MGTOWHow do you overcome the anger phase? – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-overcame-the-anger-phase/feed/ Tue, 09 Jun 2020 13:02:30 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-overcame-the-anger-phase/page/270/#post-75302 <![CDATA[How do you overcome the anger phase?]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-overcame-the-anger-phase/page/270/#post-75302 Sun, 28 Jun 2015 23:41:27 +0000 Byron Hey guys. So, I’ve been catching myself getting royally p~~~ed off lately. I swear to god I’ve felt recently that if I see just one more pushy, stupid feminist lacking any logic whatsoever I’d burst into flames.

I’ve been trying to analyze my anger so that I could deal with it better. I know it’s a phase before acceptance but I really feel I need to speed it up.

As is that saying “Holding a grudge is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die”.. so it’s definitely something I’d need removed. Moreover, nothing else p~~~es self-entitled women more than you not giving a f~~~, at all (which I find really hilarious).

As far as the roots of my anger go, I believe they’re concentrated around most women’s sociopathic nature, stupidity, and self-entitlement. My personal experiences with women have been rather good as far as f~~~ing them goes (I’m 29 now) but I still despise their nature for the most part. It’s just repulsing how flat out heartless and stupid they are (I don’t know which is more f~~~ed up but I’d go with heartless). You’d see hundreds of stories confirming the high-end egoistical nature (to put it softly) of females. Crying while vengefully destroying your husband’s life after the first sign of weakness he shows does not make you the victim here, bitch (wtf?).

The self-delusion goes so much into the red you will frequently catch your staring in disbelief.

Also, the average level of fem-intellect I’ve observed during the past decade is ridiculous.. it really, really is. I mean, a girl may seem normal for 20 minutes and then say something so unbelievably stupid that you’d think you’re in the twilight zone. Not to mention a total self-deceit, psychopathic tendencies, and overall unpleasant vengeful and controlling characteristics.

A guy that has even a notch of self-respect I believe will easily find himself in that anger situation due to the mentioned factors (and many, many more). But how do you get out? My anger is not even that justified, there are people that have lost half their assets and have lived through unbelievable horrors. I admire their self-control of not doing anything more rash to these demonic wives/girlfriends.

I mean.. who do they think they are? Really? If I see a girl or woman being disrespectful I always ask myself and then her that exact question. WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE? And then they usually shut up and become kittens. One even had sex with me in the bathroom 20 minutes later.. I barely knew her and she had a mangina boyfriend. I saw her talking to him on the phone a bit later and instructing him to do some stupid s~~~ (?WHAT?). Oh man, I can only imagine what my past girlfriends have done that I don’t even suspect the slightest (well I generally do).

Manipulation is the only thing they are good at and it has gotten them the farthest it could I believe. However, we’ve had the misfortune (or fortunate obligation) to be born exactly in this day and age and have to deal with all the bs ourselves.

So, guys. What’s your way of dealing with it? We definitely need our heads clear and temper controlled for what it’s to come.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-overcame-the-anger-phase/#post-75306 <![CDATA[Reply To: How do you overcome the anger phase?]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-overcame-the-anger-phase/#post-75306 Sun, 28 Jun 2015 23:51:47 +0000 Ned Trent

Moreover, nothing else p~~~es self-entitled women more than you not giving a f~~~, at all (which I find really hilarious).

Well then Byron, that’s a very good starting point from your end.

I was just gonna say: try it with some (lighthearted) black(ish) humor first and in case you fail at this: it’s totally ok to be angry for a while. Accepting that very notion (by repeating it to yourself a few dozen times in your thoughts on a daily basis) for instance can make you accept you anger for what it plain and simply is, than gradually diminishing it in the process, by which time you may try with dark humor once again. On the whole you are on the right path …

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-overcame-the-anger-phase/#post-75314 <![CDATA[Reply To: How do you overcome the anger phase?]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-overcame-the-anger-phase/#post-75314 Mon, 29 Jun 2015 00:17:50 +0000 Durden I know its probably not the answer your looking for but its the best I have. My answer is TIME. It just takes time. Realize though that during this time it is not necessarily a time of frustration. This is one of the most pinnacle periods in your life. Its painful yet it is revealing.

Just replace God with Society and it sums it up.

