Got on the I-net, and after bailing a million times, I finally had my first escort experience.

Positives:

• had sex a couple of times
• the stimulation was even good just talking to her and joking around.
• feel less wound up; more calm aka less anxiety

Negatives:

• felt a little guilty after I left
• anxious as f~~~ the whole way there!  Thought it would be some type of sting lol
• didn’t really feel like spending the bread, but had to do what I had to do.
• feel paranoid about heath even though I used a condom, and the sex was short as f~~~.

Driving home I felt like I should of just held out, but I wanted to just touch a chick on a more intimate level so bad.; the cravings were insane.  The chick was drunk, and it implied to me that she couldn’t be sober while doing what she was doing.  She probably feels some guilt when that high/drunk wears off.  Plus, I don’t know what goes on in her personal life, she could be struggling hard as f~~~, deep down.  How could I feel sympathy or empathy?  From my own struggle I guess.  I always reflect deeply about my actions, and try to put myself in others shoes.

The fall of an introvert.

If it were really up to me I would just want to be in a relationship with someone, but I know that type of thinking is a relic from the past.

I ask myself, what the f~~~ can I do with my sex drive?  I can’t stay celibate forever, and I get to the point where I want sex so bad it drives me crazy.  I also refuse to masturbate; it makes me feel like s~~~ after I do it, worse than what I just did.

I don’t know brah’s.  I personally feel like I let God down on this one.  Even though I know He forgives me, I wish I had the strength to overcome the burden of wanting female interaction from time to time.  These are my personal beliefs, so I don’t need any hostility thrown my way over them.  I’m just trying to explain how I feel.

Has anyone else here ever tried an escort?  What was your experience like?  Did you feel good about it afterwards?

I lost my virginity to a 10/10 Italian escort. I was pretty nervous and didn’t get erect for long, but other than that the experience was amazing! The bitch totally ripped me off though, charged 10 pounds for a f~~~ing condom and I paid it. LOL. She was fun to talk to otherwise and showed me the ropes 😀

2. You should not feel guilty/bad about masturbating. It is normal. Everyone does it. Even if you don’t do it, your dreams will force you to have a wet dream/release. This is natual. Please understand this is normal. There is nothing wrong with buying a hooker. Yes, it is illegal depending on where you live in the world, but morally, nothing is wrong with it. Many MGTOW support this because at least the woman understand she is just accepting money for sex….because that is all they are good for really. They are honest.

3. Protect yourself from cops. Always use code words/slang when asking for sex in person/phone call/email/text. A pro hooker will also use slang. She will usually say “A donation is required for spending time with her/massage etc”. If she asks for blantant sex, run away. You only want to SPEND TIME WITH HER/TALK/HANGOUT etc. Ask her to send pics before hand. When you meet up at HER hotel/place(NEVER your place), ask her to PROVE she is NOT a cop. Check the hotel washroom, check the area before hand, check the f~~~ing the entire surrounding neighbourhood an hour before hand.

4. THE MOST IMPORTANT THING YOU CAN DO IS LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF. Learn to be alone. Learn to control your cravings and godsakes….jerk off bro! You don’t NEED another human being to be happy. Whether you are gay or straight….You don’t NEED another person in your life to be happy. Learn to be happy on your own. You are a MAN GOING HIS OWN WAY!!!!

I bought one once, she cost $500,000.00.

“Oh, that’s not a hooker.”   No, you’re correct, it’s the worst type of hooker, i.e. one who costs: The family unit and 500K at court.

Perhaps there’s a scale:

Street whore, bar whore, prostitute, woman of ill repute, lady of the night, call girl, escort.

Please, put the, “80% of divorces are initiated by women” hookers, at the far left of the scale.

What’s the difference between a cougar and an old maid?

What’s the difference between a wardrobe malfunction and dressing like a whore?

But seriously – you appear to be hung up on this. The reason females (i.e. “society”) demonise masturbation and homosexuality is because both diminish the power of their pussy cartel. If I’m a car rental company, of course I’m going to dissuade potential customers from walking, taking the bus, &c.

riddlebox wrote:

I also refuse to masturbate; it makes me feel like s~~~ after I do it, worse than what I just did.

My most recent experience with this sort of thing went exceptionally well. I selected an attractive young model who came to my house and was sober, sexy and very eager to please. Initially she had given me a quote that I felt was too high by half and when I said so, she reduced it by 75% on the condition we’d spend half the time, but then she stayed the full time anyway.

While I naturally enjoyed the carnal aspects of our time together (she was better than most of the females I have been with) I also enjoyed the pleasure of just being close to her and the touch of her skin. Yeah, I know how that sounds, particularly when speaking of an escort, but she was young and beautiful and full of life and enthusiasm and I just soaked up as much of that as I could in the time I had.

By my reckoning, I paid for what I wanted and I got exactly that and nothing more or less and I would do so again… at four times the price, even.

If it were really up to me I would just want to be in a relationship with someone, but I know that type of thinking is a relic from the past.

Might not be a popular opinion here on the forums, but I’m happily married to a nice Chinese girl (in China). Lots of sex and we are hitting the gym regularly so also hot body. Having a baby next year, so we are also keeping god happy at the same time. Not all women are bad, just 99% of them, you have to travel outside of the city centers… more importantly the western centers to find them.

http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XNzczOTIxMTUy.html?tpa=dW5pb25faWQ9MjAwMDAxXzEwMDE0M18wMV8wMQ

I cannot recommend Asia highly enough. If you were REALLY smart you could hit up Thailand or the phlips and have the best of both worlds till you find a girl you want to settle down with. I would bet that ‘weird feeling’ is due to the fact that this isn’t the way its supposed to be… men shouldn’t have to use escorts when all they want is to meet a decent woman for a fulfilling relationship. A great girl is out there for you and she’s a hell of a lot cheaper than an escort (a plane ticket to Mex from USA is only about $500).

Case in point:

and this:

And if you think Chinese women don’t have hypergami, here is one more:

“Having a car and having a house is all a women wish…”

Yeah, no hypergami at all.

The indifference to sex and romance is fantastic – I’ve never felt more free in my life.

I did nearly see this one earlier this year, she’d put up her minimum charge to £300, condom only for oral, nothing kinky and just straight sex, she marketed herself as “the thinking mans crumpet” well whatever, she was nearing 40 and looked it too.

I’d rather not help her fund her lavish lifestyle, it’s funny that many feminists say prostitutes are exploited and victims, when most choose to do it and get lots of money for little effort. It’s the men who have no other choice [except rape] but to pay for sex are the real victims, the less attractive men, the shy guys, the ones trapped in sexless marriages. But no one cares about men’s suffering or living a low quality of life, it’s all women with their more often than not, less trivial issues getting the most support.