The reason?  Neither of them want kids.  He already has a kid from a previous relationship, and she has zero desire to have any.  I believe one or both of them may have already had preventative operations to ensure they don’t have kids.  They’re basically living their lives, saving money and genuinely seem happy.  They don’t have a lot of “couple friends” because all of the ones who they did have had kids then moved on to presumably hang out with other couples who had children.

So outside of that, do you know anyone at all?  Be honest, I’m genuinely curious, because any time I hear “you should get married” and I ask “why, I don’t know any guys who are happy in that situation” I get told I’m wrong, I’m bitter, I don’t know enough people, or I hang out with the wrong people…

“Love and marriage, love and marriage go together like a horse and – ” wait a minute, I’m the HORSE?

F~~~ that

My thoughts exactly…

I don’t it. When they talk about, “how good it is”, it sounds like a, “jooooin ussss, join us in miseryyyyyy!” plea instead.

<iframe src=”https://www.youtube.com/embed/KAKaJE4gjYg?feature=oembed” width=”500″ height=”375″ frameborder=”0″ allowfullscreen=””></iframe> I don’t it. When they talk about, “how good it is”, it sounds like a, “jooooin ussss, join us in miseryyyyyy!” plea instead.

That’s truly the impression I get from friends who are married with kids and choking down their blue pills.  “Marriage isn’t so bad”, “I love the kids”, “My wife is pretty good” or other vague answers.  They don’t seem particularly enthusiastic when saying it.

If marriage is so f~~~ing great, why aren’t there any men strongly advocating for it?  Why can’t i think of any people in my network who are happy (from the man’s perspective).

Women would have us believe all men are just f~~~ing sex obsessed pigs who don’t know any better and are way happier being married because they’d be miserable on their own.

Funny thing is the one guy I know who is vastly regarded as a huge loser by most couples is really happy.  He works when he wants to, flies down to Cuba all the time for 14-21 day vacations (We’re Canadian we can do that) and gets his f~~~ on with tourists and some locals.  He says he doesn’t like Canadian girls unless he meets them on vacay (no strings attached).  He goes out every day and pursues his hobbies, works when he has to.  He’s mostly pretty content going his own way.  Everyone says he’s a huge loser becasue no wife/gf and he doesn’t work a FT job, because he’s happy with working when he has to for money.

One old high school friend i caught up with a few times recently looks tired and miserable. He loves his kids but the best he can come up with is that ‘this was the life he chose’ as if it’s a consolation prize. He never talks about his wife.

Another old friend & wife i bumped into in a bar recently who i thought had a solid relationship quietly told me to never get married when his wife was out of earshot.

A co-worker is living with a dead bedroom.

My father lost a fortune on his second marriage after his wife let her true personality out within the first few months and then pulled the plug via an affair when he refused to be tamed.

I could come up with many more.