due to the female ass kissing on there etc.  When I was a full time member I always felt I wasn’t good looking

enough and always had self esteem/body issues I would look in the mirror and think I was just to ugly for women

to date.  The catch though is I was told by multiple women/girls I wasn’t ugly and it was all in my head? But when

I’m in public I get ignored.  I just hate being told I’m good looking to date online but not in person? Yes I will admit

I’m shy and lack self confidence but not all the time.  I just hate being 29 and a virgin.  I want to lose it so badly

but refuse to sleep or having to pay a hooker.  I do have morals lol.  I’m just sick of going through life never dating

because of my problem please help. I apologize for mentioning any website/s.

Two, getting ignored by western woman is standard nowadays, and you are not alone whatsoever. The key is to go your own way and ignore them back, you cannot go chasing these people that are making you feel like s~~~.

And hey man, there are some hot f~~~ing escorts out there (not hookers lol), and no strings attached, morals..man I would say you have more morals to go f~~~ whoever, than to get married, give away all your self-respect and dignity, money, and freedom, and allow some woman to control your life. This site is about going your own way in general, not dating advice..that said, once you decide that woman are no longer important to you, you will come to spend more time on working on and improving yourself, then woman will come, for what they need to be there for, a good time, and that’s it, and that’s all..this is simply my opinion though.

There are many many great guys here that have felt the same as you and will give you some excellent advice I am sure soon.

LONG LIVE MGTOW

Consider yourself lucky that you have not had a woman enter your life. Sex, is just that, sex. And that is the only thing that you need from a Woman. Don’t make the mistake of thinking you need anything more from a woman besides sex. Believe me, for many years I thought that I needed a woman for love and companionship. At 40 now I realize I do not need that. I have guy friends for companionship and sharing hobbies and interests. A woman’s sole purpose for a man is to provide sex for him. That’s it. Trust me I didn’t always think this way. Believe it or not I am not bitter. I simply DON’T CARE for women for anything other than sex. Again, I didn’t always think this way. I do now though.

Why do I think this way? Because, although I do admit I would like to have a woman in my life for love and companionship (in a fantasy world, not the real world), I realize that it’s ALL BULLS~~~. It is simply not worth it. The s~~~ that you have to go through when you have a girlfriend or a wife is just NOT worth it at all. Think about it. You marry some really cute girl……….before you know it she ain’t so cute anymore. And then you spend the rest of your life with some nagging bitch who you support. This feminist s~~~, let’s not kid ourselves I know women who are feminists yet THEIR HUSBANDS are the ones who support them. Without their husbands, they would be on the street. Do you really want to come home to a fat disgusting bitch everyday for the rest of your life (they all get fat once they trap you). Even if she doesn’t become fat, by some miracle, actually all the worse. She will be a hot cougar and easily get guys while you are at work.

I have never been married so how do I know that marriage sucks? Easy, I have two parents right? I see how it is. Not only that but every guy I’ve ever known that got married is pretty much living a f~~~ing lousy life. The only way that they make their lives better is by going to prostitutes, I ain’t even kidding. That’s their only way that they know of to make their lives f~~~ing tolerable. By getting that side pussy every now and then.

Every girlfriend I have ever had has tried to CHANGE me. They were not happy with me for one reason or another. So needless to say it never lasted long, because I don’t play that s~~~.

one who has to do the approaching and face rejection.  I know

if I were female and were 350lbs I’d still get dates.  How do I

know? My friends brother GF is overweight never helps him

and smells like low tide according to my friend when you get

close enough.  And yet she landed a guy. Just last week my aunts

brother got married at 54 we’re not related BTW. Everyone thought

he was gay well except me. So if he landed someone at 54 I guess I

have a chance. Also for some strange reason my sister thinks his wife

is a man lol.  She said she looks like a transvestite?

From the very first moment! they’re watching outta the corner of their eye to see if you look at them at all.  When engaged decades ago, my now ex would get all sorts of ticked that I didn’t notice females checking me out. IT WASN’T me nor my average looks.        My signal became a tap on my wrist to remind her the very same females, when I was single, if asked, “Excuse me, what time is it?”  had a reaction akin to, “kiss my ass you asshole.”    The only thing these creatures are trying to do is get the male to glance to prove to his partner, “see, I could  have his DNA if I wanted.”

So if he landed someone at 54 I guess I have a chance.

Be careful what you wish for…

From the very first moment! they’re watching outta the corner of their eye to see if you look at them at all. When engaged decades ago, my now ex would get all sorts of ticked that I didn’t notice females checking me out. IT WASN’T me nor my average looks. My signal became a tap on my wrist to remind her the very same females, when I was single, if asked, “Excuse me, what time is it?” had a reaction akin to, “kiss my ass you asshole.” The only thing these creatures are trying to do is get the male to glance to prove to his partner, “see, I could have his DNA if I wanted.”

Damn that was harsh.  Its reading things like that,that make me afraid to say hello to a women.  Knowing feminazi’s even saying or giving a women a complement is now considered a form of sexual harassment. I kid you not there’s a youtube video.

It’s generally not a good idea to throw out phrases like, “I feel

Afraidofdyingalone wrote:

When I was a full time member I always felt I wasn’t good looking enough and always had self esteem/body issues I would look in the mirror and think I was just to ugly for women to date.

Man, I wish I could find a way to make you see how it’s not your problem. ITS NOT YOUR FAULT OR YOUR PROBLEM. The idea of “online dating” is bulls~~~. It’s just online EMAILING. dating happens in the real world – where there is hair to smell and boobs to fondle. The first thing I would recommend is a simple change in your outlook – because you are of the opinion that you need to be good enough for them. You are much too interested in their opinion and approval.

Here’s how to get over it FAST:’

Remind yourself . You don’t know her yet.
Therefore she doesn’t MEAN anything to you yet.
And since she doesn’t mean anything to you ……
Her “rejection” can;’t possibly mean anything to you either.

You follow? It’s just a simple switch in perception and all that anxiety about not being “good looking” / rich / or good enough for them vanishes on the spot. Until you have determined that a girl is good enough for YOU, don’t give a S~~~ about what women like, don’t like, want, or don’t want. Until she means something to you, she means nothing to you.

And that’s not up to YOU. That’s up to HER.
You should not even CARE about her disqualifiers.
Your qualifiers are all that matters.

Its really not as gloomy for you as you are led to believe.

If you want to meet and date women, get off line. You don’t want to interact with women online. They are not there to meet men or develop any kind of meaningful bond. They are S~~~ at that. They are there for disposable attention, validation and to go window shopping and to throw emails into the garbage thinking they are so fabulous. Online women don’t exist.

Try a simple adjustment in your perception and only care if you like HER – and determine if she is good enough for YOU.
Forget trying to be good enough for her. Forget it.

I watched a video at youtube once, and there was a line underneath it from a commenter I will never forget:

“I used to feel really bad about not being good looking or enough of a chick magnet for women to date or marry….
But now I am inclined to CELEBRATE it.”

He thought exactly like you did. But now he’s GLAD.
Because every woman who is not interested in you is actually doing you a FAVOR.

That’s not bulls~~~.

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