In case anyone is ever in a situation were they need to explain how domestic abuse against men is actually a huge problem this video may help to get the point across in a tangible way.

Here’s the video

It’s just one of those stupid “social experiment” videos but this one actually manages to stumble across a serious issue. As you can see not only is no one willing to help a guy who is being assaulted by his girlfriend but these white knights are actually willing to attack him for the crime of defending himself.
I remember when one of my ex girlfriends slapped me in the face (because she was mad at me for walking away from her while she was screaming at me) how incredibly surprised she was when I packed up her s~~~ and kicked her out from my place. I remember actually having to explain to her that hitting me was no different than me hitting her and she was lucky I was too tired of her to even bother retaliating. I remember her saying with shock in her voice “but… you’re a guy. Girls slap guys.”

In your opinions what is the best course of action if a girl assaults you? Dish it back to play it fair, call the cops to prove a point or is it better to play it safe considering the prejudice against men when it comes to violence perpetrated by women?

In your opinions what is the best course of action if a girl assaults you?

In my experience with a fairly toxic girl disagreements would turn into arguments, arguments would turn into temper tantrums, words would turn into pushing, pushing would turn into kicks, etc…  In my case I never raised the game to the next level.  I still remember the first time we were arguing and I tried to walk past to leave and I got a shove in the chest and a finger in the face. Arguing with more than just words fundamentally changes the way two people relate with each other – things move into a different “dimension”.

I so wish I had the foresight to see that the terms of our relationship had changed.  When an otherwise intellectual or emotional argument turns physical, it is time to get the f~~~ out. The means to deal with basic problems have deteriorated to the point where pushing, slapping, and worse become “options”.  That is no way to deal with s~~~, and the root cause of this new confrontational dimension lays in all the psychological bulls~~~ that preceded the first shove/slap/whatever.

In other words, don’t “deal” with domestic abuse from women.  Leave them immediately.

In your opinions what is the best course of action if a girl assaults you?

First thing is preparation because most of them hit. I recommend first that you have cameras in your house.

Your reaction should definitely depend on your situation, severity of the assault, presence of white knights, in public, cameras,, witnesses, etc.

Have you ever tried to restrain a psychotic female? They bite, scratch, hair pull, kick, scream, punch etc. You will definitely incur more injuries by trying to restrain her, you might lose your nerve, or in the difficulty of restraining her, you may leave bruising on her wrists or arms which will go against you.

One thing I know for sure, if a woman hits you, you need to delete and ghost her, zero contact, change all your passwords, no contact directly or indirectly, give her absolutely no reason to ever talk to you again.

In Canada, I’ve had several women assault me, and the police did absolutely nothing except charge me on one false allegation(In this circumstance the girl actually threatened me that she would ruin my life and then she hit herself in the head multiple times to have injuries to show, it was insane),  she admitted to them later that she lied in her statement and the charge was dropped, any consequences for her lying, of course not.

I believe any situation involving abuse from women is a lose-lose, get out immediately, run far away.

When an otherwise intellectual or emotional argument turns physical, it is time to get the f~~~ out.

Yes, get the f~~~ out.

For the record, I’ve never hit one, but as Sean Connery says to not rule it out as an option.

As  side note I love Sean Connery for sticking to his guns on that one over the years. Every couple of years they ask him if he changed his mind yet (really what they mean is have we bullied you into being on our side yet) and every time he says it like, “no, sometimes they need a smack.”

How many time do we have to say this until it sinks in?

Don’t live with them, don’t marry them, don’t have kids with them …. if you must f~~~ them …

BUNNY RANCH

Once again for the stupid:

DON’T GO NEAR WOMEN

I’d rather holiday in Fukushima

However, if that’s not an option for whatever reason, it’s depends on the situation.  If it was like the woman in the video, she would not be able to make contact with me, not after the first slap at least.  Once it’s escalated to this point, adrenaline would kick in  (similar to the WK in the 2nd video) and there is no way she is going to ‘win’ this fight.  I would tell her she does not get to hit me and she needs to stop and walk away for her own good right now.  I’ve been told I can get rather scary when I’m angry and that will likely sink in that she’s made a rather poor choice in attacking me.

Of course, it also depends on whether she has a weapon or not, whether my kids are near by, and whether we are in public or not.  Regardless, if she takes a swing at me, there will be no second chances.  If she tells me she’s hit a man (or woman) in the past and felt he/she deserved in (non self defense or training), then she’s immediately done.

The way I see it, if you have a violent nature, man or woman, they you need to take up MMA or some other violent hobby as an outlet.  I’ve know several guys that did this and it helped keep them out of trouble. Having a violent nature is a gift, but like most gifts, it can be a curse if you don’t learn proper judgement.  As well, you need to learn the signs of when a situation is escalating and how to get out of the situation before any damage can occur.