a woman living with me, her endless droning voice spewing mindless irrelevant boring bulls~~~, and how I would have given anything for some peace and quiet,

We now have it, and ain’t it great. Life is good.