It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-overcame-the-anger-phase/#post-75338 <![CDATA[Reply To: How do you overcome the anger phase?]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-overcame-the-anger-phase/#post-75338 Mon, 29 Jun 2015 01:25:44 +0000 AFT Let it all out, we’re here, we know, it helped me knowing I wasn’t alone.

There was a thread about this a while back:

http://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/denoucning-fools/

Keymaster summed it up well:

Men have a lot to be angry about.

“Anger is a legitimate emotion in the face of injustice”.
You may find there are times when you will have to say that out loud.

For example, remember that cop in Los Angeles who went on a shooting rampage after the system he defended turned on him? When the dust cleared and the smoke settles – and they are dead – these guys are written off as “insane” or ‘mentally unstable”. They are not. They are p~~~ed the f~~~ off.

Is he right or wrong is not really the issue. He believes he has been SO wronged that he stops caring.
One of the worst things you can do to a man is bring him to a point where he does’t care anymore.

MGTOW are the peaceful side of that…. but what about the others who don’t understand it and don’t harness it?
It can get dangerous.

What do people do when men get really angry? Blank stares. Nobody gives a f~~~. Some will even mock and laugh. A man will lose his s~~~ and people will just stare at him. Write him off as “overly emotional”… “temperamental” or “unstable”….. as if he totally unjustified. And they do it to him on purpose.

• “oh stop overreacting:”
• “suck it up”
• “you have issues….”

But a man can have an “issue” with the smell of dog s~~~ too.
It doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with HIM.

He has learned he should do this… and should do that…. and when he sticks to this code, someone else gets a raise or a promotion. He can be the ideal husband and will be treated like a second class citizen, s~~~ty husband and father. That s~~~ is not acceptable. And when he has determined that something is not acceptable, the rest of the world says “it is what it is”. Or “don’t get all worked up about it”. Or “Dude, you need to calm down”.

That s~~~ is extremely infuriating.

I saw Marilyn Manson in an interview once about the Columbine school shooting.
The interviewer asked “what would you have told the shooters?”.

He said, “i wouldn’t have told them anything. I would have listened… which is something nobody did”.

Damn right. When men are p~~~ed, don’t toss them aside. Let them know someone is listening.

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-overcame-the-anger-phase/#post-75344 <![CDATA[Reply To: How do you overcome the anger phase?]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-overcame-the-anger-phase/#post-75344 Mon, 29 Jun 2015 01:34:27 +0000

So, guys. What’s your way of dealing with it? We definitely need our heads clear and temper controlled for what it’s to come.

There are irritating people all around. People cut you off in traffic. Miserable brats throw temper tantrums at a store while you’re shopping. People at the next table in a restaurant make too much noise. Someone in a bar spills a drink on you. What do you do about it? Strike them down with the wrath of a rightful avenger? No, of course not. You give them some extra space and go on about your day. You don’t let their f~~~ed-up behavior ruin your day. Hopefully it’s rare that someone does something so heinous to you that you need to lash out.

Anyway, so what if a woman says something obnoxious in public? Is that really a big deal? I don’t even see the need to be angry. There are lots of irritating people in the world. (See the previous paragraph.)

Even if some gal is obviously screwing over her boyfriend. You maybe feel sorry for the boyfriend and p~~~ed at the woman for acting that way. But still. The guy brings it on himself for chasing after a narcissist of that type. Sooner or later he’ll figure it out. It’s like the screaming brat in the store. You pity the parents, but they brought it on themselves. It’s not your job to go over and beat the kid. Let the parents and the kid work it out.

The world is full of stupid people of both sexes. Have a little perspective. If you see a woman saying or doing something stupid, pat yourself on the back for not being the type to fall for such a woman and her stupidity and then go on about your day. It’s not your problem.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-overcame-the-anger-phase/#post-75384 <![CDATA[Reply To: How do you overcome the anger phase?]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-overcame-the-anger-phase/#post-75384 Mon, 29 Jun 2015 03:45:52 +0000 Wolf

A guy that has even a notch of self-respect I believe will easily find himself in that anger situation due to the mentioned factors (and many, many more). But how do you get out? My anger is not even that justified, there are people that have lost half their assets and have lived through unbelievable horrors. I admire their self-control of not doing anything more rash to these demonic wives/girlfriends.

Careful…there’s no shortage of guys out there who completely concede to the woman, but still self respect themselves. It’s called social conditioning, or an overdose of blue pills. Society tells us that we ought to concede and provide for the woman. I don’t look down on men who are a victim of this. After all, they are shamed into it, and it’s what they need to do in order to be a “real man”.

