Also , as a black American man, I have been invited out by many black females, but honestly I have very little to no attraction to them at all. Latino and white females don’t seem to be that interested in me, some of them do but they are looking for a relationship and not just sex. Also I have mild social anxiety when it comes to bitches, so its nearly impossible for me to approach them.

What can I do (besides masturbate) to get over this? What are some fun activities I can do now or in the future that can can partially fulfill a sexual relationship with a female? Not trying to brag, but I have a pretty good gpa as a finance and accounting major. I also am learning the art of investing and saving and have fairly wealthy parents who support me throughout college and of course I plan to live alone so ideally I should have quite a bit of money to spend. I know that going out with friends and drinking is a no brainer, but I am trying to get creative. I was thinking about traveling all over the u.s and eventually other parts of the world, golf, video games etc.

I have not graduated college yet, but I am trying to think of ways to entertain my self and keep my self busy when not working to make up for lack of sex and interaction with bitches. Thoughts?

Doing extreme sports can be a good substitute for sex.  Maybe look getting into a hobby that gives you a huge adrenaline rush.  For me I have been building and driving a race car for the last few years.  Learning how to drive a car truly fast on a race track is an outrageously intense experience – it makes sex look like baking cookies.

What can I do (besides masturbate) to get over this? What are some fun activities I can do now or in the future that can can partially fulfill a sexual relationship with a female?

I don’t understand the questions. You don’t HAVE to get over it. Sex is far too easily attainable for you to even entertain this thought. That’s not bulls~~~. If you want to have sex, pick up the phone and order it like PIZZA – tonight. It will even come to your house – delivered. With blonde or brunette hair. Made to order. Don’t even THINK like this.

You’re TWENTY ONE. You can’t see the future yet. I promise you that:

Listen very carefully and listen TWICE… because in 5 minutes your “anxiety” will be CURED:

http://www.mgtow.com/video/women-over-the-hill/

bcroger wrote:

Due to my social anxiety and unwillingness to have a relationship with a female I may never actually get laid.

The system is DESIGNED to make you feel that way. It’s also designed to make you think that “getting laid” is some kind of accomplishment – or NOT getting laid is some kind of “failure”. It’s a bunch of bulls~~~. Don’t for a minute believe that s~~~:

http://www.mgtow.com/video/women-are-parasites/

“How to live knowing you may never have sex” is not even a question.
You have NO idea what kind of possibility lay before you.

In the next ten years you could be next TuPac. Don’t laugh.
And THEN your problem will be… trying to GET RID OF THEM ALL.

This is one of the reasons we exist. Because I am tired of seeing 21 year old guys feeling like this. I’m tired of watching young men full of promise with their ENTIRE futures ahead of them — who haven’t even BEGUN conceptualize their own potential — beat themselves up over something like this. I won’t let you do it.

I won’t.

You have WAAAAAY too much to look forward to. Let’s put it in perspective. You’ve been an adult who is “legally” permitted to make up your own mind for 3 years. You know what kind of spit in the ocean that is? By the time you hit 30, you will have been an adult 4 times as long…. and MANY successful men will tell you that’s just when they got STARTED! That’s just when the pussy STARTED coming in the door.

It wasn’t until I was 32 and all of a sudden I was dating TWO 19 year olds. These chicks would NEVER have dated me when I was 21. Are you kidding? NEVER. The girls my age wanted men who were 27!!! But I knew one day I would be 27 . And ON that day….. when I date an 18 year old, I will rub it in the face of every 27 year old woman who has a problem with it. Then when I showed up at the theatre with a hot young 19 year old when I was 32, the single bitches around me gave me nothing but s~~~ for that. They used words like “pedophile”…. and inside I was laughing my mother-f~~~ing head off.

“OMG she’s 19!!! What could you POSSIBLY have in common with her???”

“Well… we both really like it when I bang her – hard.”

The smoke and fire that shot from that bitch’s eyes I will never forget. I remember exactly where it took place. Girls START this game. And they have no problem living in that little world – behaving like 17 / 18 / 19 / 21 year old guys aren’t “good enough” for them. Make SURE you remind them. MAKE SURE.

And I’m no Tupac. But ho boy, if I were…….

Enjoy the living f~~~ out of it.

This is one of the reasons we exist. Because I am tired of seeing 21 year old guys feeling like this. I’m tired of watching young men full of promise with their ENTIRE futures ahead of them — who haven’t even BEGUN conceptualize their own potential — beat themselves up over something like this. I won’t let you do it.

Keymaster wrote:

The system is DESIGNED to make you feel that way. It’s also designed to make you think that “getting laid” is some kind of accomplishment – or NOT getting laid is some kind of “failure”. It’s a bunch of bulls~~~. Don’t for a minute believe that s~~~:

Wow KeyMaster,

Thank you,

I think this is the best post I have ever seen on here, amazing!

Thank you

10 minutes alone with Elliot Roger and I would have saved 6 lives. Including his own.
I was determined that was the last time I would ever see that s~~~ or let a man ask “How to live knowing you may never have sex”.

SOMEONE needs to tell these guys it’s FAR from the end of the world….
and f~~~ everyone in the ass who perpetuates that nonsense.

You have no doubt already saved many lives,

and you are leaving a great legacy,

Well Done.

However if you like it, it may be hard to get over. I haven’t had sex in 4 years and can’t find another girlfriend and it is really bugging me I am in my late 20’s and not having sex with my high sex drive. Yes masterbating helps, but it can’t replace the emotional contact with a real woman. Like others have said find something to keep your mind off sex. Also try getting a fleshlight. Before I had intercourse I got a fleshlight and I found it did help a little.