The hostess exclaimed, “YAZ, in due time you will find a nice woman to settle down with.  This is all temporary.”

Are you f~~~ing kidding me?

After ten years of bloody hell with me sacrificing everything from career to family relationships…..my focus shall return to doing it all over again?

I lost friends because my ex didn’t like them, for God’s sake.

I’m a polite guy and my friend the “hostess” is a sweetheart.  She also happens to be married to a guy that is a good friend that I trust.  I simply nodded and smiled, knowing in my heart that I’ll never put myself in that predicament again.  (Yes….I’d bang that sweet pussy all day if my buddy wasn’t involved).  But keep in mind that she wouldn’t have access to my checking account……EVER.

At 51 years of age, there isn’t any “settling down” any more in my future.  Not by USA standards, anyway.  I’ve seen it.  Manginas getting married again real quick after a divorce……are they really  happy?  Are they looking for a partnership?  Really now……how long does it take to clean a f~~~ing toilet?  I don’t need anyone to drive me to the dentist when I have a toothache.  Nor do I feel that compromise is needed regarding tonight’s supper menu.  Or vacation destinations for that matter……

My point is…..we are bombarded daily with what “should be.”

Don’t fall into the trap.  Nod, smile, and be polite around your married friends.  And giggle uncontrollably when you crawl into bed at the end of the night…..knowing that you won’t have to sleep in the wet spot.

🙂

Have another beer.  No one’s there to count anymore, LOL.

Mid life crisis my ass, ifya want a f~~~ing sports car/convertible get one.  ‘Cuz you don’t need a pussy anchor.

Have fun.

The suicide rate is incredibly high with guys my age that have been through similar circumstances

As long as guys cling to the relationship fairy tale ending, they’ll be miserable failures in their own eyes, simply because it’s an unachievable fairy tale.

In the modern Hilton/Kardashian age, women think they’re entitled to it all.
They firmly believe that any negative consequences to their narcissistic behaviour is the result of the Patriarchy and in particular, their partners.
When men are told this often enough they start to believe it.

YAZ wrote:

The suicide rate is incredibly high with guys my age that have been through similar circumstances

As long as guys cling to the relationship fairy tale ending, they’ll be miserable failures in their own eyes, simply because it’s an unachievable fairy tale. In the modern Hilton/Kardashian age, women think they’re entitled to it all. They firmly believe that any negative consequences to their narcissistic behaviour is the result of the Patriarchy and in particular, their partners. When men are told this often enough they start to believe it.

True. Women are rarely deemed narcissistic, because society and the court systems consider them as victims. Men on the other hand, are considered as perpetrators and villains. Bulls~~~. And men are conditioned to believe that they’re not complete without a vagina owner in the household. More bulls~~~.

Case in point: My friend for 40 years had a wife that went “astray.” Yep. F~~~ed a dude that she met at the bar and divorce followed that action. After their divorce, she proceeded to chastise his ass because he was f~~~ing every whore that would have him. Double standard? I think so.

I’ve always liked her ass though. I’m gonna try to f~~~ her.

You lucked out that’s for sure, no alimony or child support. She is too busy sucking c~~~ to thinking about alimony which is a good thing.

I try to keep it humorous while promulgating the important aspects. The suicide rate is incredibly high with guys my age that have been through similar circumstances. Bulls~~~. Do things that make you happy. Go fishing. Work out. Play with the dogs. F~~~ whores. Buy that f~~~ing awesome off road vehicle that you always wanted. Or a motorcycle. Or guitar. Have another beer. No one’s there to count anymore, LOL. Mid life crisis my ass, ifya want a f~~~ing sports car/convertible get one. ‘Cuz you don’t need a pussy anchor. Have fun.

You just talked me into buying a gift to me from me! Great post

My point is…..we are bombarded daily with what “should be.”

Yep, the world is full of people who want us to sacrifice ourselves for their cause.

Great post YAZ