Hey guys. So, I’ve been catching myself getting royally p~~~ed off lately. I swear to god I’ve felt recently that if I see just one more pushy, stupid feminist lacking any logic whatsoever I’d burst into flames.

This is life. Aside from the BS of women, you will encounter BS from all angles. You can’t control this BS, but you can control your response to it. I work as a military officer, and my subordinates drop the ball everyday. If I were to get all p~~~ed off every time this happened, I’d be in an insane asylum now. As a junior officer, I did get p~~~ed, but quickly realized that I need to “pick my battles” in order to save my sanity and health.

I know its probably not the answer your looking for but its the best I have. My answer is TIME. It just takes time.

There’s a lot of truth to this. Particularly, for ex relationships. Overall, you need to recognize the nature of females (which I think you do), expect it, and not get worked up about it. If women’s nature bothers you to the point of insanity, then stay away from them.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-overcame-the-anger-phase/#post-75388 <![CDATA[Reply To: How do you overcome the anger phase?]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-overcame-the-anger-phase/#post-75388 Mon, 29 Jun 2015 04:01:28 +0000 Crazy Canuck It’s part of the process.  What I did was watch less MGTOW videos.  Watching too many MGTOW videos got me real p~~~ed off.  I have watched enough MGTOW videos.  Focus on improving your life.  New skills, working out, reading, going to school etc.  To me success isn’t money success to me is constantly improve my life by growing.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-overcame-the-anger-phase/#post-75406 <![CDATA[Reply To: How do you overcome the anger phase?]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-overcame-the-anger-phase/#post-75406 Mon, 29 Jun 2015 04:48:21 +0000 FIDK The five stages, denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance are a part of the framework that makes up our learning to live with the one we lost. They are tools to help us frame and identify what we may be feeling. But they are not stops on some linear timeline in grief. Not everyone goes through all of them or in a prescribed order. Our hope is that with these stages comes the knowledge of grief ‘s terrain, making us better equipped to cope with life and loss. At times, people in grief will often report more stages. Just remember your grief is an unique as you are.

grief.com/the-five-stages-of-grief/

There are details there.

I am pretty sure I am between depression and acceptance. It is tough being lied to all my life. I would say I am at month 8 of my awakening. It still sucks, because my acceptance gets interrupted by anger at times and that depresses me.

But that anger at everything stage does pass. Women are not the finest of creatures. Somebody saw fit to keep the message known to MGTOW for the past thousands of years. It will click. And, you will even start forgiving them for their DNA as you ignore them as much as possible.

It gets better.

 

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-overcame-the-anger-phase/#post-75407 <![CDATA[Reply To: How do you overcome the anger phase?]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-overcame-the-anger-phase/#post-75407 Mon, 29 Jun 2015 04:49:03 +0000 Myself I just wanted to echo what @TwoStep said.  I really like the example of people cutting you off in traffic…

Driving is one of the most “social” activities we engage in – often interacting with several hundred people, however briefly, each day on the streets. But so many act belligerently, pushing and shoving their way through with complete disregard to those around them.

It is amazing what a steel cage around a person can induce in their behaviour. How many people do you see pushing and shoving their way through a crowd in a mall or busy sidewalk? Imagine what the consequences would be if the same behaviour happened shoulder to shoulder…

Anyways, I bring this up because I see a lot of parallels between how people drive on the streets (especially in Canada – the police here do not enforce traffic laws like they do in the USA) and how people behave in other social situations when they have a metaphorical “cage” protecting them from the consequences of their actions.  Feminists are equivalent to those douchbags who dive-bomb everyone in their wallowing SUV’s, surrounded by a metric ton of steel, rubber, and air bags.

I deal with idiots in public the same way that I deal with them on the road – always check my mirrors so I can see them coming, give them lots of space, and let them go on their way. Being alert and maintaining a buffer zone is an effective way of preventing rage, both on and off the road.

 

 

 

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-overcame-the-anger-phase/#post-75415 <![CDATA[Reply To: How do you overcome the anger phase?]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-overcame-the-anger-phase/#post-75415 Mon, 29 Jun 2015 05:08:51 +0000 BD I got a feeling Bruce Banner is a Mgtow in the anger stage….

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

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