MGTOWgoing through the motions – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/going-through-the-motions/feed/ Tue, 09 Jun 2020 07:41:23 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/going-through-the-motions/page/378/#post-41418 <![CDATA[going through the motions]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/going-through-the-motions/page/378/#post-41418 Sat, 18 Apr 2015 14:57:23 +0000 komatteru I’m 44 with 2 kids, 8 and 5 years old. Kids are great, but wife’s a cranky bitch. She’s always tired, sleepy, too cold in the winter, and too hot in the summer. There’s always something deterring her from sex: period, stomachache, fatigue. Fortunately, she doesn’t shop and spend like a lot of women I hear about in these forums. Her focus is on the kids and part-time work, so there’s nothing left over for me. I’m an afterthought. By the time we get the kids to bed, she’s lights out too. I’m still wide awake, so I catch up on TV and movies. I don’t know what to do. I can’t slap her around. Should I give up on her? Tell her that I’m moving out?

I had given up hanging out with friends and playing sports. Maybe I’ll start doing that again just to keep my sanity.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/going-through-the-motions/#post-41445 <![CDATA[Reply To: going through the motions]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/going-through-the-motions/#post-41445 Sat, 18 Apr 2015 17:49:39 +0000
komatteru wrote:

Her focus is on the kids and part-time work, so there’s nothing left over for me.

YOU ARE LEFTOVERS! Women love sex, just not with their “leftover” husbands. Dude, I’m not married, that plan sucks! She’s obviously controlling you with rejection, it’s f~~~ed up the way they think, the most important thing in any family (the man) they neglect, treat him like s~~~, and she’s a bitch, I FEEL SORRY FOR YOU………..It’s your life too, you’re not on the pedestal, the pinnacle, she’s mastered you………

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/going-through-the-motions/#post-41449 <![CDATA[Reply To: going through the motions]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/going-through-the-motions/#post-41449 Sat, 18 Apr 2015 18:14:18 +0000 RoyDal @komatteru, your questions answer themselves.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/going-through-the-motions/#post-41469 <![CDATA[Reply To: going through the motions]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/going-through-the-motions/#post-41469 Sat, 18 Apr 2015 19:22:05 +0000 harpo-my-"SON"

komatteru wrote; Should I give up on her? Tell her that I’m moving out?

Your the only one with enough knowledge of your situation to answer those questions and decide what action to take..I can only point out what I gather from the limited information you have given..youngest child 5. that means at least 13 years paying support if you go… Something would have to change if I were in your shoes. I would find a way to be happy.

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]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/going-through-the-motions/#post-41655 <![CDATA[Reply To: going through the motions]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/going-through-the-motions/#post-41655 Sun, 19 Apr 2015 05:33:08 +0000 MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give Get a divorce if she doesnt change,plus if she’s at a certain age depending on her pass she has been slutted already so her faze on that is done. Thats why its very important for men to know what a women past is,right now she used you to get kids and commitment which is most womens end all to life thats why they spoil like milk. Dude your in your 40’s with a fading life span because your married dont let those stupid stats fool you Married men die early,so if I were in your shoes “shape up or ship out”.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/going-through-the-motions/#post-42010 <![CDATA[Reply To: going through the motions]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/going-through-the-motions/#post-42010 Mon, 20 Apr 2015 06:18:43 +0000 komatteru Thanks for the replies.

<span style=”font-family: ‘Open Sans’, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;”>..youngest child 5. that means at least 13 years paying support if you go…</span>

It would be so hard to be away from the kids. I don’t fight with the wife. We just occupy the same dwelling. She does annoy me with her constant F-ups…letting food spoil, leaving the heat or stove on, losing s~~~, forgetting a kid’s after-school practice. It gets more annoying with each passing day of non-sex. She wants me to cook more, but the kitchen’s a disgusting mess that I don’t want to touch. She complains about being cold all the time while I think, “get off your ass, and do some jumping jacks or something!”

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/going-through-the-motions/#post-42143 <![CDATA[Reply To: going through the motions]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/going-through-the-motions/#post-42143 Mon, 20 Apr 2015 18:34:06 +0000 Smitty the Great One well, you need to figure out a new option sir. You’re kind of stuck with her at the moment.

Find a way to develop a natural space from her. The less you’re actually around, the less she can nag. Energy late at night, start s small exercise regimen. You are in prison sir, your parole date is 13 years and counting, good luck. Start preparing for the worst, and hope for the best.

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/going-through-the-motions/#post-42147 <![CDATA[Reply To: going through the motions]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/going-through-the-motions/#post-42147 Mon, 20 Apr 2015 18:41:52 +0000 Cipher Highwind I’d suggest a consultation with a family law attorney.  Wouldn’t it be funny if, at the time of the divorce, you didn’t have a job and wound up getting alimony from the wife?

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/going-through-the-motions/#post-46013 <![CDATA[Reply To: going through the motions]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/going-through-the-motions/#post-46013 Thu, 30 Apr 2015 02:24:39 +0000 komatteru Taking the kids to our cabin for a week. I told wife to stay home and “rest” since she’s always tired and cranky. She protested at first, but somewhat surprisingly, she agreed. We’ll see how it goes. I wonder if she’ll be better when we get back. If not, I’m going to rent an apt and move out. Anyone have similar experiences?

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/going-through-the-motions/#post-46047 <![CDATA[Reply To: going through the motions]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/going-through-the-motions/#post-46047 Thu, 30 Apr 2015 03:01:28 +0000 MadScientist
Cipher Highwind wrote:

I’d suggest a consultation with a family law attorney. Wouldn’t it be funny if, at the time of the divorce, you didn’t have a job and wound up getting alimony from the wife?

Welcome to MGTOW, brother!

So, the above is exactly what I did. I intentionally went broke and stayed jobless (making myself depressed on purpose) for just the right amount of time so I could (a) short sell my old house so I wouldn’t owe anything and (b) there would be no question of alimony, even with the other cards in my hands. I was lucky, as the recession had hit so the lack of jobs was not a stretch, and honestly, in 6 interviews, I didn’t get any bites. I DID immediately get picked up once I started looking in the right job market, but that was after the divorce.

Man that was rough. I am only just now recovering from the whole thing (5 years ago). It’s not easy getting back up, but you do. And you keep walking. Because you are a Man.

I didn’t have kids in my equation, so yours is entirely different. Anyway you cut it, it will be difficult, but these guys (and I) are here to help you out, man. Good luck, and I hope you are able to work this out!

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