Good luck.

BVC

It behooves me to say though, that despite it being abuse, it would certainly go against my morals to do anything about it…other than the obvious end to the relationship.  What would be worse though, I believe, would be a wife/girlfriend that just lays there like a corpse and lets you do your thing.  I found in the past that becoming a bigger and bigger issue with women of the younger generation.  It is like they think we don’t need any foreplay or dirty ‘pillow talk’ (?) as it were.

I’ve go so far as to put off my own gratification to be able to please my sexual partner so it becomes not only sexual abuse but also physical and mental  abuse as well.  Then, if you cannot perform because they are unwilling to capitulate…some women ridicule you for not doing so.

No, but it’s controlling. There are other ways to satisfy a man. If you cannot live up to your wedding vows and satisfy your partner, then you should get a divorce.

I think it interesting that you say that if people cannot live up to their marital vows and satisfy your partner, get a divorce.   The only grounds that a divorce is applicable in that sense is if a man cannot perform (as many MGTOW YouTubers have posted).  It falls to a woman’s entitlement to what a man has…and like they say in the video, they are entitled to men’s penises…by law, but men cannot say the same.  If you do not perform for your wife, then by law…it is considered a form of abuse to her.  The opposite should certainly be true.

CHEATING is not the problem.
She is trying to get away with cheating HIM OUT of it.

That’s why women are so p~~~ed when they have no control over the sex you GET – and DON’T get. They want to fully be able to regulate the flow and control your nut. As soon as you get it elsewhere, that game fails. These women should not even be in relationships or marriages…. while operating under the pretense of “love”. It’s false pretenses, and from your wife, it’s as much “abuse” as the “abuse” you would endure being held at gun point for a ransom. The act itself is not “abusive” in the least…. but the torture of finding yourself in a stalemate situation is. If you had a reasonable out, it wouldn’t be abuse at all. But knowing she will kick you out of your own house and move her next boyfriend in while you pay her monthly – the aftermath is MOST CERTAINLY abusive.

Enduring “punishment” for doing nothing wrong definitely qualifies as abuse.

Girlfriends? That’s a different story. An UNAMRRIED man can never be expected to explain or apologize for where (or how) he gets his nut. THAT’S WHY he’s not married. Girlfriends have no business trying to control your nut.

Whoever told “girlfreinds” they are permitted to use the word “cheating” in an accusation against an UNMARRIED man, needs an earful from a MAN right quick.

You start out in the replacing s~~~ – er…  relations~~~ – er…. relationship.  There… whew!! got it finally.  Anyhoo…  Things start hot in the beginning.  You both are a great match sexually.

Then things change…  she wants it less and less and finally not at all.  This effects you because sex is a natural and healthy ‘release’ (for men and women by the way).

The Shagin’ Wagon is stuck in the mud and she doesn’t want to get out and help push.  DAMN!

Naturally, you will want to get it from somewhere.   If I were in a marriage, that would be a deal breaker, or she would have to be fine with having my needs met by another woman.

If I were in a dating relationship – well.. I wouldn’t be in it for long.

Cheers.

We need a bigger n  (sample size)

BVC

I’d say it’s abuse, but only if the man agrees to it. That seems unrealistic that any man would agree, but I don’t find it unrealistic at all that a woman would try to demand this. In my experience with women, whatever her demands are, anytime those demands are met, they increase shortly thereafter. There is no limit on how high the demand will go. There’s nothing they won’t take from you if you continue to say yes when they raise the demands. Any woman who gets all her demands met and says she’s satisfied will be told by the hive that she settled. Any woman who does not get all her demands met will be told by the hive that she was cheated.

I wasn’t aware that the law considers a man unable to perform in bed for his wife to be a form of abuse. But since we are <sarcasm> all ‘equal’ now under the law, then it has to be abuse if she can’t/won’t.