So I’m what you would call a white knight but I guess not a full mangina, didn’t know I was until this site. I’m glad I see it now, because I have an opportunity to transition out of it. Even though I’m still married, I’m basically just waiting it out for reasons I have posted in other forums until we fully separate, basically two dogs that I get to watch while she goes on a business trip for a month. What I would like to see is some tips on how to not fall into that trap when I start to transition back into the dating world. I’d like to be able to date around for once in my life and not fall for every girl and want to save them all, from w/e BS excuse they give as to why they need saving.

So for example I plan on watching Rocky 1-4, eating a rare steak, while sitting in my boxers to  start with. I know Rocky will eventually seep into my blood stream and help me transition back into a real man.

But in all seriousness, is there things I can do to try and retrain my brain into not being so nice and caring. I’ve been like this my whole life, always putting women before myself, so it may take a full on Clockwork Orange type thing, where I need to be deprogrammed.

Any ideas will be appreciated!

You have to first see things the way that they are. No one can force you acknowledge it, there has to be something deeply ingrained in you that says the accepted social norm is not so normal. From there, you educate yourself, either through resources found here, or keeping an open keen eye in the real world, watch for situations to play out, and imagine how it could of went differently, or what you would have done. It almost takes a strategist point of view. It also helps if you are a critical thinker or quasi-extrovert from the start, as the endless puzzle is somewhat fascinating. But truth be told, it doesn’t take a scientist to figure out what is going on in the world.

Try taking a look at some of KeyMaster, Tower, RoyDal, ILiveAgain and the other more experienced guys thoughts (you can almost tell who they are buy looking at their Topic/Reply count).. man, spend a few moments glancing, and pondering over these guys thoughts, and it immediately becomes apparent that they’ve been at this for awhile. So much so that it is wholly a part of there character. They have a plethora, vast wealth of knowledge that could save you from a bunch of potential doom and gloom.

Wish I had a better answer, but that’s what I’ve got at the moment.  Observe, Listen, calculate and execute.

With the Help of MGTOW…

Just a small win but still it was a great feeling, not that I haven’t stood up to her in the past, but just ignoring her request was awesome!

But thanks for the input though, I know being around everyone here for enough time, I’ll get that addiction out of the bloodstream.

Next time you go on a date … with a female …. pretend it’s a guy.

View everything she says and does as if it were a dude.

Would you pay for his meal? Drinks? Would you let him ask what you do, how much you earn?

Also ask her/him questions you would ask a guy.

Then and only then will you see them for what they are.

Or go full blown and ask what they can bring to the relations~~~.

When you date a wild tiger … find out how many other dates it has eaten …. and when.

Find out if it every tricked a victim by pretending to be a kitten.

Then finally …. if your gonna f~~~ a tiger …. don’t tell it where you live …. coz when it’s hungry …. it’s gonna come knocking.

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ILiveAgain wrote:

Then finally …. if your gonna f~~~ a tiger …. don’t tell it where you live …. coz when it’s hungry …. it’s gonna come knocking.

HAHAHAHA…So close to spitting my coffee on my computer at work!

I am seeing multiple women. The world is my oyster and I’m not settling for old clams.

I get what your saying though, and that’s basically my goal now for the rest of my life. Unless somehow I do find that Unicorn, and like you said it better be a damn good reason as to be monogamous.  But even as I typed that it made me feel sick to my stomach even thinking there’s any women left out there that is worth being monogamous with.

Don’t chase, and who cares what she thinks.