MGTOWEnding power of the pussy? – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/ending-power-of-the-pussy/feed/ Tue, 09 Jun 2020 10:01:36 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/ending-power-of-the-pussy/page/211/#post-95730 <![CDATA[Ending power of the pussy?]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/ending-power-of-the-pussy/page/211/#post-95730 Fri, 07 Aug 2015 12:43:22 +0000 slowjo A recent topic under MGTOW Central was lack of intimacy and what to do. This question is for all the married men out there. How do you put a end to the power of the pussy game with your wife? A simple answer would be to leave her or find a FB but I am a man of my word so that is not a option.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/ending-power-of-the-pussy/#post-95738 <![CDATA[Reply To: Ending power of the pussy?]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/ending-power-of-the-pussy/#post-95738 Fri, 07 Aug 2015 13:03:36 +0000 Entropy

but I am a man of my word so that is not a option.

Therein lies your problem. She sure as f~~~ isn’t a “woman of her word” or you wouldn’t feel this way, right?

The worst part (for me) was realizing that intimacy you are craving doesn’t even exist. You may think it does in the beginning, but it’s a f~~~ing lie every time (she wants your resources, while you want her companionship).

How to play the power game? Indifference.

(Hate is not the opposite of love, indifference is)

"Compare your lives to mine and then kill yourselves" -BBR

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/ending-power-of-the-pussy/#post-95749 <![CDATA[Reply To: Ending power of the pussy?]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/ending-power-of-the-pussy/#post-95749 Fri, 07 Aug 2015 13:51:34 +0000 Soldier-Medic

The worst part (for me) was realizing that intimacy you are craving doesn’t even exist. You may think it does in the beginning, but it’s a f~~~ing lie every time (she wants your resources, while you want her companionship).

Exactly correct.

What marriage is supposed to be is a social contract in which two people promise, and keep the promise of loving, honoring, and respecting the other party.  At least that is what all of the literature, propaganda, and media tells us it’s supposed to be.

What it has always been is a binding legal contract in which a woman exercises her social worth (babies), and the man gets to work his ass off in order to support his wife and child(ren).  Love and intimacy are discussed on daytime talk shows, and rarely if ever, demonstrated.  Or rarely demonstrated after you “put a ring on it”.

To be honest, it sounds like you are already divorced.

Is it cheating if you find another job if your current employer stops paying you yet demands you continue to work for him?

Is it cheating to satisfy your needs with someone else if in your current relationship, your current partner isn’t meeting your needs?

Right or wrong doesn’t have anything to do with it.  We are talking about human nature and human needs.  We are also talking about breach of contract.

Great!  You’re a man of your word.  What is she?

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/ending-power-of-the-pussy/#post-95753 <![CDATA[Reply To: Ending power of the pussy?]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/ending-power-of-the-pussy/#post-95753 Fri, 07 Aug 2015 13:55:19 +0000 StandUpGuy

I am a man of my word so that is not a option

What a load of crap; sorry to be offensive but if you are really a man of your word then you would have to hold her accountable to the word she gave you; and stand up for yourself and your needs.

She is neglecting her duty and commitments. When she does not keep her word then there is nothing to keep. It really is that simple.

Marriage is a contract. So to make it clear: One party does not hold up to their part; and the other party still has to hold up to it is morally wrong. Get that strait.

My advice is to swallow a two red pills to wash down the blue one you just took.

Also it does not hurt to shame her. That is right shame without shame. Take all of her arguments of why she can not be a good wife and trow them back in her face; let her know what kind of POS does behaves the way she does.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/ending-power-of-the-pussy/#post-95757 <![CDATA[Reply To: Ending power of the pussy?]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/ending-power-of-the-pussy/#post-95757 Fri, 07 Aug 2015 14:01:52 +0000 slowjo Before we got married we both agreed on two things. One she said a marriage last forever. Two I said I am not going to beg for sex. And as you stated she has not lived up to her word. I told he four days ago that I wanted sex and still nothing. I bring it up everyday ever since. Her answers is she doesn’t want to fight about it, and still nothing. Since she has the power of the pussy I’m torn between giving up on sex and concentrating on other things or find a way even the odds between us.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/ending-power-of-the-pussy/#post-95758 <![CDATA[Reply To: Ending power of the pussy?]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/ending-power-of-the-pussy/#post-95758 Fri, 07 Aug 2015 14:02:39 +0000 ILiveAgain Please don’t take offence at what I’m about to say. I say it with tuff love ☺

Who is the idiot? Her or you?

Take your time with the answer. I can wait ?

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/ending-power-of-the-pussy/#post-95762 <![CDATA[Reply To: Ending power of the pussy?]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/ending-power-of-the-pussy/#post-95762 Fri, 07 Aug 2015 14:12:19 +0000 StandUpGuy I really have some sharp things to write; because I am tired of this BS augment I get from blue-pill men; so I will be as nice as I can.

I have one simple rule in a relationship. Put-out-or-get-out, it works both ways and more that just sex.

To have you come on this forum like we are some kind of emotional tampon for your woes blows me over. Again I do not write this with meanness; I am hoping to give you the strength to see that you matter; your needs matter; and she is taking your for a hurtful ride. She is hurting you and using your good points to do it. Stand up for yourself without apology.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/ending-power-of-the-pussy/#post-95774 <![CDATA[Reply To: Ending power of the pussy?]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/ending-power-of-the-pussy/#post-95774 Fri, 07 Aug 2015 14:44:10 +0000 WillGove Agree with all the comments. Standing by your word (which “was” my way – now long gone) is a fallacy. The bitches use their “perceived” power over us. Don’t give away your power by begging for sex. Walk away, SHOW her it doesn’t matter, throw it back in her face. If she doesn’t value you, why are you valuing her? Doesn’t make sense. There should be no power play for anything in a relationship. That is bulls~~~, plain and simple. For those of us who used to care about this stuff, we have learned our lesson. Now it’s time for you to learn your lesson. 50-50 or 0-0. Get out intact, make sure all your assets are protected. Don’t get manipulated by the bulls~~~ power they think they have.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/ending-power-of-the-pussy/#post-95789 <![CDATA[Reply To: Ending power of the pussy?]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/ending-power-of-the-pussy/#post-95789 Fri, 07 Aug 2015 15:11:45 +0000 Fermat Marriages do not last forever. The contract itself lasts forever but the actions that support the contract certainly don’t.  She is aware of that.  You are not. You mentally associate the longevity of your contract with the execution of the acts that support the contract. They are two different things.  When women say they want a marriage to last forever it means they want the contract to last forever but certainly don’t plan on making you happy forever.  Understand the difference.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/ending-power-of-the-pussy/#post-95803 <![CDATA[Reply To: Ending power of the pussy?]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/ending-power-of-the-pussy/#post-95803 Fri, 07 Aug 2015 15:33:10 +0000 Oldscoundrell The ability to do without is power. *quote by someone smarter than me.

Its a losing game. The only way to balance the beam is withhold your contributions to her, which will create resentment, which is like pen on paper…ot doesn’t erase.

Be sure and park your empathy for her somewhere out of reach and lose the keys. Because she has already done the same, if she ever had any to begin with.

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