I feel really lonely right now, I have no friends nearby here that could help me and just don’t know what to do.

She is sleeping right now and haven’t seen my message and then when she wake upp hell will go loose. I feel really unstable emotionally.

Guess I’m just looking for some support to endure all this..

Cheers.

Is life so dear or peace so sweet as to be purchased at the price of chains and slavery? Forbid it, Almighty God! I know not what course others may take, but as for me, give me liberty, or give me death!
–Patrick Henry

Mr Henry said this just before the USA broke up with Great Britain.

The world is still the same s~~~ place is was yesterday and the day before.

This feeling will pass … as they all do.

You made a choice, now stay with it. You made that choice for reasons you know are best for you.

Stick with it and you will find freedom and peace will come soon.

Be strong for now. Don’t go back … because nothing will change and you’ll still end up going through this all over again.

Hello. I just sent a message to my girlfriend of 2 years living in another country (latin country and latin girlfriend) to say that I break up. I went back to my coutnry a week ago and this is the first time she is aloen there withoput me in two years and I realize what a pussy I am for breaking up when im not geografically nearby. She was basically a girl with daddy issues, jealousy and an emotional vampire. She had a kid and was married before me. But, I of course do have some feelings and I am really afraid that I will go back after she convince me, I am afraid that I will go weak. I feel really lonely right now, I have no friends nearby here that could help me and just don’t know what to do. She is sleeping right now and haven’t seen my message and then when she wake upp hell will go loose. I feel really unstable emotionally. Guess I’m just looking for some support to endure all this.. Cheers.

Read the other intros and it will open your eyes.

http://www.mgtow.com/forums/forum/introductions/

The trick is realising its just an emotion …. a chemical reaction in your brain

That’s exactly how I got over some frustration and hang-ups from past relationship. That’s all there is to it. With time (weeks, months) the desire to initiate contact or being contacted will die a slow death. It is up to you to make it as painfree as you want.

There was a Buddhist monk I watched on youtube about letting go. He said his master once told him to pick a rock and asked if it was heavy. Then he asked him to drop it. He asked again, “Is it heavy now?”

Let go. Happiness will find you.

Thanks guys, It’s under control for the moment. She is atthe moment writing to me in skype. A lot… Begging me and saying she’s gonna change and so on..

DON’T FALL FOR IT.

They will say and do (temporarily) anything to get you back on the plantation.

Be strong and hold faith.

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Send us a picture of her?

Now, before denial, was the thought, for a nanosecond even, “Well she’s not that..”

The same applies Maximally to issues jealousy emotion vampire with a kid.

There’s the fraction of a second where your brain Is Telling You the Truth, before you subdue it. That flash of truth IS the truth. Don’t get lured back in by her and the “subdue it” part of your brain, or you’ll end up with a subdued life, one of regret.

Why are you affraid that all hell will break loose??????   You are clearly pussy whipped piece of s~~~?????

When you make a break you have to stick with it or you loose all credibility.  Soon she’ll see you as being weak, willing to suffer her bulls~~~ and will always take her back into your life.  The fact that you left channels open for her to communicate with her such as texts, e-mail and skype are all indications that you are a Blue Pill and looking to get her attention.  You want her to plead with you to fix things up.  You are not really ready to make the break.  If you keep this up she will know that she can not only continue on without making changes, she’ll go out and cheat on you and know fine well that if the other guy doesn’t pan out, you will willingly take her back.  You are simply pussy puppy.  You need to change.  Why are you afraid???????

I’m focusing my mind on trying to stay logical, not fall back into the feelings I feel or the feelings she wants to create in me. She knows I’m a very kind person and feel sorry for persons if I feel guilty for their misery. She’s  basically making herself a victim of everything possible right now and saying that I can’t leave her as trash behind. That I ruined her life, that I can’t leave her after all we’ve been trough.

She is really good looking, working as a model, has big fake t~~~ and a really nice body.  But she also has  a temper and a need for control I just can’t stand. So much bulls~~~ all the time for nothing. She eliminated friends from my cellphone, read my diary (and got p~~~ed of when she saw the name of another girl before her time), doesn’t want me to meet freinds that she doesn’t like, don’t have respect for my money and live just spedning my money in cigaretts and other bulls~~~ she canät live without. So many things that i logically jus’t cant accept, but the she goes on and make her self a victim and palys real nice for a while. Saying that she know she has problems mentally buty she’s trying to change. But she’s been saying that she is trying to change for such a long time now, it just wont happen.

Thanks for the support guys, it really helps to see yout comments.

F~~~ it, I’m just reading a lot on this site right now to keep my mind straight and focused on the right thing.