MGTOWHelp with White Knight Syndrome for future dating – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-with-white-knight-syndrome-for-future-dating/feed/ Mon, 08 Jun 2020 21:24:06 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-with-white-knight-syndrome-for-future-dating/page/249/#post-83210 <![CDATA[Help with White Knight Syndrome for future dating]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-with-white-knight-syndrome-for-future-dating/page/249/#post-83210 Thu, 16 Jul 2015 16:58:38 +0000 Gunslinger Hey Brochachos!

So I’m what you would call a white knight but I guess not a full mangina, didn’t know I was until this site. I’m glad I see it now, because I have an opportunity to transition out of it. Even though I’m still married, I’m basically just waiting it out for reasons I have posted in other forums until we fully separate, basically two dogs that I get to watch while she goes on a business trip for a month. What I would like to see is some tips on how to not fall into that trap when I start to transition back into the dating world. I’d like to be able to date around for once in my life and not fall for every girl and want to save them all, from w/e BS excuse they give as to why they need saving.

So for example I plan on watching Rocky 1-4, eating a rare steak, while sitting in my boxers to  start with. I know Rocky will eventually seep into my blood stream and help me transition back into a real man.

But in all seriousness, is there things I can do to try and retrain my brain into not being so nice and caring. I’ve been like this my whole life, always putting women before myself, so it may take a full on Clockwork Orange type thing, where I need to be deprogrammed.

Any ideas will be appreciated!

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-with-white-knight-syndrome-for-future-dating/#post-83217 <![CDATA[Reply To: Help with White Knight Syndrome for future dating]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-with-white-knight-syndrome-for-future-dating/#post-83217 Thu, 16 Jul 2015 17:17:29 +0000 Binary Logic Thing of  it is. There is no sure-fire method I know of that will help you transition out of it. There is no magic pill or potion. There is however, an situation induced epiphany.

You have to first see things the way that they are. No one can force you acknowledge it, there has to be something deeply ingrained in you that says the accepted social norm is not so normal. From there, you educate yourself, either through resources found here, or keeping an open keen eye in the real world, watch for situations to play out, and imagine how it could of went differently, or what you would have done. It almost takes a strategist point of view. It also helps if you are a critical thinker or quasi-extrovert from the start, as the endless puzzle is somewhat fascinating. But truth be told, it doesn’t take a scientist to figure out what is going on in the world.

Try taking a look at some of KeyMaster, Tower, RoyDal, ILiveAgain and the other more experienced guys thoughts (you can almost tell who they are buy looking at their Topic/Reply count).. man, spend a few moments glancing, and pondering over these guys thoughts, and it immediately becomes apparent that they’ve been at this for awhile. So much so that it is wholly a part of there character. They have a plethora, vast wealth of knowledge that could save you from a bunch of potential doom and gloom.

Wish I had a better answer, but that’s what I’ve got at the moment.  Observe, Listen, calculate and execute.

With the Help of MGTOW…

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-with-white-knight-syndrome-for-future-dating/#post-83226 <![CDATA[Reply To: Help with White Knight Syndrome for future dating]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-with-white-knight-syndrome-for-future-dating/#post-83226 Thu, 16 Jul 2015 17:27:53 +0000 Gunslinger Oh yea, that’s what I have been trying to do, I love to learn knew things, and will treat this as maybe the most important lesson I may learn in life. It’s actually been fun to try it out on the wife. She asked me last night to move the couch so she could grab her phone that had fallen underneath it. I was like “Your going to have to figure out how to do that on your own soon, I suggest those easy mover pads for the corners of the couch” I saw the steam roll out of her ears. She says “Aren’t you going to be a man and move this” so I said “nope just the other day you didn’t need a man to take up for you because you can take care of yourself, just like I believe you can take care of moving this couch yourself”

Just a small win but still it was a great feeling, not that I haven’t stood up to her in the past, but just ignoring her request was awesome!

But thanks for the input though, I know being around everyone here for enough time, I’ll get that addiction out of the bloodstream.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-with-white-knight-syndrome-for-future-dating/#post-83242 <![CDATA[Reply To: Help with White Knight Syndrome for future dating]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-with-white-knight-syndrome-for-future-dating/#post-83242 Thu, 16 Jul 2015 17:50:04 +0000 ILiveAgain Now keep with me on this and don’t go all gay on me ok 😃

Next time you go on a date … with a female …. pretend it’s a guy.

View everything she says and does as if it were a dude.

