MGTOWHow Can I Save My Best Friend? Poor Guy Is Destroyed. – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-can-i-save-my-best-friend-poor-guy-is-destroyed/feed/ Tue, 09 Jun 2020 11:16:02 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-can-i-save-my-best-friend-poor-guy-is-destroyed/page/372/#post-43076 <![CDATA[How Can I Save My Best Friend? Poor Guy Is Destroyed.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-can-i-save-my-best-friend-poor-guy-is-destroyed/page/372/#post-43076 Wed, 22 Apr 2015 22:35:52 +0000 DoinMyOwnThing40 Best friend of mine had his very first girlfriend when he was in college. She adored him. They were a couple during the 4 years of college. He graduated and went off to law school. She graduated and went off to Social Work school. All of a sudden she stopped loving him. He was perfectly fine with the distance thing, while she obviously wasn’t. So she met another guy while at SW school. It left my friend devastated.

Fast forward to today. This was 17 f~~~ing years ago! My friend no longer has any anger towards her whatsoever. Instead he blames himself! He can not forgive himself for “letting her go” and not marrying her.

To this day he talks about how he will never get over losing her. I try and tell him that by not marrying her he did himself a service. He refuses to believe me. He will always say the same thing “She loved and adored me. No other woman ever looked at me the way she did. And I lost her. And it’s all my fault. And I can never forgive myself for losing her. You only have one chance in life to meet your one true love and I had it. I had it and I lost it and can never put this to rest.”

There is no way I can convince him that he should get over this is there?

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-can-i-save-my-best-friend-poor-guy-is-destroyed/#post-43080 <![CDATA[Reply To: How Can I Save My Best Friend? Poor Guy Is Destroyed.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-can-i-save-my-best-friend-poor-guy-is-destroyed/#post-43080 Wed, 22 Apr 2015 22:44:30 +0000 Maillesmith Give it to him straight. In a way he will understand.

“You’re right, you only zing once buddy. You had your true love and let her get away, and will never find anything like it again. Accept it. You cannot change the past and dwelling on it ensures you will have no future. Focus on now, not on then. It may not make the pain less, but direct it before it eats you up inside.”

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-can-i-save-my-best-friend-poor-guy-is-destroyed/#post-43081 <![CDATA[Reply To: How Can I Save My Best Friend? Poor Guy Is Destroyed.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-can-i-save-my-best-friend-poor-guy-is-destroyed/#post-43081 Wed, 22 Apr 2015 22:46:53 +0000 experienced He will get over losing her… when he wants to.   Gregory Peck in The Yearling, “It seems like there’s times a body gets struck down so low, there ain’t a power on earth that can ever bring him up again.  Seems like something inside dies so he don’t even want to get up again.  But he does.”

Man, I’m not qualified, but if you can get a hold of brainpilot i’m certain he will be able to help.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-can-i-save-my-best-friend-poor-guy-is-destroyed/#post-43084 <![CDATA[Reply To: How Can I Save My Best Friend? Poor Guy Is Destroyed.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-can-i-save-my-best-friend-poor-guy-is-destroyed/#post-43084 Wed, 22 Apr 2015 22:59:19 +0000 The guy’s a blue-piller, he doesn’t understand the nature of women, she smoked him for some of that good old fashioned instant gratitude. Men are so pathetic when they don’t understand how a woman can pass out her favor like passing out Girl Scout cookies. Women come and go like the wind, but don’t bother explaining it to him, he’s still a blue-pill manbattery for the Matrix.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-can-i-save-my-best-friend-poor-guy-is-destroyed/#post-43085 <![CDATA[Reply To: How Can I Save My Best Friend? Poor Guy Is Destroyed.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-can-i-save-my-best-friend-poor-guy-is-destroyed/#post-43085 Wed, 22 Apr 2015 23:00:15 +0000 experienced Another angle on this is, “Why is JFK so popular?  Because he died at his peak.  Your friend’s got only ‘one’ in his database, and she went out of the picture at her peak.             hope this helps.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-can-i-save-my-best-friend-poor-guy-is-destroyed/#post-43099 <![CDATA[Reply To: How Can I Save My Best Friend? Poor Guy Is Destroyed.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-can-i-save-my-best-friend-poor-guy-is-destroyed/#post-43099 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 00:18:13 +0000 Rennie
experienced wrote:

He will get over losing her… when he wants to. Gregory Peck in The Yearling, “It seems like there’s times a body gets struck down so low, there ain’t a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don’t even want to get up again. But he does.” Man, I’m not qualified, but if you can get a hold of brainpilot i’m certain he will be able to help.

I like that, it shows fortitude and it will take him a long way in life.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-can-i-save-my-best-friend-poor-guy-is-destroyed/#post-43101 <![CDATA[Reply To: How Can I Save My Best Friend? Poor Guy Is Destroyed.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-can-i-save-my-best-friend-poor-guy-is-destroyed/#post-43101 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 00:27:17 +0000 Russky The first high is always the best. And many people die daily chasing the first high, but never coming close to it. So yeah, this is very dangerous.

I had a hard time getting over my first love. But then I hit her again 8 years later and it was blaa… This is how I got over it.
So maybe he should seduce her and get over her that way

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-can-i-save-my-best-friend-poor-guy-is-destroyed/#post-43103 <![CDATA[Reply To: How Can I Save My Best Friend? Poor Guy Is Destroyed.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-can-i-save-my-best-friend-poor-guy-is-destroyed/#post-43103 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 00:31:34 +0000 T-rex You have to make him see that if she wasn’t willing to wait for him, and deal with the distance…. Then she wasn’t worth his time. He would have given up his education for a woman, and ruined his life for her. For What? Considering the way they treat us. He is better off without her. You have to force the red pill sometimes.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-can-i-save-my-best-friend-poor-guy-is-destroyed/#post-43126 <![CDATA[Reply To: How Can I Save My Best Friend? Poor Guy Is Destroyed.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-can-i-save-my-best-friend-poor-guy-is-destroyed/#post-43126 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 01:55:50 +0000 finallyfree Experienced reply nailed it on this one. The reason he is so hurt by this is because he lost her at the peak of their relationship. Try to convince him that she would have eventually become like most women after 5 + years or so – boring, sexless, 2-5 min bj’s (down from 15-20 min), routine bs, arguments, and a whole lot of other typical mundane relations~~~ crap.  He is remembering her at a point in their relationship where everything was ok or even good. This makes the break up so much harder to stomach. Remind him of how many happy, successful relationships there are out there these days = NOT MANY.  Remind him that his relations~~~ with her was more than likely going to end one day anyway, so in a way she just saved him time and delayed heartache. He has no idea that if he remained in a long term relations~~~ with her only to be left years down the line, he would be even more heartbroken than he is now. Hell he got out clean and unscathed in a way

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-can-i-save-my-best-friend-poor-guy-is-destroyed/#post-43128 <![CDATA[Reply To: How Can I Save My Best Friend? Poor Guy Is Destroyed.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/how-can-i-save-my-best-friend-poor-guy-is-destroyed/#post-43128 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 01:56:55 +0000 - Deleted on Request - I went through that a number of times in my younger years.  Now that I’m older, I can look at what happened objectively.  Not one of those women was worth the misery.  Each time I contacted one of them after it ended between us, they didn’t even remember who I was, proving just how much I meant to them.

 

Once it’s over, it’s over.  Get over it, do so quickly, and move on.

 

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