Last night I watched The Great Gatsby and just sat there quietly fuming and getting annoyed with myself over my past stupidity with women. Now I know its fiction, but if you haven’t already seen the movie, please watch it and see a good looking, rich, successful, sane man turn into the biggest quintessential white knight/mangina you could ever imagine. Watch it and ask yourself, what the hell is so great about this average looking, over indulged, shallow, husband cheating girl that makes him ultimately lose the lot after raising himself from nothing to great wealth. Then apply this to your own actions with woman.

Why do men do this? What is it in the male brain that makes so many of us act like this with women? A lot of mgtows like myself still like to indulge now and then and why not, but guys, you have to stop this pedestalising behaviour, it’s demeaning and completely the wrong approach. A man’s worth and contribution to this world far outstrips that of women, so it is men who should be up there on that pedestal with woman fawning and indulging our needs and desires. Do this and you will be taking your first massive step to becoming a man going his own way.

So really his entire adult life was wasted on the pursuit of a female, not just the part after he had become wealthy. And in the end he took a bullet for her and she just paddled away like a duck after a rainstorm.

Gatsby is 100% a polemic on pussy begging that young dudes would be wise to read and internalize.

This photo sums it up

Dazzle wrote:

Why do men do this? What is it in the male brain that makes so many of us act like this with women?

Dude its not a man’s fault. He has (we have) been socialized since the crib for that s~~~. It’s pounded into you since kindergarten and even earlier. Christ, I remember being in the 1ST GRADE(!) and my teacher – Mrs. Pierpont – made us all cut out a f~~~ing hearts from red paper and give it to one of the girls. What a c~~~, right?

Don’t know if you have read our front-end article “the water fountain”
http://www.mgtow.com/the-water-fountain/

.. but that s~~~ is REAL man. True story! And it translates into ALL mentalities.
Eggs are expensive. Sperm is cheap.
Everything – everything – flows from that fundamental premise.

The whole f~~~ing WORLD operates on that. Titanic. Valentine’s bulls~~~. “you probably can’t get a girlfriend”. Men should pay for a first date. Men “should” do this. Men should do that. Men should open doors. Men should give their jackets. Like she is the goddam prize and you exist to SERVE her. Wanna see more?

Look at that S~~~. It’s disgusting. And observe what she said very closely. You catch that? She openly admits inferiority. In the same statement – immediately after saying men should serve women – she says “instead of acting like little bitches with vaginas”. And there you have it. Little bitches with vaginas. She’s a goddam misogynist! and a misandrist all in one! She’s got no f~~~ing idea what she is saying. You should treat her like a superior…. but women are inferior. Dead giveaway that it’s ALL bulls~~~.

It takes a man 1/2 a lifetime to de-program himself from that s~~~ and to stop listening to women. Seriously. But it’s engrained into him. We are much too nice to women. All men are. If they didn’t have vaginas there would be a bounty on their heads. That’s true. A 4 year old girl will behave like you’re supposed to do s~~~ for her. A 6 year old girl in the Disney movie Enchanted says “Men only want one thing” and she has NO f~~~ing idea what that one thing is. She says it herself. “nobody will tell me”. She is socialized as early as SIX F~~~ING YEARS OLD. And so were you. It’s a very big problem bit it’s EASY to fix. It just takes a little flip of the script like a switch in your head. All you have to do is KNOW that it’s bulls~~~ and everything – the entire world and your outlook changes.

Eggs are expensive. Sperm is cheap.

As soon as a man understands he is nothing in the eyes of the world and she is EVERYTHING…. he already has the first step beat. Understanding your expected “role” as a pathetic groveling White Knight who exists to serve women is the first step to cracking the code. Once you have decoded it, you see the message everywhere. In female behavior. In social situations and expectations. In relationship dynamics and in general social attitudes. Only then can he can stop himself and retrain himself. He stops being a slave and becomes…. like Maximus in the film Gladiator. MGTOW all the way.