When I see a girl with a hot body now, instead of thinking “man look at her ass” etc. I find myself thinking about how dirty she is, how many men she must have screwed in the past and/or are currently screwing, how she is probably screwing some dirty guy with tats all over his body etc. Is it weird to think like this? I’m not sure how I feel about it, or if anyone else feels the same way.

I am in my mid 30’s so I am not that old yet, and yet I almost feel as if my days of being sexual with a woman are over. I am a fairly decent looking guy, and in good physical shape, and a few months ago I had a chance to sleep with this very attractive woman. But I just couldn’t do it, because I kept thinking about how dirty she was, and I guess I kept thinking back to all the negative experiences I have had with women over the past few years.

Is this weird? Is there something wrong with me? Is it normal to feel this way after having so many bad experiences with women? I don’t know, I am just not into one night stands like a lot of guys are in general. It actually turns me off. Is that strange? The ironic thing is, because I am decent looking, a lot of chances for one night stands come up for me, but I either don’t want to do it, or am unable to because of my general disgust with women overall.

What should I make of this situation? Should I just accept it? Try to embrace it? Or…do you think I should be upset, and try to “correct” myself into wanting one-nighters and trying to not be so disgusted with women? Their attitudes and the way they are so loose with scumbag men has really done a number on my attraction for them. I don’t know if I can ever recover.

I’m not trying to be dismissive orcallous.

Coping with this takes guidance.

Sorry can’t say better but I’m on my mobile and texting is difficult.

Most are just dull and boring media fueled morons.

What’s not to like ☺

I sorta get where you are coming from. I have turned down many girls in my life. Why? Cuz I simply didn’t have the interest in doing them. Some of them were actually pretty attractive too. I just didn’t “feel it” so I didn’t do it.

I wouldn’t worry about it mate. You are thinking with your brain and not your dick.

Here is what happened to me, maybe you can relate. I used to think women were brilliant shiny creatures, magical and superior. I would chase them one way or another and I would always notice they preferred the dickheads who would treat them poorly but also well from a material perspective. I had romantic dreams and hopes and came to see it was pointless.

Even when I would meet a woman who said she liked me it wouldn’t take long before she would come out with some reason as to why she didn’t like me, the classic “You’re a really nice guy but..” excuses. I started to time them it would become so regular.

So eventually the romance was just killed in me. Now, I don’t even want them for sex.

It’s a strange feeling to feel completely free from the control of a any female. Use the pent up sexual energy for new hobbies or projects, such as building a muscle car, working out, or traveling. Those three helped me out drastically with my technical expertise, quality of life, and knowledge gained.

Pretty soon you will forget about women and think they are an obstacle to doing whatever YOU want to do instead.

Pretty soon it becomes entertaining to see women acting like attention whores when you aren’t drooling over them, buying drinks, etc. Some will be furious but most will take it as a challenge. Watch their hamster wheel spin into orbit!

Think about it: what do you REALLY need a woman for? I really need to take a p~~~ every now and then but you don’t see me marrying/carrying a urinal around! I just use it and keep it moving! (The urinal that is). Rather rub one out and save the time, $$, and hassle..

It might be because most women aren’t exciting ….. or outwardly they portray such an acidic persona ….. you’ll never get close enough to find out. Most are just dull and boring media fueled morons. What’s not to like

Same here.
Women are like treasures.
Made with s~~~.
And with s~~~ inside it too.
But for some reason everyone thinks they’re great.
The only women I have found smart were one of my English teachers, and two of my economics teachers.
The rest: brain-f~~~ing-dead.
Plus ugly most of the time, anyway.