MGTOW"I really need to tell you something, but you have to promise not to get mad…" – MGTOW

"I really need to tell you something, but you have to promise not to get mad…"

Uptownjesus — Thu, 25 Jun 2015 20:34:38 +0000

This is one of those phrases that you will NEVER hear a dude say to the woman that he’s dating, but that every f~~~ing one of us has heard from ever woman we’ve ever dated. Guys are straight forward. If we think something is going to result in a fight with your whiny, female ass; we either say it bluntly and end it with “so f~~~ you!”, or, we don’t feel like fighting with you and we keep our mouths shut. What we DON’T do is passive-aggressively say some f~~~ed up s~~~ while feigning shame and remorse for it. This has become one of my biggest pet peeves while in a relations~~~. I know our policy should simply be to not engage in a scenario like this one, but I still fall into it every time.

#pancaketittyshaming

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Soldier-Medic — Thu, 25 Jun 2015 20:39:07 +0000

My response to that is no promises. If you are going to say something s~~~ty expect a s~~~ty response. Otherwise take what you need to say and bury it down deep inside so that it festers and rots until it becomes a constant source of resentment. That’s what I do with you.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

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experienced — Thu, 25 Jun 2015 20:46:07 +0000

Yeah, like, “I know you’re in the middle of something extremely important at work and this’ll distract you so I’m not going to say what it is.”

And they know damned well what the effect is.

Like them trying to pick start an argument at the firing line. that’s right, while they’re holding the weapon.

Wait a sec, think I just started to have a mild stroke.

Memories……………………….thanks for the therapy Uptown. What does not kill us…. leads to mgtow.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

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Knights Templar Rising — Thu, 25 Jun 2015 20:59:57 +0000

By the time a woman finishes that preface, I am already enraged.

Sovereignty above all else.

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RoyDal — Thu, 25 Jun 2015 21:40:23 +0000

When I was a cubicle dweller, I was too busy for domestic arguments and not interested anyhow. It got so I left my cell phone locked in the desk drawer. The desk was all metal and the phone didn’t work in there. This strained our ‘relationship’ which, in hindsight, was a good thing.

Edit: These days, I leave the damn thing locked in the car unless I need it for something. It’s for communicating, not for idle chit-chat.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

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Helen be Damned — Thu, 25 Jun 2015 22:00:20 +0000

Don’t make promises that are entirely based on emotion, ignore the bitch when she talks to you trying to interrupt.

“Promise not to get mad”

Let’s paraphrase someone here “I can’t promise that, I have no idea what you’re going to say. you could say it and my natural response could be to get angry, then through no fault of my own I broke my promise.”

"You can keep your soul, I don't want a cell-mate." - Them Crooked Vultures

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Won'tGetFooledAgain — Fri, 26 Jun 2015 00:27:18 +0000

Does this mean prepare yourself for one of the following statements?

“I accidentally crashed your car” or “I accidentally slept with someone else”

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

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FullMetalExo — Fri, 26 Jun 2015 00:45:25 +0000

Helen be Damned wrote:

Don’t make promises that are entirely based on emotion, ignore the bitch when she talks to you trying to interrupt. “Promise not to get mad” Let’s paraphrase someone here “I can’t promise that, I have no idea what you’re going to say. you could say it and my natural response could be to get angry, then through no fault of my own I broke my promise.”

I love Pulp Fiction 🙂 and I agree.

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Russky — Fri, 26 Jun 2015 02:27:50 +0000

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

Does this mean prepare yourself for one of the following statements? “I accidentally crashed your car” or “I accidentally slept with someone else”

or “I spent 500 dollars on a handbag”

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

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Uptownjesus — Fri, 26 Jun 2015 14:53:11 +0000

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

Does this mean prepare yourself for one of the following statements? “I accidentally crashed your car” or “I accidentally slept with someone else”

The way I interpret it is:

I’m bored. I wanted to start a fight with you, so I went out and did something s~~~ty so that I could tell you about it and watch you go nuts. I’m a little bit nervous about it, so I’m prefacing it with this disclaimer. That way, after we’ve spent the evening fighting, I can say “I knew I shouldn’t have told you.” And then it will be your fault.

That’s why I liked the guy who said

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

By the time a woman finishes that preface, I am already enraged.

Maybe she wrecked the car. But 9 times out of ten she did something s~~~ty to you on purpose specifically so that she could tell you about it and start a fight. Once your girl starts making this statement, it means that she’s already signed you up for a contest of Let’s See Who Can Cause The Other One More Pain.

#pancaketittyshaming