Would you pay for his meal? Drinks? Would you let him ask what you do, how much you earn?

Also ask her/him questions you would ask a guy.

Then and only then will you see them for what they are.

Or go full blown and ask what they can bring to the relations~~~.

When you date a wild tiger … find out how many other dates it has eaten …. and when.

Find out if it every tricked a victim by pretending to be a kitten.

Then finally …. if your gonna f~~~ a tiger …. don’t tell it where you live …. coz when it’s hungry …. it’s gonna come knocking.

😆

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-with-white-knight-syndrome-for-future-dating/#post-83248 <![CDATA[Reply To: Help with White Knight Syndrome for future dating]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-with-white-knight-syndrome-for-future-dating/#post-83248 Thu, 16 Jul 2015 17:58:52 +0000 Gunslinger Iliveagain…I dig this approach a lot. Even if it is a little gay sounding, it still makes sense. I can’t wait to see the look on her/his eyes when I don’t pick up a tab. They expect that s~~~, especially when you are first dating. However, I was tricked by this as well with the current wife. She paid for most of our first dates…she was working a nice job while in college, as to where I barely had time to work part time.

Then finally …. if your gonna f~~~ a tiger …. don’t tell it where you live …. coz when it’s hungry …. it’s gonna come knocking. 😆

HAHAHAHA…So close to spitting my coffee on my computer at work!

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-with-white-knight-syndrome-for-future-dating/#post-83300 <![CDATA[Reply To: Help with White Knight Syndrome for future dating]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-with-white-knight-syndrome-for-future-dating/#post-83300 Thu, 16 Jul 2015 19:57:32 +0000 I have found it to be very usefull to be as upfront as possible. I am seeing multiple women. I’m having sex with multiple women. I no longer view monogamy as something I would strive for without a good reason. I’m 33 and there’s a whole new generation of women starting their c~~~ carroussel career. Women all to eager to accept that status quo to have sex with an experienced man. I like my meat tender (18-25), I don’t fish (make efforts) beyond the Wall. I’ll sample their daughters thank you very much. Should one stick around long enough to start catering to actual desires I’m all ears what she has to bring to the table. Untill that day…

I am seeing multiple women. The world is my oyster and I’m not settling for old clams.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-with-white-knight-syndrome-for-future-dating/#post-83313 <![CDATA[Reply To: Help with White Knight Syndrome for future dating]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-with-white-knight-syndrome-for-future-dating/#post-83313 Thu, 16 Jul 2015 20:22:27 +0000 Gunslinger Oh I never plan on ever marrying again, biggest mistake ever. Funny thing is she was the one nagging for over a year about it in the first place. Classic flip flop a few years later and I quote from her “Marriage is just something that enslaves both man and woman” I said, “More like enslaving the man, women get to still do w/e the hell they want and get away with it” She didn’t like that too much. She’s flip flopped on s~~~ so much the last year that I can’t keep up with what she even wants out of life now.

I get what your saying though, and that’s basically my goal now for the rest of my life. Unless somehow I do find that Unicorn, and like you said it better be a damn good reason as to be monogamous.  But even as I typed that it made me feel sick to my stomach even thinking there’s any women left out there that is worth being monogamous with.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-with-white-knight-syndrome-for-future-dating/#post-83330 <![CDATA[Reply To: Help with White Knight Syndrome for future dating]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-with-white-knight-syndrome-for-future-dating/#post-83330 Thu, 16 Jul 2015 21:09:57 +0000 bigboy83 If you want to get rid of white knight syndrome, don’t worry about getting laid.

Don’t chase, and who cares what she thinks.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-with-white-knight-syndrome-for-future-dating/#post-83397 <![CDATA[Reply To: Help with White Knight Syndrome for future dating]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-with-white-knight-syndrome-for-future-dating/#post-83397 Fri, 17 Jul 2015 00:59:48 +0000 peterfa That’s actually a symptom of high testosterone. Men with high testosterone tend to be more protective and wanting to take care of women more.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-with-white-knight-syndrome-for-future-dating/#post-83439 <![CDATA[Reply To: Help with White Knight Syndrome for future dating]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-with-white-knight-syndrome-for-future-dating/#post-83439 Fri, 17 Jul 2015 02:08:49 +0000 Gunslinger Hey a positive out if it…I’ll take it! Sounds a little suspicious though, does that mean my testosterone levels would go down as I stop giving two s~~~s anymore?

 

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