I’m not emotional about the subject. But I am sometimes frustrated.

I’ve found that she spends more time projecting insecurities than actually enjoying the time we spend together. I do the regular stuff… Invite her out. Buy her dinner. Let her passenger on my sportbike. Physically, she’s extremely hot. And we’re very sexually compatible.

I’ve found the exchange to be equitable. And I don’t bear any misgivings.

However… Lately, I’m not getting laid. Affection is meted out on her terms.

I wonder if it’s a test for her to measure her control over me. I also wonder how to answer such a test.

After a few arbitrary rejections today, I asked her plainly, “Who am I supposed to have sex with, exactly?”

I think that bulls~~~ is  photosensitive. We’ll see how this one shakes out.

Obviously, walking away is a reasonable option. Besides that, what would you guys do?

Act like sex is not a big deal to you! In the future always start out with sex not being a primary need for you and they will throw it on you all the time. Women love sex also,but if you love it more than them they will use it to gain leverage on the relationship. When you stop asking for it she will feel like she’s losing her vaginal whip to keep you in order and will put out immediately. If that doesnt work,then chances are she could have the hoootz for some other guy.

Very good advice.

I would go so far as to reject her next time.

Not only that …… start flirting with other women.

This is s~~~ test no1 on the list ☺

She needs to understand she’s not that important and can be replaced.

The combination of asking her “who I should be f~~~ing” and then stop being interested in her body could be very effective.
Although I don’t have any qualms about kicking her to the curb, women are horrible creatures in my locale.

Men here can go for years without anything. The women command a ridiculously high price, and generally won’t even make eye contact with you if you’re trying to hand them money on the street.

I don’t have any problem with travelling for poon, though. Wyoming has really nice women.

After a few arbitrary rejections today, I asked her plainly, “Who am I supposed to have sex with, exactly?”

I use to make that kind of error a while ago!!!!You’ve just told her, that she is the only women you can have sex with, there are no others….absolutely no competition 🙁

Limit contact with her for about a week, don’t answer text message or phone calls from her….let her think you are dead. If she is really interested, she will make a big effort to catch up with you.

If and when you catch up with her, make her want to have sex with you and tease her….you’re the catch not her.

If you don’t hear from her within that week or a bit longer, I’d start looking for another. As a matter of fact, I’d be looking for others now. She’s replaceable, as if you got her, there are others out there.

Every time a women plays games, disappear out of sight for a couple of days. Only go out for dinner etc. when they give you sex (not before) and act nicely…good behaviour is rewarded.

Sex and manipulation go hand in hand!

chir wrote:

You are in the middle of a power play s~~~ test.  She is holding the pussy over you and seeing if you will beg.  If you do, she would be the alpha and you are the beta.

That’s already happened.

Christov wrote:

The combination of asking her “who I should be f~~~ing” and then stop being interested in her body could be very effective.
Although I don’t have any qualms about kicking her to the curb, women are horrible creatures in my locale.

Dump her. She will be remorseful and you can “take her back” and get laid again for a few weeks.

You are in the middle of a power play s~~~ test. She is holding the pussy over you and seeing if you will beg. If you do, she would be the alpha and you are the beta.

sometimes i wonder how you guys don’t get tired of all these power games ,this “love” thing most of the time is just a woman trying to compete with you with the only thing she has, a vagina.

Kick her to the curb.

Haha…my first thoughts.

But I also agree with ILiveAgain. Going so far to rejecting her and flirting with other women has a certain attraction.
Flirting with other women should be easy especially when she, as you told us, is physically hot. Women love to rip out a man from another woman’s hands. But don’t forget, it is not because of you, it is just because of the jealousy.
Anyway, what do you have to lose?

Christov wrote:

I’m not emotional about the subject. But I am sometimes frustrated.

I don’t really think that you are not emotional to the subject.