I think men should organise themselves and collaborate to change the legal system. We don’t have power because we don’t act collectively and we don’t protect each other’s interest. A charity fund could also be raised to support men in legal proceedings. Also an FAQ could be set up, cases collected and successful defense documented.

Right now I’m going through divorce and almost all the lawyers I can find are either female or supports female perspective.

Can anybody here recommend a family lawyer in the UK who is also mgtow or can and willing to represent that perspective?

If you know anybody please let me know I am in dire need.

If you know a popular mgtow forum in the UK please also let me know.

I’m not sure about the UK, but here in the states I hear radio ads all the time from firms who advertise as representing men only and specializing in protecting your earnings and assets as much as possible. I would guess you can find similar firms in the UK, but would certainly defer to some other members that may know better.

I’m near the end of my own divorce and wish you luck brother!

Congratulations! I hope you can celebrate at the end of your divorce.

I am waiting to hear from some of the UK members on this forum.

We should collect the experiences and build up a database of divorce cases for learning to others. I think that would be a valuable service. If you interested to participate let me know.

Thanks. Congratulations! I hope you can celebrate at the end of your divorce. I am waiting to hear from some of the UK members on this forum. We should collect the experiences and build up a database of divorce cases for learning to others. I think that would be a valuable service. If you interested to participate let me know.

Hi Andy789

I’m in London and sorry to say that lawyer’s I’ve encountered are …. s~~~.

They’re only there for the bucks and will drag the ‘battle’ out in order to earn more.

As a guy you’re more or less f~~~ed.

What I can suggest is that you get the divorce started yourself. Start reading up and do your own legwork…. you are after all the expert on your situation.

You will be surprised at what you will learn and how far you can go.

Then hire a lawyer to ‘represent’ you in court  …. and you tell them what’s going to happen.

Arm yourself with knowledge and you will achieve much more than a lawyer.

Good luck …. and we are here 24/7

He was worth $96 million before the divorce. He had $48 million after the divorce & she had $48 million

Where can I read more about financial settlement in the UK? I can only find very high level information and mostly related to long marriage. Our one is short and we don’t have children.

I’m not up on your situation but there are many ways to skin a cat.

Google ‘divorce forensic accountants’ and various combinations thereof.

I think you can also go through mediation to settle and they will give you financial paperwork which you can use as your research guide.

I’ve not been down this road for a while … so best thing is take the first baby steps and come back when you’re snagged or befuddled ….. which means often 😀

http://ncfm.org/

Andy789 wrote:

I think men should organise themselves and collaborate to change the legal system. We don’t have power because we don’t act collectively and we don’t protect each other’s interest.

There’s something you can do to protect your own interests. You just have to be a little CREATIVE. I don’t know how far along your divorce is, but it’s a good bet she initiated it. In a whopping majority of cases, they do. But if you’re ahead of the curve still……

Make her cheat. Give her every reason to. Prepare for it. Get it on film (optional). Get a lawyer, give him the film and file for divorce based-on: “Gross infidelity” and file a civil suit AGAINST THE OTHER GUY for “Alienation of Affection”. A good lawyer, will easily win both cases for you.

You pay her NOTHING.
And HE will pay YOU.

Roll that case into a custody hearing etc….
And flatten your wife in legal fees.
You keep your children, wife gets NOTHING.

Then you get to raise your children as you see fit AND you get a nice settlement to spend on yourself. Hell, why not buy yourself a hot sports car……. and you can now look around for a younger, tighter, hotter more reasonable model to assist with your stress level.

Man wins.

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That’s just one example. May not work for you. Crazy Canuck’s link is another very good suggestion. I f~~~ing hate lawyers. Even when YOU pay them, they are not in your best interests. That’s why men have to get f~~~ing seriously creative and find alternatives. If you can, flatten your wife in fees. Make it as miserable an experience for her as possible. You have to not care if she ends up totally homeless. Bankrupt her.

Make her cheat. Give her every reason to. Prepare for it. Get it on film (optional). Get a lawyer, give him the film and file for divorce based-on: “Gross infidelity” and file a civil suit AGAINST THE OTHER GUY for “Alienation of Affection”. A good lawyer, will easily win both cases for you.

Canadian here. Never heard of “Gross Infidelity,” but “Alienation of Affectation” does ring a bell; I think I vaguely remember hearing something about it in Law class in high school.

However, if memory serves, it was abolished: something about “dehumanizing women” and “suggesting that women don’t have agency,” since if women do have agency, then it’s their fault they cheated and not someone else’s.